phantomisgone

phantomisgone

Saving my world first before theirs.
Oct 17, 2022
50
Hello everyone. I've been doing significantly better since my struggles last year. However, I'm coming across this hurdle that keeps holding me back.

I want to finally pursue my dreams and aspirations but I feel like I will lose people that I like currently because of it. That everything will change for me.
Has any of you decided to take that leap of faith and never looked back? How did it go for you? Then could you perhaps give me some advice/tips?
 
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Why Me?

Experienced
Apr 5, 2022
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Hello everyone. I've been doing significantly better since my struggles last year. However, I'm coming across this hurdle that keeps holding me back.

I want to finally pursue my dreams and aspirations but I feel like I will lose people that I like currently because of it. That everything will change for me.
Has any of you decided to take that leap of faith and never looked back? How did it go for you? Then could you perhaps give me some advice/tips?
I'm glad your doing better. I advise you to post this in the recovery section, you should get a better response there, since that's where it should be.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
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I've 'started again' multiple times in life. Maybe 4 times- accompanied by moves across the country, new jobs, new people. Kind of depends on what you're going for. Can't say I regretted any of them really. Hindsight means some decisions were better than others but at the time- it felt like the right thing to do and it helped- at least initially. I find shaking up your life a good thing now and then. Not so sure I have the energy for it now though.

If you're worried about losing friendships- that's kind of up to you really. Friendships take effort. More effort if you're not around them so much. Doesn't mean you'll necessarily lose them though. Unless you feel the need to cut ties in which case- maybe something is telling you it's time to move on and change. Doesn't have to be unpleasant though- you could just let things drift.
 

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