Wanting to ctb but partners home all the time

[commongardensnailll]

I don't know what to do. I've got all I need for sn but my partners currently not working and at home all the time. I'm thinking of booking a hotel but don't want him to get alarmed

 

[idelttoilfsadness21]

I think getting a hotel would be great or finding somewhere in the house he has never been or yours where you can be equally telling him you'll be gone for sometime (not sharing what you'll do or lying) for you to have the privacy you want :') but please don't let him feel worried and share with him too you'll be gone for said few hours and come back :')

 

[commongardensnailll]

I think getting a hotel would be great or finding somewhere in the house he has never been or yours where you can be equally telling him you'll be gone for sometime (not sharing what you'll do or lying) for you to have the privacy you want :') but please don't let him feel worried and share with him too you'll be gone for said few hours and come back :')

I will think about it but I don't want him to call the Police or tell my mum

 

[idelttoilfsadness21]

I will think about it but I don't want him to call the Police or tell my mum

It's very hard I know :')) I truly wish you all the best and take your time to figure things out evenly. If he does report, tell him you're getting groceries and if he tells your mom, tell him you will reach him first before her to ease his mind if he worries, while we know the sad truth behind closed doors :'))
Good luck and all the best