GenesAndEnvironment
Autistic loser
- Jan 26, 2021
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I am challenging myself to stop crying, my goal is to never cry again. The reason for this goal is to reduce my emotional pain by way of repression. What I'm doing now when I start to feel sad is basically grasping at straws and using improvised and haphazard strategies to not have any tears start running. So the strats I am using are:
1. Reminding myself of my no-crying-streak and goal.
2. Tilting my head upwards to not have any water come out from the tear ducts.
3. Minimizing whatever is causing the sadness.
4. Mindfulness techniques, focusing on sensations or external objects.
5. Making "confident" and "nonchalant" facial expressions.
(6). Over-doing any strategy will backfire since that reinforces the underlying belief that whatever is causing the sadness is important.
I know that many here are good at repressing their emotions, so I am interested in hearing how this is achieved in different ways.
1. Reminding myself of my no-crying-streak and goal.
2. Tilting my head upwards to not have any water come out from the tear ducts.
3. Minimizing whatever is causing the sadness.
4. Mindfulness techniques, focusing on sensations or external objects.
5. Making "confident" and "nonchalant" facial expressions.
(6). Over-doing any strategy will backfire since that reinforces the underlying belief that whatever is causing the sadness is important.
I know that many here are good at repressing their emotions, so I am interested in hearing how this is achieved in different ways.