piddincir
Student
- Nov 6, 2023
- 180
Hey bro, look I don't know your story and what you're going through but I can say a couple of things from personal experience. My wife recently killed herself, it's something she had in her and had a lifelong battle with mental health issues but she was struggling with debt issues in the end along with many other thingsI get you don't know my life. But I was relatively close with my family or so I thought. My parents are pretty well off. So are other members in my family. Why did they all abandon me? Leave for me for dead essentially? No fight at all. Literally. Instead of rolling over they rolled me over and just gave up for me. I've never seen a group of people fight less hard for anything. I don't understand. They won't even tell me either.
I get why the US government did. I'm nothing to them. Literally. They want people to think they care so much but they don't most would murder and torture their mother if it benefitted them. Me. Pft. They don't give a fuck. I'm worthless to them.
her parents definitely played a huge part in this, shaping her when growing up and there were times that she felt like you, abandoned by them, its the same with her sister, she had isolated herself from her family. They were all very well off and they are taking it hard as despite their fractious relationship they would have done anything to have her back and have a lot of guilt about not doing more to help or making her feel bad in the times they did help her. You say you were close with them once
It sounds like from what I've read you want to live and this choice shouldn't be one you're forced into because you can't see a way out - though if that is your choice that is fine too. Can't you go to your family one last time ask for help, sure if they say no and treat you badly then you've got your answer but it's one last role of the dice - not suggesting this but if you did want to go to them you could make a suicide gesture and maybe that would spur them into helping you.
My aunt also killed herself over money and this had a really profound impact on my dad as he was unaware and took it personally as he would have done anything to save her.