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Moonomyth

Student
Feb 6, 2020
195
They're fine. My mother is supportive and helpful. My father and I have a good rapport even if he's not exactly supportive - I'm not sure he knows how to be that.

My relationship with my father was strained until I got into college, at which point we sort of picked up a lot of the same hobbies. "You left just as you were getting interesting," as Henry Jones Sr. would put it. After my attempt, he said one of the things he always admired about me was my resilience; apparently, the fact I'd never complained much meant he thought well of me. On a half-full day I take that to mean that even when I told them about a personal setback in my life, I never moped and always made sure I had a plan to present to them to show how I could overcome it, and they would help out. I suppose that is a kind of resilience if it looked like I was always picking myself back up.

On half-empty days, it meant he really wasn't observant of what was going on in my life, or I was doing too good of job of hiding it.
 
Into The Void

Into The Void

Student
Mar 10, 2021
196
It changed quite dramatically over time. My dad passed away many years ago, and I wish I would have connected more with him before he died of a heart attack. Even though my dad hit me as a child I knew he loved me but didn't know how to express it. And he was there for me when I really needed him.
 
Trisolaris

Trisolaris

Arcanist
Dec 11, 2018
447
Once I used to be angry at them for many things. Now I don't care anymore.
 
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GreenTree

Mage
Jun 1, 2020
568
Love my parents. There the best. Im Sad that I'm bringing stress on them.
 
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Lmd

Lmd

Elementalist
Jul 12, 2020
812
Of the dumbest people I know. The only lessons I've learned from them has been how to tie my shoes and little else. As a child I was sick and sad because I received abuse from them but when I grew up and saw everything with another perspective It was just an "ah..." I love them but I don't understand how they managed to stay alive. I think they don't know either.
 
Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
20,678
I hate my dad. He sucks and I never want to see him again unless he's gone fully senile so I can tell him to his face how much I hate him.

My mom is a bit of an airhead but so am I. She's also a bit lazy but again, so am I. I don't blame her for her being the way she is at all nor do I hate her even though she's a very strong Christian.
 
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GarageKarate07

GarageKarate07

Wizard
Aug 18, 2020
665
I just had a 40th birthday. My family is 30 minutes away. They know im in a bad spot and sad and stressed and unemployed. Not one member of my family called. Not my mom. Not one of my 7 siblings. Not my mom's husband. Also no friends called either. So yeah, they are fucking stupid. That's what animals do.
 
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DeadButDreaming

DeadButDreaming

Specialist
Jun 16, 2020
362
My parents are stupid but well-meaning.
 
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Lilmeowssi

Lilmeowssi

I just want peace
Sep 6, 2019
77
My dad is just a manipulative, narcissistic, abusive asshole.
He thinks he's doing everything for our family, so that WE are happy but that's not true at all.
My mom is one of the strongest people I know. I love her so so much. I'm only mad that she gave birth to me and passed her mental illness onto me. I feel like she would've been better off without me in her life.
 
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