I'm definitely not the guy to give any relationship advice, but I've decided that I'm not going to believe in trust and being happy with someone. In the end, it's all about mutual benefits, including emotional.
I'd like to believe that, but every time I find a guy or girl willing to deal with my issues it blows up in my face.
You mean you start believing in the happy ever after instead, and then it breaks down?
I stop believing but yes. No one will ever love me unconditionally with my issues, and that's okay because I have my sodium baby,
Well, honestly I don't think "unconditional love" exists as something distinct that can be defined. Which is fine with me. I can't even say I love myself without being dishonest with that position.
I like the way you think.
For real though. I've tried to decompose what it means, and everybody has a different idea of what "love" is. My mother's idea of love is something that heavily involves being needed by somebody else and emotionally abusing them into making you feel needed, and my relatives seem to be in a similar boat generally. My ex idea is something based on mutual feeling of tenderness, ownership and fun sex, but also being cared after and compensated for her insecurities. My ex colleague - although I don't know him close enough, so that's a preliminary judgment - it's more about being together in the moments of joy and having common mode of life, sorta. And nobody on this forum has given me anything close to a distinct answer about what they mean
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You've stated your intention there, its a cliche, but that's half the battle. The other half is the difficult bit and that's why you have friends here.
Good morning, soft words for a soft soul. Thank you for that Poet!
Write. That is what musicians do. All great songs comes out of pain. You know that. ;)
She's okay. Yes I'm feeling better today. Not very good but better than before. You don't wanna talk about how you're feeling? That's totally fine, but I'm just asking. I don't mean to be annoying.
