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Hurting my ex-boyfriend. I did a variety of stuff to him that is unforgivable - cheating, harassment, posted his nudes on 4chan, etc. I will never forgive myself for that.
Almost nothing is unforgivable (keeping in mind that its not necessarily his (ur xbfs) forgiveness you need)
I'll tell you I think there are monsters inside everyone that we all let out or lose control of at some point or another... I used to be a sort of self righteous, wouldn't admit to regretting anything, always acted on my current honor code type of person, so secondarily rather judgemental of others mistakes. Turns out I didn't look hard enough in the mirror while I had ot so easy and didn't know it... and when things got really rough and spun out of control for me I ended up doing some really evil stuff, waaay worse than anything you listed... I literally felt the sadistic devil inside me, and willingly took joy and pleasure in some almost blameless peoples suffering while I let this monster loose through my mind and body. I never thought I was capable of those things, and needless to say, I dont look down or judge on many other people's mistakes these days, at least I can try to approach them with some sort of understanding and empathy
Ruined my career due to bad judgement and opiates
I can definitely relate to this. Thinking at age 18 I was (or anyone could be) 'too intelligent to become addicted to opiates,' so i felt the right to play with them and experiment recreationally with impunity... this was in retrospect, an extremely dumb, adolescent move in my part.
It took longer to snowball than I thought, and thus has finally crushed and trampled everything I have built and worked for since.
I'll add though, if this was the only issue, I think I might be able to hang around and still not ctb just yet... but as things are, it's just another straw on the camel's back or whatever.
Ruined my career due to bad judgement and opiates
I can definitely relate to this. Thinking at age 18 I was (or anyone could be) 'too intelligent to become addicted to opiates,' so i felt the right to play with them and experiment recreationally with impunity... this was in retrospect, an extremely dumb, adolescent move in my part.
It took longer to snowball than I thought, and thus has finally crushed and trampled everything I have built and worked for since.
I'll add though, if this was the only issue, I think I might be able to hang around and still not ctb just yet... but as things are, it's just another straw on the camel's back or whatever.