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Tartuffe

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I will write them out using the notes app. I wont go back and edit. I just want my thoughts down. I plan to go the first weekend of April. I'll be adding notes and who I'm directing at over the next 7-10 days
 
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LateForTheBus

LateForTheBus

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Feb 7, 2023
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I need to start writing mine. I think I'm just doing one main one for my parents and a short one for my next-door neighbor.
 
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Tartuffe

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Mar 31, 2022
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I need to start writing mine. I think I'm just doing one main one for my parents and a short one for my next-door neighbor.
I'll be doing one for my ex, mum and other family members. I dont know if they will all find the people. I dont blame anyone but myself.
 
FuneralCry

FuneralCry

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Sep 24, 2020
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I wish you the best with what you are doing, I personally think that it's a good idea writing notes so that those left behind aren't left with as many unanswered questions. And by the way, just take no notice of people who guilt trip suicidal people on here, it's insensitive to do such a thing.
 
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Dying Alive 00

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Mar 23, 2023
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I don't really understand the point of a note. I started writing one because I assumed it was the done thing. And I realised it's all about the writer not the reader, so there's no point.
Anyone who is going to suffer grief or loss, will do so whether or not there is a note. Anyone who will be pleased when I'm gone is going to feel pleased whether or not there is a note.
So I'm not writing one.
 
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Tartuffe

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Mar 31, 2022
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What is bothering you so much as to make this radical decision? And if you love your family so much as to write them a note for goodbye don't you think they deserve to be happy. I think they will experience immense sadness if you take your own life. I really wish you would tell me what is happening with you. Know that there's always going to be there to hear you out so it's better to vent out to someone instead of thinking to yourself all the time.
It's not really any of your business. You presume everyines life is a mirror of yours and you make judgements based on that. Why are you even on this forum?
I don't really understand the point of a note. I started writing one because I assumed it was the done thing. And I realised it's all about the writer not the reader, so there's no point.
Anyone who is going to suffer grief or loss, will do so whether or not there is a note. Anyone who will be pleased when I'm gone is going to feel pleased whether or not there is a note.
So I'm not writing one.
It's a personal choice. I may not offer the note in the end. But I like jotting stuff down
 
WaitingToGo

WaitingToGo

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Feb 18, 2023
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I've written one. Spent most of last Saturday on it and kept adding bits then removing other bits. I've just done one big note with goodbyes to family and friends and the latter part on things that need to be done like for example contacting the people who are going to adopt my cats.
I got quite upset writing it but at least it's done now.
Two other tasks to get done. Amending my will and organizing my cremation
 
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