Story Someone Going Around Reporting People

[soysoysoy]

So my friend called me up saying someone from HERE reached out to her, she didn't tell me her name or anything which sucks. The snitch talked to my friend about my activity on the site and her views on the people here calling the community "cultish, sick," etc. Worried the hell out of my friend but I assured her that I'm doing fine and not going to jump to CTBing for the time being and explained that a lot of people try to demonize the site and the people on it.

The rat accuses the members of putting these ideas into people's heads that "help is not viable, there aren't other options, everyone should ctb," etc. But that isn't at all the point of the site and I've formed all of my opinions before knowing of this site's existence from my OWN experience with the broken therapy and mental health treatment system. They go on demonizing the members and even me at some point but it was easy to explain to my friend what really happened in the surplus of out-of-context screenshots and quotes the narc provided.

The person who called me out said they came from a youtube video so it was most likely just another Tantacrul lackey who doesn't understand the struggles that people with mental health issues go through on a daily basis and is too lazy to do the proper research. And if you read this then I would have much rather you PM'd me than jump to conclusions like a sensible human being.

Anyways, I just wanted everyone to make sure that if your name is tied to another social media account, change your name or make 100% sure that people aren't able to reach out to your friends/ family through any other socials. I was kinda dumb for making my user on here the same as another username but it's still a shame that someone would do that nonetheless. I sort of trusted that the people here wouldn't go doing anything like that but that was only so foolproof considering people come in here to try and narc all the time. I wish you all the best, have a great rest of your day :)

 

[Linda]

I use my real name, but there are a lot of people in the world called Linda so I'm fairly anonymous. (And I wouldn't actually care if anyone did figure out my identity.) But you are right to point out that using an unusual username on both this site and somewhere else is not smart if you need to care about privacy..

 

[FuneralCry]

The opinions of delusional pro-lifers should never matter, they are best ignored and forgotten about. It would likely be different if something happened to them in the future to make them want to die, existing can very easily get much worse for anyone, and anyone can end up in the situation of the most extreme suffering. But it's true that you cannot trust other people, I think that being too trusting can easily just lead to more problems.

 

[ggetout33]

Yeah I knew something like this could happen that's why I made my name completely different to other socials. I think this rat is projecting here because I believe that while we should care about the wellbeing of others so they don't feel the need, sometimes people suffer so bad they just want out and nothing would help them. At that point, it should be their choice whether they want to continue living. Nobody should be forced to suffer for pain they didn't cause.

 

[Anon1337]

This is a horrible thing to do and the stress and potential embarrassment could make someone's mh worse.

 

[TheHuman]

I hate people who try and say stupid shit about this site and how its bad 'n all. Its so shitty like just fuck off and just let us do what we want with our own self and worry about yourself.

 

[Dainhla]

I really can't see the point in what that user did to you. Wth did he expect from doing such a thing? I mean, I don't see the point in his/her action. We don't worship CTBing, as some people said in external forums, we just have different opinions from the rest of the people, which are made by our self experience. We are nothing but mirrors of what happened to us and if someone can't understand our point of view is just because they never lived that. Is pretty simple. Here we share a parallel ways of thinking because we have shared an analogous pain caused by different factors, yeah, I'm aware of that, but behind our similar point of view it lies the heart of a shared pain. We just try to help each other to flee form it.

 

[RainAndSadness]

I'm sorry that happened to you. It's very frustrating that people stalk members of this community just to make their life more difficult. I strongly recommend that members in this forum don't use the same username twice. If you have the same username on another social media platform, you should change it now. That's the first thing you should do if you want to remain anonymous because usernames are a very easy way to track someone to different social media websites, which might contain more personal info. I hope that helps.

Here is more information if you want to know how to protect yourself.

Be careful with the personal information you post here

Be VERY careful about the personal information you post here. We are aware of people registering to attempt to "save" other members, some are even law enforcement. They don't have a problem with registering if they think what they're doing is the "right" thing and they will not hesitate to...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Take care and be careful, everyone!

 

[inmyhead]

People really don't think of the damaging effects of outing someone from this website to their friends and family. How cruel.

 

[picklemick]

I feel like police in Canada have used this website to do "health" checks on people.

 

[NoLoveNoHope]

That's horrible, I'm so sorry you need to go through that.

 

[20ClownRules]

I will say that it's honestly braindead for them to assume that...
I mean, my interactions with others on the site so far are pretty positive, and I can tell you this much; I'm a suicidal adult, and I know better than to judge people by their activities.
I do my thing, they do theirs.
It's super simple.
I have too many online aliases, so, I used a code word that one ex friend told me about one of my characters; something very bitter and harsh.
Though, back to the subject- knowing about it is one thing, but reporting the site? No.
A note that I most likely saw the same video, but I didn't demonize the site, I actually needed something like it because nothing worked for me.

 

[I_want_to_sleep]

It's important to be careful about what information you put on here, you never know how it could be used against you. I try to avoid getting into specifics of my personal life here in case it comes to bite me in the back in some unexpected way. If someone linked this account to my real life identity before I CTBed, it could have some pretty disastrous consequences.

This rat will also very likely be contacting other people in your social circle so I'd recommend being prepared for that. You should never trust anyone on the internet. Assume everyone is a serial killer that reads all your messages and is actively trying to find out who you are.

It might be worth even deleting your account if possible. If you ever talk about attempting again your friend will likely be informed of this which might interrupt your plan.

 

[SilentSadness]

I don't know why the people against this site are so determined to make its members miserable, but I guess it just comes to show the importance of hiding on here. Definitely make sure to hide any personal information. I hope your unfortunate situation with your friend doesn't escalate.