Whats the thing you guys feel most guilty for?

[HYMMYH]

Ter confiado em algumas pessoas, ter levado tranquilamente o trauma que elas fizeram surgir na minha vida, sendo essa a causa das minhas crises e pensamentos suicidas cotidianos... enquanto a estes nenhuma consequencia foi prestada por mera falta de conhecimentos de outras pessoas...

 

[A_miStake_of_NATURE]

For being me and inability (or maybe unwillingness) to change

 

[Makko]

Obligation and uncertainty makes for a lousy couple.

People take on obligations to precisely to escape uncertainty. Obligation is the ultimate manipulation tactic that plays on the inborn human need for security by promising a fixed outcome as long as you fullfill X. Then if you don't get that outcome it's easily made sense of by saying that it's because you didn't fulfill X well enough. And failing your obligations is where guilt comes from. You'll never feel guilt if you don't feel obliged first.

 

[shy]

I feel guilty for hiding away at home for a long time, I mean I still do (maybe a little less). Anxiety has cost me many opportunities, being aware that it's all just in my head, but still acting on that anxiety make me feel guilty af.

 

[Ashu]

For wrecking my wife's life by marrying her.

 

[Ashu]

[... there could have been no other way for me to act in that exact set of circumstances, with the exact same mindset I possessed at that exact moment in time.]

The wording suggests to me that we may have gone looking for consolation on some of the same websites.

 

[Lost Magic]

I have a long list of things that I feel guilty for.

 

[Tortured_empath]

I don't have the guts to tell you, but it's killing me slowly, from the inside…

 

[Anónimo]

Being a creep years ago :(

 

[onlyanimalsaregood]

Being unlovable

 

[Alltheywanted]

I feel guilty for not killing myself when i was so close to do so. I could prevented so much suffer not only mine but also my family.