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letsnotmakeittoo22

letsnotmakeittoo22

I Have No Long Term Plans For This Body
Nov 24, 2024
31
Pretty much as the title says.

Have any of you thought about this? And if so do you have any preferences or opinions on how you would or wouldn't want your funeral to be held?
 
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slowlybreaking

slowlybreaking

I couldn't save you...
Jul 9, 2026
53
i personally don't care but i do want my body to be cremated as my last will, preferably so my urn can be near my boyfriend's but i don't think his or my family will be comfortable with that, which is why i don't have much expectations.

i do feel if there were to be a vigil my house will be crowded as hell because i know i am very much loved by many and that feels kinda eh lol
 
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LastNite

LastNite

Sleepless Zombie
Mar 31, 2025
888
Cooked to ashes. I prefer no seasonings. So that means no stone, no grave, and no gathering.
 
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outrider567

Illuminated
Apr 5, 2022
3,042
My Will states no funeral to be held
 
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Canto XIII

Canto XIII

Bottom of the barrel
Jul 4, 2026
316
The most unshowy, mundane thing possible. A short funeral with few people, buried quickly in the local graveyard and then everyone straight home. I'm agnostic, but I don't know if anyone would care, and the simplest thing would maybe be a Catholic funeral anyway, so I'm fine with that as well.
 
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NickyKymJelly

NickyKymJelly

Member
Jul 1, 2026
11
Roll the dice on my casket and gamble.
Jokes aside, I would want to be cremated. I don't think I'll be able to avoid them gathering, so just make it quick. I wouldn't mind having my ashes spread though (so that I'm not stuck in my house anymore). Purple is my favorite color, so maybe a purple urn or a few purple flowers throughout the reception.
 
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Canto XIII

Canto XIII

Bottom of the barrel
Jul 4, 2026
316
The most unshowy, mundane thing possible. A short funeral with few people, buried quickly in the local graveyard and then everyone straight home. I'm agnostic, but I don't know if anyone would care, and the simplest thing would maybe be a Catholic funeral anyway, so I'm fine with that as well.
On the other hand, if Berlusconi got state funerals, I don't see why I should't too.
 
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Kokonoe

Kokonoe

Worthless Doll
Apr 20, 2023
224
i don't want a funeral. i don't even want my death to be acknowledged. just throw my corpse out with the trash.
 
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DeathSweetDeath

Enlightened
Nov 12, 2025
1,760
None.
 
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dannyilyy

dannyilyy

The Jack Twist
Jul 10, 2026
9
Need to be turned into ash and have all my family roll me up in a joint.

In all seriousness— I really want them to cremate me. Preferably, maybe in an urn to have me around the house, next to my dead brother. I'll still miss my family, especially my sweet older sister. I really want my sister to put some of me in those heart-shaped necklaces, so I can be with her for as long as she lives.
 
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starboy2k

starboy2k

“I’ve been digging my own grave for years”
May 21, 2025
673
I dont need fake tears dropping onto my corpse.
Burn me.
 
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limenlux

limenlux

Impermanent
Jul 12, 2026
89
The thought of receiving a proper Catholic funeral mass comforts me despite how ambivalent I currently feel about my religious beliefs. In any case I don't think I'll be getting one.
 
time2gosoon

time2gosoon

Member
Jul 12, 2026
12
I really don't care what they do with this body.
 
dust-in-the-wind

dust-in-the-wind

Animal Lover
Aug 24, 2024
1,115
No services, waste of $.
Green burial so my rotting corpse can give back to nature. That is how I will live on.
 
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bhaloo

Member
Jan 19, 2025
77
I want to die in a remote place (like a jungle) so that my body rots there or is eaten by wildlife.
 
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supremacyofdeath

supremacyofdeath

Member
Apr 16, 2025
79
Hopefully cremated and just tossed in the trash. I can't think of a single person who'd want to keep my ashes anyways.
 
ZwartHartje

ZwartHartje

Experienced
May 5, 2026
200
Taken back by the wilderness, preferably, where I belong, like the other animals who were my family. There'd be no one to attend a funeral anyway.
 
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GodChallengesMe

Student
Mar 31, 2025
111
I don't give a damn about it. Let them do whatever they want. I won't attend it anyway even if I remain here for a while after death.
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
4,743
Funerals are for the living. I do not care what people do after I die. I bought a grave and shroud, but that is more convenience for people left behind rather than my particular wishes.
 
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Shrub

Shrub

Member
Feb 20, 2026
15
A funeral where there's no service, where my undiscovered body lies in the middle of nowhere, and my death is logged as a missing persons report
 
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buriedinmyhead

buriedinmyhead

If pain can purify the heart, mine will be pure
Mar 24, 2026
221
Absolutely nothing. I'd prefer not to be found at all. If my family desperately needs to do something, they can just get me cremated and stick the ashes in the china cabinet I guess.
 
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xXiloveyouXx

xXiloveyouXx

Nothing
Jul 27, 2024
189
Burial shroud, in a grave with a headstone, and for there to be sunflowers left. Though I have a strong feeling that for financial reasons my family will ignore my request, not have a funeral, and cremate me. I also included this in my note and said if they don't listen to my request and do cremate me, nobody is allowed to have my ashes and I want them dumped into the ocean by the lighthouse like.
 
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dandayooo

dandayooo

And then I'll be nothing forever
Jun 8, 2026
20
i wish i could have my body cremated and the ashes be thrown anywhere in nature and everyone would just forget i ever existed
 
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letsnotmakeittoo22

letsnotmakeittoo22

I Have No Long Term Plans For This Body
Nov 24, 2024
31
My Will states no funeral to be held
Thinking of doing the same and writing as such in my final note. I don't deserve to be celebrated. I just want to be out into the earth and give back for once. I'm tired. My time is coming.
Absolutely nothing. I'd prefer not to be found at all. If my family desperately needs to do something, they can just get me cremated and stick the ashes in the china cabinet I guess.
First. I love your Charlie pfp. Secondly. This is. Y first method. Like a natural decomposition hanging in a secluded forest. If I where to be found, I would not want a funeral and a bare bones burial, with no grave stone.
 
EmployedHikikomori

EmployedHikikomori

Member
Jul 13, 2026
32
A while ago, I looked into having my body be stuffed in a tree-pod. I'd also preferred to be unmarked and have it all handled by a power of attorney, no one in family should know.

I also don't want to have a funeral. I know my parents would want that, but no. Just bury me and move on with your lives.
 
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DeathSweetDeath

Enlightened
Nov 12, 2025
1,760
1785001124029

Jk, I want to be cremated.
 
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canidiealreadyy

canidiealreadyy

coolest ever
Feb 12, 2024
37
Pretty much as the title says.

Have any of you thought about this? And if so do you have any preferences or opinions on how you would or wouldn't want your funeral to be held?
i would prefer a closed casket and not having a wake. i don't care what anyone does beyond that but i especially don't want to be cremated.
 

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