Venting What's left when your friends chose your sexual abuser over you?

[Arb]

My ex boyfriend molested me both time we met up irl, he kept forcing himself onto me and doesn't even deny it... I have evidence of all his confessions after I confronted him twice after both meetups... Why did I think this man actually understood his mistake?

Yet people I thought who were close friends don't even want to make the right choice and stop interacting with him, even when I showed all the proof... Why do people keep doing this, why do my friends keep doing this?

It doesn't feel worth it, I wish I could attempt again like I did last time, there's a sick side of me that wishes I'd survive just to send a message to those "friends" who picked his side. It hurts so much, I'm sick of the betrayal.

 

[Worndown]

It sounds like you will be needing better friends. There are likely legal issues for him if you pursue them. You might have been hanging out with a toxic group any only now see them for who they really are.

 

[FuneralCry]

That sounds like a really horrible situation, it's awful how humans just create so much suffering, I guess that after all you cannot trust and rely on people in this world.

 

[Arb]

It sounds like you will be needing better friends. There are likely legal issues for him if you pursue them. You might have been hanging out with a toxic group any only now see them for who they really are.

I have been considering legal actions, its going to be a long process because this is someone who lives outside my country but it's happened both my country and in his country.

Just seems to be my luck with friends, I keep befriending people who turns their back once I get abused really badly or thinks being neutral is the way to go, its exhausting and I'm losing faith in people.