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namel3ss
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- Feb 2, 2024
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**TW rape, sh, miscarriage** I have been a burden as long as I remember. My dad told me that when I was born, he knew his child was broken. That's who Ive always been. I remember my early years of life only vaguely. It was simpler then, even though I was the sick kid, I was ignorantly blissful. I had severe anger issues which lead to many arguments within the family. Im an outcast in my house. They are all catholic worshipers with morals and values opposite from mine. I regret not appreciating the trivial issues I had pitied for myself, because everything took a turn at age 14. I had started high school, the big leagues. Im not sure why I attracted the crowd I did, perhaps I was too forgiving. I had begun smoking frequently. I didnt know the people I was with most of the time. I was an easy target. I guess that why he did that to me. That night he took the little joy I had left. Though I had been high, I remember the bruises he left and the soreness I felt the next morning. He was the reason I begun to put my worth into my body. And so it began a series of living as prey. At only 14 I had begun to sell my body for money to make back everything I lost to drugs. I had forgotten what love was. Until him. Lets call him G. G had saved me from myself. G was the first person I would confide in so completely. We werent perfect together, well I wasnt, but im sure of the love we shared. I developed extreme separation anxiety, including to the point of sh without him around. I had also carried over the hypersexual energy into our relationship, which was our biggest issue as he was raped as well which affected him in the opposite manner, he hated sex. We argued a lot. But I like to think there was a lot more good to us. Anyways, he proposed to me after 8 months together (with the ring i picked out, i loved control). We were sure that we had found our soulmate. We planned our life, lined up our apartment. Everything was amazing. Until one day, he didnt call me on the way home from work. Every negative possibility ran through my head. The worst one came true. The next morning he broke up with me. I had begged him for hours to keep the promise he made to me. But something changed in him that day. The next months (and now), the breakup destroyed me. 3 weeks after he left me, and after a period of feeling physically sick all the time, my friend suggested I take a pregnancy test. Me and G had a lot of unprotected (i was on birth control tho) sex over the course of the year. We had been lucky so many times. Until once I suppose, I admit I forgot often about the pills. When I told G I would be taking a test, it almost destroyed him. In that moment I decided I wouldnt tell him if the result was positive. I still wanted to protect him. I had been pregnant and alone. The stress was unbearable and I had stopped eating almost entirely. This had been a trend in the past weeks already, and really most of my life. About a week later, I lost the baby. That baby was the only part of him I had left. And now its gone. Its been 3 months now. I finially decided that I should let the baby's father have the chance to mourn it. When I told him, he said I should go to hell. Maybe I agree. I haven't stopped seriously contemplating suicide since. I wonder if his allegations that Ive gone crazy are true. It seems to be a word thats always used to describe me. Its hard to describe the mess in my head when I dont even know exactly why I feel this way. It has gotten worse these last days. I disassociate frequently, and cant focus on my college work. Sometimes I think maybe I could finally commit to something for once in my life. Maybe I actually could end it? but how? where? I feel stuck in the cyclical hell of a life. I still live at home, which is a big factor in the hold on suicide. I dont know what to do. Words of advice?