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Tearygirl

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Dec 1, 2019
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Hi, I need some tips/advices about ctb in a hotel. I heard some hotels do not respect customer's privacy, so I'm afraid that the hotel staff might open my room door and find me before I died.
So, I want to know which hotel should I choose? A hotel where protects their client's privacy. It is hard to find the hotel's policy about privacy.

p.s. Is suicide attempt can be a reason of deportation by Canada if I'm not a canadian citizen? And I want to know is suicide attempt covered by universal healthcare. I'm afraid of failure very much. I might have to make a separate thread by this alone.
 
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Hey, Tearygirl. This is the first I'm hearing about hotels not respecting client's privacy but I've read on another thread to make sure to put the 'Do not disturb' sign on the door but I don't know much this will affect your concern. I plan on ctb in a hotel so I'm always on the lookout for information regarding that. :heart: :hug:
 
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Dubs

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No hotel will open your room after midnight without a good reason. Don't have loud noise, running water, open windows... ctb around 2am and you will be gone by the time they force their way in around 11 or 12.

In terms of what hotel to use, I think the following variables are worth considering:

-You want a large chain hotel that can easily deal with the problems you will create (not a bed and breakfast, small motel, or airbnb).
-Have a reason for your stay ahead of time, make sure it matches your ID as if your story doesn't match in town vs out of town that would alert them.
-Make sure no one has access to the payment card you are using as they might see a charge to the hotel and call the police. You might want to turn off electronics before you go to the hotel to prevent any tracking you if people are suspicious and try to find you.
-If you are acting nervous some hotel staff are trained to ask you if you are in a crisis and need assistance. Obviously if you are committed to this just stay calm and act like you don't know what they are talking about. Or get help if that is what you want to do.
-A small issue would be noise. One concern I have with my hotel is that it is old so noise carries. If you seize or vomit loudly someone might call for help.
-Try to leave a note just where the door opens to alert staff so they can call police and not have to see the scene.
-Also don't book a hotel operating at capacity at high season or for an event. Your room could be out of service for a few days, and they also need to get your body through the lobby, so aiming for an off season hotel or an off day I think is a polite consideration.
-Final update: don't leave your body for more than 12 hours! Only CTB the final night of the reservation. If you are dead in the room for longer than that it will greatly complicate cleanup, removal, and investigation of your corpse. If you get found within 6-12 hours of death they can easily remove your body and clean the room. Longer than that and they might need to totally gut the room, ac, furniture...
 
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No hotel will open your room after midnight without a good reason. Don't have loud noise, running water, open windows... ctb around 2am and you will be gone by the time they force their way in around 11 or 12.

In terms of what hotel to use, I think the following variables are worth considering:

-You want a large chain hotel that can easily deal with the problems you will create (not a bed and breakfast, small motel, or airbnb).
-Have a reason for your stay ahead of time, make sure it matches your ID as if your story doesn't match in town vs out of town that would alert them.
-Make sure no one has access to the payment card you are using as they might see a charge to the hotel and call the police. You might want to turn off electronics before you go to the hotel to prevent any tracking you if people are suspicious and try to find you.
-If you are acting nervous some hotel staff are trained to ask you if you are in a crisis and need assistance. Obviously if you are committed to this just stay calm and act like you don't know what they are talking about. Or get help if that is what you want to do.
-A small issue would be noise. One concern I have with my hotel is that it is old so noise carries. If you seize or vomit loudly someone might call for help.
-Try to leave a note just where the door opens to alert staff so they can call police and not have to see the scene.
I completely agree with you, it might be kind of expensive but it would be worth it. Above all at the time when they have to deal with the press. And I didn't think about that last point but I think I would do that too.
 
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HereToday

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Dec 27, 2019
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Staff don't just go into people's rooms for no reason. The only time you'll possibly have a visit is from the maids in the morning. They always knock first, but if you put the do not disturb sign on the door they will leave you alone. Other than the maids no one will bother you
 
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Tearygirl

I hate being alone. So please don't leave me.
Dec 1, 2019
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Then if I book for 2 days, what should I do not to be found for the first morning? I will be found(going to send a delayed mail to the police) Is using a DND sign can help prevent the maids cleaning my room?
 
Dubs

Dubs

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Aug 16, 2018
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Then if I book for 2 days, what should I do not to be found for the first morning? I will be found(going to send a delayed mail to the police) Is using a DND sign can help prevent the maids cleaning my room?
Don't leave your body for more than 12 hours! That causes a lot more problems for the hotel, the paramedics, and the coroner! Only ctb the final night!
 
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Tearygirl

I hate being alone. So please don't leave me.
Dec 1, 2019
143
Don't leave your body for more than 12 hours! That causes a lot more problems for the hotel, the paramedics, and the coroner! Only ctb the final night!
okay. I didn't know. Then book for only 1 night, right? But isn't there a possibility that I didn't die after about 12 hours, I'm planning to go by SN, and I think most people die up to 4 hours, but there's some possibility that I didn't die after 12 hours.
No hotel will open your room after midnight without a good reason. Don't have loud noise, running water, open windows... ctb around 2am and you will be gone by the time they force their way in around 11 or 12.

In terms of what hotel to use, I think the following variables are worth considering:

-You want a large chain hotel that can easily deal with the problems you will create (not a bed and breakfast, small motel, or airbnb).
-Have a reason for your stay ahead of time, make sure it matches your ID as if your story doesn't match in town vs out of town that would alert them.
-Make sure no one has access to the payment card you are using as they might see a charge to the hotel and call the police. You might want to turn off electronics before you go to the hotel to prevent any tracking you if people are suspicious and try to find you.
-If you are acting nervous some hotel staff are trained to ask you if you are in a crisis and need assistance. Obviously if you are committed to this just stay calm and act like you don't know what they are talking about. Or get help if that is what you want to do.
-A small issue would be noise. One concern I have with my hotel is that it is old so noise carries. If you seize or vomit loudly someone might call for help.
-Try to leave a note just where the door opens to alert staff so they can call police and not have to see the scene.
-Also don't book a hotel operating at capacity at high season or for an event. Your room could be out of service for a few days, and they also need to get your body through the lobby, so aiming for an off season hotel or an off day I think is a polite consideration.
-Final update: don't leave your body for more than 12 hours! Only CTB the final night of the reservation. If you are dead in the room for longer than that it will greatly complicate cleanup, removal, and investigation of your corpse. If you get found within 6-12 hours of death they can easily remove your body and clean the room. Longer than that and they might need to totally gut the room, ac, furniture...
Wow.. Your tip is so nice! Thanks for all the informations!

And I think healthcare will cover my attempt if I failed and since suicide is not a crime anymore, I think I won't be deported. Again, thanks for all the information provided everyone!
 
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howard

howard

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Sep 13, 2019
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My tip- dont stay long enough to get to know staff. I need to ctb in next 48 hrs in hotel I've been in a few weeks. Every one so very friendly. I've got to know the housekeeping staff who will be finding me. So advice is no long stays.
 

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