Suicide inevitably hurts the living- how do you handle guilt?

[wordsonscreen]

Who are you talking to?

wow. I've been off this website for a bit.... that comment is horrific :( the one you responded to... :(

Trauma kills you. I know that for a fact. If suicide was easy I would not be here. My mom, sexual abusers, "friends" "family" and so many people broke me. I wish those fuckers would have there revenge, but mostly I just want to escape my pain. If I have that in death then I know I will be ok

I feel you. It is worse when people do not believe it. I think you are right that alleviation of pain feels most important.

 

[LonelyNick]

I'm of the view now that society prevents suicide mainly because of the hurt it causes to many people. In that way, my suffering is placed below that of others. Figures. As long as the people that help feel like they've done a good deed afterwards.

T H I S

 

[wordsonscreen]

T H I S

yeah that def captures it.

 

[bloomingdark]

I feel bad because, i don´t feel guilt at all, i do for certain people but about my parents i barely have it and i wish it wasn´t that way, for respect i am doing it really away so they don´t find my body and have to deal with extra trauma, i also be explaining them that me choosing to die was not their fault, about my friends and boyfriend i kind of feel guilty but i know it won´t be that hard, i guess.

 

[wordsonscreen]

I feel bad because, i don´t feel guilt at all, i do for certain people but about my parents i barely have it and i wish it wasn´t that way, for respect i am doing it really away so they don´t find my body and have to deal with extra trauma, i also be explaining them that me choosing to die was not their fault, about my friends and boyfriend i kind of feel guilty but i know it won´t be that hard, i guess.

Its okay that you're not feeling very guilty. Everyone handles it differently! <3

 

[Odwin]

I don't understand the question why should I feel guilty?

 

[Jumper Geo]

That's the big question do you suffer needlessly to prevent others from suffering from your suicide? that's the choice we have to make to CTB but once your gone, you know you won't feel guilty. I feel sorry for the family when someone CTB and then another family member follows a few months later.

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Cheers

Geo