what's more important to you: love or money?

[mentalhealthfighter]

Definitely love. Have experienced what some call "true love" and let me tell you, there is NOTHING like it.

So what is true love?

 

[avoid_slow_death]

So what is true love?

Not something one can describe. It's an experience not a rationalization.

 

[settheory]

Chasing the moneybag > chasing players & hoes
But seriously, right now i would prefer money if it's sufficiently much.

 

[fdnglnslanlnvlonfbo]

I want to experience Love before I die.

 

[Foresight]

although nothing beats having someone who genuinely cares about you on the sole basis of human connection. a comrade. I want that. I know first hand how fucking nice that is. none of it now. sigh.

That's where it's at in life. I got a big win and got that out of my romantic partner. It won't save you from everything but it's better than money in my opinion.

 

[Of The Universe]

Yes.

 

[Chiisai]

Love cant buy food and it can also end in betrayal. If I had money, I can finally fulfill my plans to better human life then after that, choose to CTB rather than wait for things to turn sour. Haha

 

[Kristicide]

Money

 

[Konjac]

Money doesn't mean shit, material possessions are cool but they only make you happy to a certain extent. Love is the driving force behind our existence. Humans need some form of it in their lives whether it be platonic or romantic. Without love and connections there'd be no real point in living.

 

[Chovyfan]

Money. Once you have a lot of money you can focus on finding love or whatever you want after.

 

[motel rooms]

Love can't buy me money.

 

[Panna]

Love, ive always felt that way, but I actually experienced it for the first time a week ago and cant stop thinking about it. Having her laughing at your cynical personality and lame jokes, just watching her face lightening up, its gorgeous, even mundane things like walking about and just talking. Since then all the girls Ive seen just pale compared to her. I also truly understand now though how being denied that can drive a man to horrible things.

tldr: money pales compared to love with the right girl.

 

[allesistgut]

i definitely care more about love (not in the romantic sense). i mean money would be nice, but it could never mean more to me than a few certain people do.

 

[GreenTree]

Love by a country mile. Money means nothing. Yes we need it but millions of pounds doesn't get rid of mental anguish. I'd give my left arm too feel well. No amount of Money will heal me. Relying on love but losing faith in life.

 

[Death_of_a_Phynixx]

Money, riches, wealth, affluence, luxury for me. I am too introverted and untrusting to share my fragile, and now broken heart again. In my opinion, love starts with family and if family has failed to show and vibrate unconditional love to their child, then love is not something I need to survive. Sure loneliness is hurtful, but poverty, poverty is death for me.

 

[completely-done]

Money. Because money will get me N

 

[DontGiveAshiit]

well you cant buy N with love, can you?

 

[Of The Universe]

Depends on how you define money. What if we call money " the ability to live without fear of want,to protect against the vicissitudes ( ha!) of life,and take care of my loved ones." Money is wonderful seen in that respect. If I had been successful in life as its understood,life would've been so much better..

 

[astroworld]

I think I have people in my life that "love" me but I haven't been able to reciprocate the feeling. Like I can joke with them and try and share personal moments but it never means anything to me and hasn't for the longest time. I'd probably pick money since even though I don't really need it, it's better than trying to get someone to love me when I can't love them back

 

[miserable_existance]

i ain't got both btw

Money . definitely .

there are somethings money cant buy


but there are a lots and lots of things which money can buy which can bring happiness

 

[ncmxm]

It depends on what exactly you mean by "money"

If you mean a huge sum of money so I'll never have to work again I choose money

If you mean a high paying job then it depends on the job. If it's a high paying job I hate, I'd rather choose love, if it's a high paying job I love, I choose money

Not having money contributes more to my desire to ctb than not having love, and I don't think I would be very lovable without money anyway

(just realized that me not having a job rn probably influenced the answer)

 

[kcatchesthebus]

Wish that I had either

 

[R_N]

I look at love differently now so it has 0 value for me outside of family bonds.

Money would almost always make existence more bearable so I would take that if someone was handing it out lol.

 

[leavingthesoultrap]

You need money to survive.
Romantic love is fleeting and doesnt last
family love is different and important
money > romantic love
family love > money

 

[themisfell]

Definitely money.

 

[PA𝖨𝑁]

i believe that Both hare important, not comparable though, Money provides practical material means , but love provides the emotional, if I had to choose, I'd say love since it can give the sense of belonging and personally is what i always lacked in life.
Said love doesn't need to be romantic.

 

[penguinl0v3s]

Love, if it lasts. There's nothing better than the love of a strong friendship.

 

[natthebrat]

Love, however love isn't possible without money sadly. No one wants to be with a loser like me who doesn't make enough of it to be independent. Well, my gf for some reason says she does, but I know she'll get fed up with me eventually.

 

[killmepleasefast]

i dont have both

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

To me money is more important . Kinda hard to buy nembutal , or drive somewhere remote to ctb with love. imo love only adds distractions from my top goal which is ctb asap, and then the other things i have to do like fix problems. plus imo love just adds problems . I've seen so many on this site want to kill themselves because their romantic partner left them. imo everything in life creates problems . for example a romantic relationsip as i stated takes away time and energy from making money , ctb , sleeping eating better etc things that can actually help me. . Also this is just the start and I can write a book on just this. but if i'm dating a woman i will have the added pressure of thinking and acting "well" . i feel a constant pressure to act a certain way not just in romantic relationships , dates, but in front of other humans. even here i don't post everything i found out about how bad life is how a human is just cells ( "they'll think i'm crazy " yeah but the science does say that we are just cells). but a romantic relationship there is even more pressure :" did i say the right thing" " is she thinking of someone else" endless problems . plus living with another human is hell . i just want to do what I want to do . i don't want to be dependent on another human nor feel anything for anything in this horrible world and life. my loyalty is to my real love there is only one : non-existence forever / death what else can prevent all suffering pain problems for me ? money can help some and to ctb but relationships to me add problems , suffering and pain especially the unberable pain of the breakup..... that's paragraph one out of a 10000 page book : life is hell non-existence is the ultimate bliss i could write.

Why would i want to be dependent , subservient or a slave or have another human even influence me ? for what? relationships imo are constant suffering "should i text them:" did i text them too much? did i say the wrong thing then? then the unbearable constant pain of the breakup. imo all relationships cuase problems and suffering in fact most things in life do .life really is hell

non-existence forever > health > money > love and everything else.

if i get non-existence then don't need money health love nothing.

If i can't get non-existence yet then health and money can take care of a lot problems. imo most other things like love cause additional and addiCTtional problems . note sleep is important for health and thinking and focus . insomnia is torture one of 100's in life