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letsnotmakeittoo22

letsnotmakeittoo22

I Have No Long Term Plans For This Body
Nov 24, 2024
13
Pretty much as the title says.

Have any of you thought about this? And if so do you have any preferences or opinions on how you would or wouldn't want your funeral to be held?
 
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slowlybreaking

slowlybreaking

uhhhhhhh
Jul 9, 2026
11
i personally don't care but i do want my body to be cremated as my last will, preferably so my urn can be near my boyfriend's but i don't think his or my family will be comfortable with that, which is why i don't have much expectations.

i do feel if there were to be a vigil my house will be crowded as hell because i know i am very much loved by many and that feels kinda eh lol
 
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LastNite

LastNite

Sleepless Zombie
Mar 31, 2025
818
Cooked to ashes. I prefer no seasonings. So that means no stone, no grave, and no gathering.
 
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outrider567

Illuminated
Apr 5, 2022
3,035
My Will states no funeral to be held
 
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Canto XIII

Canto XIII

Member
Jul 4, 2026
89
The most unshowy, mundane thing possible. A short funeral with few people, buried quickly in the local graveyard and then everyone straight home. I'm agnostic, but I don't know if anyone would care, and the simplest thing would maybe be a Catholic funeral anyway, so I'm fine with that as well.
 
NickyKymJelly

NickyKymJelly

Member
Jul 1, 2026
10
Roll the dice on my casket and gamble.
Jokes aside, I would want to be cremated. I don't think I'll be able to avoid them gathering, so just make it quick. I wouldn't mind having my ashes spread though (so that I'm not stuck in my house anymore). Purple is my favorite color, so maybe a purple urn or a few purple flowers throughout the reception.
 
Canto XIII

Canto XIII

Member
Jul 4, 2026
89
The most unshowy, mundane thing possible. A short funeral with few people, buried quickly in the local graveyard and then everyone straight home. I'm agnostic, but I don't know if anyone would care, and the simplest thing would maybe be a Catholic funeral anyway, so I'm fine with that as well.
On the other hand, if Berlusconi got state funerals, I don't see why I should't too.
 
Kokonoe

Kokonoe

Worthless Doll
Apr 20, 2023
165
i don't want a funeral. i don't even want my death to be acknowledged. just throw my corpse out with the trash.
 
dannyilyy

dannyilyy

The Jack Twist
Jul 10, 2026
10
Need to be turned into ash and have all my family roll me up in a joint.

In all seriousness— I really want them to cremate me. Preferably, maybe in an urn to have me around the house, next to my dead brother. I'll still miss my family, especially my sweet older sister. I really want my sister to put some of me in those heart-shaped necklaces, so I can be with her for as long as she lives.
 
starboy2k

starboy2k

“I’ve been digging my own grave for years”
May 21, 2025
642
I dont need fake tears dropping onto my corpse.
Burn me.
 

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