Celerity
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- Jan 24, 2021
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Just wondering what everybody's timelines were.
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Its not so much a timeline, as it is a set of ways to make things bearable. I will do my best, but sometimes things are out of our control, and one can only hold so much for so long.Just wondering what everybody's timelines were.
So you're undecided then. Or conditional.Its not so much a timeline, as it is a set of ways to make things bearable. I will do my best, but sometimes things are out of our control, and one can only hold so much for so long.
Oh, that was my bad. I guess put 2 years.I'm gonna CTB in 2022 a little over a year from now but not 2 years from now so I'm not sure what to vote for.
Are you absolutely sure your thinking is good? (Sometimes anxiety can distort our abilities to see things clearly...)There may or may not be someone on the way to kill me right now.
Yes, I can understand how it seems that way. It's a long story but my father is clinically insane and a mobster. He told me today he'd come and shoot me in the head if I didn't get out of the house. I'm pretty sure that's what he said among other things, I definitely heard "and put a gun to your fucking head". My mother stood outside with him on loudspeaker and kept harassing me letting him tell me he'd do things to me like he's still involved in my life or like I'm 14 and she can still scare me with that. The irony right? She tried to barge into my room at one point so he could tell me then. I had a tap running downstairs to try and block it out because she followed me there too and cornered me with the door shut. I'm not a freeloader, I told her I'd leave once I had money together and was so close, I had money coming in in only a few days from sales on ebay, but she's a sociopath so she manipulated him into believing I've been abusing her despite the fact I've purposefully not said a SINGLE WORD to her for over a month. Haven't interacted with her at all. I think she's angry at the fact I was actually making money and didn't need her, it drives her crazy. I don't know how she does it. He's unwell too and a murderer, so.Are you absolutely sure your thinking is good? (Sometimes anxiety can distort our abilities to see things clearly...)
In any case, I'm very, VERY sorry for what you're going through... and I'm wishing you great wellness...
I'm in the process of getting SN right now. I tried buying it, but it got caught in customs. I'm starting to think shallow water blackout would be a good option but I really want to get SN. If worst comes to worse there's always a train station.I picked "this year" because I would be more than happy with that decision but dying is not that easy, especially when I can't get the stuff I need such as SN because of the damn customs lol.
If I don't ctb next year, I will do my best to die before I'm 40! (I'm 33 right now).