Discussion What funeral services / arrangements do you have in mind, or you would prefer if you successfully CTB ( if any )

[letsnotmakeittoo22]

Pretty much as the title says.

Have any of you thought about this? And if so do you have any preferences or opinions on how you would or wouldn't want your funeral to be held?

 

[slowlybreaking]

i personally don't care but i do want my body to be cremated as my last will, preferably so my urn can be near my boyfriend's but i don't think his or my family will be comfortable with that, which is why i don't have much expectations.

i do feel if there were to be a vigil my house will be crowded as hell because i know i am very much loved by many and that feels kinda eh lol

 

[LastNite]

Cooked to ashes. I prefer no seasonings. So that means no stone, no grave, and no gathering.

 

[outrider567]

My Will states no funeral to be held

 

[Canto XIII]

The most unshowy, mundane thing possible. A short funeral with few people, buried quickly in the local graveyard and then everyone straight home. I'm agnostic, but I don't know if anyone would care, and the simplest thing would maybe be a Catholic funeral anyway, so I'm fine with that as well.

 

[NickyKymJelly]

Roll the dice on my casket and gamble.
Jokes aside, I would want to be cremated. I don't think I'll be able to avoid them gathering, so just make it quick. I wouldn't mind having my ashes spread though (so that I'm not stuck in my house anymore). Purple is my favorite color, so maybe a purple urn or a few purple flowers throughout the reception.

 

[Canto XIII]

The most unshowy, mundane thing possible. A short funeral with few people, buried quickly in the local graveyard and then everyone straight home. I'm agnostic, but I don't know if anyone would care, and the simplest thing would maybe be a Catholic funeral anyway, so I'm fine with that as well.

On the other hand, if Berlusconi got state funerals, I don't see why I should't too.

 

[Kokonoe]

i don't want a funeral. i don't even want my death to be acknowledged. just throw my corpse out with the trash.

 

[DeathSweetDeath]

None.

 

[dannyilyy]

Need to be turned into ash and have all my family roll me up in a joint.

In all seriousness— I really want them to cremate me. Preferably, maybe in an urn to have me around the house, next to my dead brother. I'll still miss my family, especially my sweet older sister. I really want my sister to put some of me in those heart-shaped necklaces, so I can be with her for as long as she lives.

 

[starboy2k]

I dont need fake tears dropping onto my corpse.
Burn me.

 

[limenlux]

The thought of receiving a proper Catholic funeral mass comforts me despite how ambivalent I currently feel about my religious beliefs. In any case I don't think I'll be getting one.

 

[time2gosoon]

I really don't care what they do with this body.

 

[dust-in-the-wind]

No services, waste of $.
Green burial so my rotting corpse can give back to nature. That is how I will live on.

 

[bhaloo]

I want to die in a remote place (like a jungle) so that my body rots there or is eaten by wildlife.

 

[supremacyofdeath]

Hopefully cremated and just tossed in the trash. I can't think of a single person who'd want to keep my ashes anyways.

 

[ZwartHartje]

Taken back by the wilderness, preferably, where I belong, like the other animals who were my family. There'd be no one to attend a funeral anyway.

 

[GodChallengesMe]

I don't give a damn about it. Let them do whatever they want. I won't attend it anyway even if I remain here for a while after death.

 

[Forveleth]

Funerals are for the living. I do not care what people do after I die. I bought a grave and shroud, but that is more convenience for people left behind rather than my particular wishes.

 

[Shrub]

A funeral where there's no service, where my undiscovered body lies in the middle of nowhere, and my death is logged as a missing persons report

 

[buriedinmyhead]

Absolutely nothing. I'd prefer not to be found at all. If my family desperately needs to do something, they can just get me cremated and stick the ashes in the china cabinet I guess.

 

[xXiloveyouXx]

Burial shroud, in a grave with a headstone, and for there to be sunflowers left. Though I have a strong feeling that for financial reasons my family will ignore my request, not have a funeral, and cremate me. I also included this in my note and said if they don't listen to my request and do cremate me, nobody is allowed to have my ashes and I want them dumped into the ocean by the lighthouse like.

 

[dandayooo]

i wish i could have my body cremated and the ashes be thrown anywhere in nature and everyone would just forget i ever existed

 

[letsnotmakeittoo22]

My Will states no funeral to be held

Thinking of doing the same and writing as such in my final note. I don't deserve to be celebrated. I just want to be out into the earth and give back for once. I'm tired. My time is coming.

Absolutely nothing. I'd prefer not to be found at all. If my family desperately needs to do something, they can just get me cremated and stick the ashes in the china cabinet I guess.

First. I love your Charlie pfp. Secondly. This is. Y first method. Like a natural decomposition hanging in a secluded forest. If I where to be found, I would not want a funeral and a bare bones burial, with no grave stone.

 

[EmployedHikikomori]

A while ago, I looked into having my body be stuffed in a tree-pod. I'd also preferred to be unmarked and have it all handled by a power of attorney, no one in family should know.

I also don't want to have a funeral. I know my parents would want that, but no. Just bury me and move on with your lives.

 

[DeathSweetDeath]

Jk, I want to be cremated.

 

[canidiealreadyy]

Pretty much as the title says.

Have any of you thought about this? And if so do you have any preferences or opinions on how you would or wouldn't want your funeral to be held?

i would prefer a closed casket and not having a wake. i don't care what anyone does beyond that but i especially don't want to be cremated.

 

[letsnotmakeittoo22]

i would prefer a closed casket and not having a wake. i don't care what anyone does beyond that but i especially don't want to be cremated.

Same! As long as I'm buried and can give myself back to the earth I'll be ok.

 

[iguazo falls]

i just want to be cremated and sent out into the wind, but i have a hunch that my family would argue about it and theyd bury me fucking naked with the quran and disrespect anyone who is actually involved in my life in the way theyd talk about me. i wish there was a surefire way of making it legally happen by the state so noone else has to do it or pay for it.