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badgame

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Dec 10, 2020
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For me it's mainly the physicality of the act like I'm very squeamish & there's so many sights sounds smells etc I absolutely cannot stand which is another reason why I can't be in real-life relationships. Not to mention that it's treated as some super-hyped up thing that ppl apparently think is the best thing since sliced bread instead of acknowledging as it being just a part of life like everything else is where some people like it some dont some don't consider it a big deal. It's a "it's only good as a concept" sort of thing I guess
 
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Kramer

Kramer

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Oct 27, 2020
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badgame said:
For me it's mainly the physicality of the act like I'm very squeamish & there's so many sights sounds smells etc I absolutely cannot stand which is another reason why I can't be in real-life relationships. Not to mention that it's treated as some super-hyped up thing that ppl apparently think is the best thing since sliced bread instead of acknowledging as it being just a part of life like everything else is where some people like it some dont some don't consider it a big deal. It's a "it's only good as a concept" sort of thing I guess
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Guy or girl?

What sights are bad if you’re attracted to the person? The last and only 2 women I was with didn’t smell. Though the first one’s breath wasn’t bad but it irritated me.
kappa said:
Males not knowing what a clitoris is, and thinking porn is real.
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Isn’t amateur porn realistic?
 
kappa

kappa

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needforrelief said:
Guy or girl?

What sights are bad if you’re attracted to the person? The last and only 2 women I was with didn’t smell. Though the first one’s breath wasn’t bad but it irritated me.

Isn’t amateur porn realistic?
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That’s not what they were watching or liked.
 
clownangel

clownangel

Student
Sep 25, 2019
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I could go on about this for a while I’m sure :ahhha: Sweat/clean up/etc, ick. Sensory nightmare. Being out of breath (in an unsexy way) & joint pain/etc from whatever position or repetitive motion.

kappa said:
Males not knowing what a clitoris is, and thinking porn is real.
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This, and the awkward jabbing maneuvers that people think are somehow a good idea cuz they’re in porn too. Throw the whole thing out.
 
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Kramer

Kramer

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kappa said:
I’m not mad. But if they were making no noise at all they probably weren’t having a good time.
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They made soft sounds.
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Hm I'm not a screamer like some others. It varies between people. Doesn't necessarily mean it wasn't enjoyable for them.
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Yeah for some it’s mostly internal like a head buzz. I wish I had gone for the others I had a chance with, but whenever I have a chance, I become terrified of STDs or pregnancy.
 
HopelessBorderline

HopelessBorderline

Alive but not living
Oct 29, 2020
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That it gets boring with the same person. The passion isn't there any more. The excitement disappears. I don't like the saying "spice it up" because it doesn't matter what you introduce to your significant other, it's still a been there done that. Don't get me wrong, it's still good sometimes, but nothing beats the feeling of animalistic passion with somebody you've been craving.
 
Red

Red

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Apr 10, 2019
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Guys just expecting you to be turned on because they want you to be, not actually doing anything to help you get there either as they’ve watched too much porn where they’re already “ready to go”.
Thinking that slobbing round in joggers n a stained t-shirt, belching n farting, has no bearing on your desire for them.
Not being sure if you’re even going to get a chance to climax because he’s already popped his load way ahead of time as the 69 initiated for “equal foreplay” was actually a hell of a lot more stimulating for him than it was for you; the very real possibility that you might come away from this encounter having gained nothing but a mess to clean up.

Those are a few off the top of my head but there are more reasons why it’s just annoying from the female perspective.
 
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NightmareTour

NightmareTour

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May 13, 2020
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I've literally never slept with someone who actually cares whether I enjoy it or not. Good at making sure other people enjoy themselves, very bad at my own end of it. I guess that's usually a problem women have, so I'm kind of an outlier there. Feels shitty though.

Self consciousness also kind of ruins the experience.

Oh yeah, and now I hate people touching me or getting too close to me. And if I tried to do anything sexual, the memories it would bring back would ruin it. That's a great big nope from me
 
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