What’s it mean when you like the idea of sex more than the reality of it?

[Kramer]

It was also meh for me. Masturbation is 100% superior. I orgasm 100% of the time, not STD or HIV concerns and no pregnancy! Plus my imagination is great.

My imagination is good too but I want to see how well real life sex compares. The times I've had sex were long ago when I was more awkward.

 

[Mer]

My imagination is good too but I want to see how well real life sex compares

Depends on the person you want to sleep with, I suppose.

As a woman, I have to worry about pregnancy. And since I haven't been on birth control for nearly a decade... real sex is basically off-limits for me now. I don't want to go back onto BC and a condom also isn't good enough for me. So in my eyes, real sex just isn't worth the risk. I'd rather stay home and use my favorite toys. Safer, easier, and cheap too.