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waitingforthehappy
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- Dec 13, 2021
- 26
Turning 40.
Recently survived an attempt.
Husband got mother to move in so I am rarely alone. She is keeping me alive, but making me more miserable (which seems to be the pro-lifer attitude - stay alive even if you are miserable ugh.)
Since I got out of the psych ward after my last attempt, my ideation has only gotten stronger.
It's clear how much pain my husband and mother have experienced due to my attempt. They are both very angry. And their anger comes at me. I suspect they are both worried and scared as well.
Another attempt, particularly a successful one, would extraordinarily add to their pain.
While I would like to end my pain, I do not wish to do so at the cost of them.
I have resolved to keep myself alive to avoid hurting them. I have resolved to wait for my natural death.
But I am miserable in this decision. I think about ctb all the time. Even though I am afraid of death and afraid of what might come after. As in, what if the afterlife has more pain. What if even death is not the end of pain?
There is also the possibility that I won't succeed in my next attempt and end up with internal damage like a hole in the stomach.
I am ready for ctb despite my fears. But holding on for the sake of mother and husband. I am hurting all the time. I have grown to resent them for loving me as their "love" is tying me down and forcing me to stay in my unhappy life.
I have all kinds of ridiculous fantasies. My current favorite is telling them that I have cancer, and then ctbing so they think it's the cancer and not being suicidal.
I pray for a terminal illness, yet my body remains stubbornly healthy while my mind is constantly hurting.
I research how to make myself terminally ill. Doesn't seem like terminal illness is a real option.
Sorry to rant. Want to ctb. Need to vent.
Recently survived an attempt.
Husband got mother to move in so I am rarely alone. She is keeping me alive, but making me more miserable (which seems to be the pro-lifer attitude - stay alive even if you are miserable ugh.)
Since I got out of the psych ward after my last attempt, my ideation has only gotten stronger.
It's clear how much pain my husband and mother have experienced due to my attempt. They are both very angry. And their anger comes at me. I suspect they are both worried and scared as well.
Another attempt, particularly a successful one, would extraordinarily add to their pain.
While I would like to end my pain, I do not wish to do so at the cost of them.
I have resolved to keep myself alive to avoid hurting them. I have resolved to wait for my natural death.
But I am miserable in this decision. I think about ctb all the time. Even though I am afraid of death and afraid of what might come after. As in, what if the afterlife has more pain. What if even death is not the end of pain?
There is also the possibility that I won't succeed in my next attempt and end up with internal damage like a hole in the stomach.
I am ready for ctb despite my fears. But holding on for the sake of mother and husband. I am hurting all the time. I have grown to resent them for loving me as their "love" is tying me down and forcing me to stay in my unhappy life.
I have all kinds of ridiculous fantasies. My current favorite is telling them that I have cancer, and then ctbing so they think it's the cancer and not being suicidal.
I pray for a terminal illness, yet my body remains stubbornly healthy while my mind is constantly hurting.
I research how to make myself terminally ill. Doesn't seem like terminal illness is a real option.
Sorry to rant. Want to ctb. Need to vent.