Suicide partners are a sick joke.

[zzz919]

I have been visiting suicide websites and forums since 2005 ...... When I first visited alt.suicide.holiday and alt.suicide.methods ...... I have come to the conclusion that it is not possible to actually meet a partner in real life to commit suicide with.

The vast majority of people looking for a partner ...... Are really just lonely people looking for a friend ...... And the vast majority of those people will never meet you in person ...... They just want to waste your time with endless emails.

I am thankful for this website ...... I come here ...... I read the various posts ...... I feel close to all these people who are hurting ...... People who are truly suicidal are the only people who could ever understand me ...... I love you ...... I wish I could do something to take away your pain ...... Truth.

However ...... Please do not jerk me around ...... Please do not play games with my mind ...... I am not stupid or naive enough to believe that there is one single person in this forum who would actually meet me in person and commit suicide with me ...... If you are genuinely suicidal ...... You are on your own ...... You are alone.

 

[Threads]

everyone needs a friend bro.

and no one is truly alone. even when they are in the darkest pits of their lives, they always have someone they can kick it with. anytime you want, you can't jump on here, and DM me. And boom. you have someone to talk with. loneliness though, that need for social contact after you've intentionally isolated yourself from others for extended periods of time, that's different, and that is a real thing. that need for true social contact and peer bonding isn't something you can just get over a screen. i have two cats. they helped me before i had the resolve to really go out and interact with others.

no one here is on an island, but many are lonely.

 

[NewDelhiGuy]

I will be more at ease if I do it with a partner.

 

[Roph]

I will be more at ease if I do it with a partner.

Agreed. I have a method or two for doing it solo, but a partner would help.

 

[Candour]

I agree with OP to be honest. I have been messed around by several people on here. Outright blatant lies in one particular instance. It's best not to waste your time with partners.

 

[Candour]

However, if you are adamant are you would like to try to find a partner. My advice is ask for a phone call very early on in your exchange, if they say no & make up an excuse that's a massive red flag.

 

[zzz919]

I respect all of the opinions expressed in this thread ...... The way I feel about this issue does not represent everyone's views ...... However ...... I think it is safe to say that trying to find a suicide partner is (at best) a whole lot more complicated than trying to find someone to have coffee with ...... If you choose to find a partner ...... Be prepared to send and receive hundreds of unnecessary emails from people who have no intention of committing suicide before you find someone who is the real thing.

 

[creationisdeath]

Asking for the desired timeframe should alleviate all of that. Communicating a lot before is a necessity. Or do you want to die with a stranger you don't even know?

I understand the desire to have a friend to do it with. Getting a stranger to do it with you seems pointless to me. How do you even know they'll pull through if you don't establish a relationship first?

To each their own though of course.

 

[bigj75]

I mean sometimes I'm sure something comes up but yes in general it seems like partners are a scam.

 

[Endthismisery]

I mean the risk Is so high tho So cold feet plays a huge part

I would rather a partner but can you imagine they pass you fail the problems that could come your way


That's almost as much a risk as suicide itself you don't want to fail because if you do god knows what could go wrong

 

[Kam59]

I had a bad experience on here with someone trying to dissuade me and basically saying the site was being monitored ..... And to be careful ! ..
Then admin on here said to be cautious about phones ... Is that wrong ?
Is it best to speak on the phone early on ?
I think there are genuine people on here, but it's hard with messages ...
I genuinelly wanted to partner up but didn't phone quickly enough (don't live alone)and lost someone I'm sure was genuine.....
So it may not always be a sick joke.......

 

[feelsbadman]

Anyone know of someone who actually successfully found a partner?

 

[Morphosis]

Anyone know of someone who actually successfully found a partner?

JordT and Bumblebee from a while back allegedly met on here and took SN together. Reported in the papers at the time and it appeared likely that it was those 2 from details they had given.

 

[HeavensOpenDoor]

I'm starting to agree with the OP more and more now after thinking about it. It also seems to be too big of a risk. You don't know if they are the c*ps, if they will secretly CALL the c*ps, and if you try to ctb with someone else you run the risk -if found during the act (let's say u somehow survive and they don't)- of being charged with either: conspiracy to commit m*rder, voluntary manslaughter, negligent homicide, and if they're under age contributing to the delinquency of a minor while in the commission of a felony. Just seems like it's better to do it alone. After being on here for a little while now some posts seem like the people are either trolling or trying to bait people into implicating themselves. Like people that have been on here for months asking about sn dosages and shit like wtf?!? Me personally, I have only been on here for a short time and I already feel like I'm an expert on shit just by my own independent off site research. Be mindful.