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LivingANDDying26

LivingANDDying26

Enlightened
Dec 8, 2019
1,354
Woahh what happend to private chats?
 
gulp

gulp

Member
May 21, 2023
60
bring back them chats
 
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AnHeroTransGirl

AnHeroTransGirl

Experienced
Jul 17, 2023
224
Yeah private chats are gone for me too
 
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AshClouds

AshClouds

In time I started growing inward.
Apr 10, 2023
323
I recall there being a "Start Chat" button on other user's profiles alongside the "Start Conversation" button, but the "Start Chat" button has disappeared since a week ago.
If you click on a user name in the chat room, theres an option to send a private chat message, but you can't see them.
 
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ClownWorld2023

Arcanist
Sep 18, 2023
470
If you click on a user name in the chat room, theres an option to send a private chat message, but you can't see them.

Is the button visible for you?

This is what I see:

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I had some old chat conversations visible in my notifications, but when I tried to open them I would get a browser error.
 
Oblivion

Oblivion

Wizard
Aug 2, 2018
631
The admins remain dead! And we have killed them! How can we console ourselves, the murderers of all murderers! The holiest and the mightiest admins in the world have ever possessed have bled to death under our knives: who will wipe this blood from us?
 
avoid

avoid

Jul 31, 2023
358
I think that RainAndSadness is the admin that took over from Sanctioned Suicide—the user.

And the start chat button appears for me.

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Nah, I'm just trolling. I edited the HTML to fake the start chat button. 😜
 
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Againstthewind

Againstthewind

Victory
Jul 10, 2022
217
There are various technical issues that are going on at the moment (some resulting from DDOS's stuff) that Rain and others are looking at.

We know that some users can't access the start chat button (myself included) we are working on it, we will let you know with updates soon.
 
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Life Is My Coffin

Life Is My Coffin

One final action ⚰️⚰️⚰️
Oct 13, 2023
300
There are various technical issues that are going on at the moment (some resulting from DDOS's stuff) that Rain and others are looking at.
Noticed I can't even change my avatar, it says there's an error every time I try. I assume that's part of this problem ?
 
Againstthewind

Againstthewind

Victory
Jul 10, 2022
217
Possibly, @Life Is My Coffin if you submit a ticket, I can always have a look and just see if its an error unique to your account.
 
Life Is My Coffin

Life Is My Coffin

One final action ⚰️⚰️⚰️
Oct 13, 2023
300
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Possibly, @Life Is My Coffin if you submit a ticket, I can always have a look and just see if it's an error unique to your account.
lol that doesn't work either.... I signed out to file a ticket (signing out is the only way you can seemingly do it since it doesn't appear when you're logged in) so then i went to the page and every time i tried submitting the complaint all it does is say i didn't do the CAPTCHA (note that there is no CAPTCHA on the page at all...so idk how in the world id be able to solve something that doesn't exist) 😐

Can't you just like idk fix the avatar problem without me having to use another broken area of the site? I just had this account for a few hours and I'm new here it would be cool to have a avatar
 
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ClownWorld2023

Arcanist
Sep 18, 2023
470
(note that there is no CAPTCHA on the page at all...so idk how in the world id be able to solve something that doesn't exist) 😐

This can be caused by an Adblocker or similar extensions like 'uBlock Origin', and the 'Trace' extension.
 
Againstthewind

Againstthewind

Victory
Jul 10, 2022
217
That

lol that doesn't work either.... I signed out to file a ticket (signing out is the only way you can seemingly do it since it doesn't appear when you're logged in) so then i went to the page and every time i tried submitting the complaint all it does is say i didn't do the CAPTCHA (note that there is no CAPTCHA on the page at all...so idk how in the world id be able to solve something that doesn't exist) 😐

Can't you just like idk fix the avatar problem without me having to use another broken area of the site? I just had this account for a few hours and I'm new here it would be cool to have a avatar

I'll take a look into it for you.
 
Againstthewind

Againstthewind

Victory
Jul 10, 2022
217
You should be able to change profile pictures again, give it a whirl and let me know if it still does/doesn't work.
 
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ClownWorld2023

Arcanist
Sep 18, 2023
470
I have been using the conversation functionality for a time now, and it actually works fine.

Maybe better than the private chat functionality? No pressure to instantly respond partly due to the way it works.
It's pretty much the same as how you'd use the forum. You're not guaranteed to receive a response within a given time and that's fine.

I found the private chat confusing at times, because you couldn't see whether the other person was online or not.
 
sash

sash

f/uk seeking partner to vanish with
Oct 1, 2023
203
I have never seen a chat button, just conversation. All my talks with ppl are conversations.

My question is if someone sees a chat button and started a chat with me, would I get their message? Do they think I ignored them? Could they even start a chat with me?

Could someone who sees chat on ppls profile pics hover over me and lmk if they see chat and conversation please?
 
Life Is My Coffin

Life Is My Coffin

One final action ⚰️⚰️⚰️
Oct 13, 2023
300
You should be able to change profile pictures again, give it a whirl and let me know if it still does/doesn't work.
Kudos to getting the site issues fixed.

I'm not too knowledged with how the messaging on here works since I dont think I have a post count high enough to send messages just yet, but hopefully that'll get fixed as well before I get up there
 
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ClownWorld2023

Arcanist
Sep 18, 2023
470
I have never seen a chat button, just conversation. All my talks with ppl are conversations.

My question is if someone sees a chat button and started a chat with me, would I get their message? Do they think I ignored them? Could they even start a chat with me?

Could someone who sees chat on ppls profile pics hover over me and lmk if they see chat and conversation please?

I don't think you need to worry about it.
The "start chat" button was gone since a while ago. I think most people are aware of it.
 
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Life Is My Coffin

Life Is My Coffin

One final action ⚰️⚰️⚰️
Oct 13, 2023
300
Other website problems:
• Search bar is broken
• Visiting any persons profile and checking the "posts" tab (not latest activity, but posts) always gives you an "error has occurred" message
 
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mb0099

Member
Jul 14, 2023
32
Mods- Any update on when private messaging will be back? Sounds like some people have it back (or maybe never lost it) but not everyone?
 
Againstthewind

Againstthewind

Victory
Jul 10, 2022
217
We know its an issue, I cant give you a time frame unfortunately, apologies these issues keep occurring and that you have to wait.
We do have to juggle a lot, and we are doing everything we can.
 
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mb0099

Member
Jul 14, 2023
32
Thank you Againsthewind and all the Mods for all you're doing for for us, please just don't forget about chat in your important work to keep the site up and functional for us, it's really appreciated
 
Againstthewind

Againstthewind

Victory
Jul 10, 2022
217
Aye, aye, sir🫡
 
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Simba

Simba

Missunderstood Potato
Dec 9, 2018
755
Omg i just came back to no forum chat at all ,what happened to the whole chat system ? Nevermind the 1 on 1 chat but wheres the public chat gone ?? That is so sad :(
 
Water-Lily

Water-Lily

Enlightened
Dec 26, 2020
1,203
Right? I just came on here and chats disabled again :(
 
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real human being

real human being

full of broken thoughts
Jan 28, 2022
221
damn chat went and disappeared on us
 
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