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fettyshooter

fettyshooter

zzz
Aug 6, 2026
27
every time someone starts a private chat with me i cant see it. theres no message or pop-up only a blank screen. the first time i thought they just deleted it but ive received that notification from a couple more people now and i cant see any of them. am i just stupid? im hoping they were accidental and deleted instead of me accidentally ignoring people because im too dumb to figure it out.
 
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discernment

discernment

Student
Aug 11, 2026
110
no i cant. 😬 says i dont have permission. thank you so much for helping! and sorry to everyone im ignoring right now.
its the same for me 😭 I assumed that since I could start a conversation with someone else, I had unlocked the chat feature
 
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LastNite

LastNite

I don't know
Mar 31, 2025
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no i cant. 😬 says i dont have permission. thank you so much for helping! and sorry to everyone im ignoring right now.
I think u need to get a specific amount of posts, comments, or likes to have it unlocked. Im not sure which tho. Good luck.
 
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fettyshooter

zzz
Aug 6, 2026
27
its the same for me 😭 I assumed that since I could start a conversation with someone else, I had unlocked the chat feature
wow even with 78 messages? im never getting access then. yeah i also wrongly assumed i had access to pretty much everything now. woops... i hope you get it soon though.
 
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UltraAlter

UltraAlter

Member
Apr 19, 2026
36
wow even with 78 messages? im never getting access then. yeah i also wrongly assumed i had access to pretty much everything now. woops... i hope you get it soon though.
I believe you also have to have been online for a specific amount of time in total.
 
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fettyshooter

zzz
Aug 6, 2026
27
I believe you also have to have been online for a specific amount of time in total.
oh that would make more sense since one of the people messaging me has less messages than i do. thank you for replying! I guess ill just leave this site open all day.
 
UltraAlter

UltraAlter

Member
Apr 19, 2026
36
oh that would make more sense since one of the people messaging me has less messages than i do. thank you for replying! I guess ill just leave this site open all day.
No worries :)
Yeah good idea. If I was willing to have this site sitting open all day, I would have done the same. I only unlocked the chat feature very recently.
 
discernment

discernment

Student
Aug 11, 2026
110
oh that would make more sense since one of the people messaging me has less messages than i do. thank you for replying! I guess ill just leave this site open all day.
funny how we were speaking about this earlier and its now working for me 😅 so i'm sure you'll get access soon
 
idontwantthisplease

idontwantthisplease

I'm Altzuu
Aug 16, 2026
57
I've been having this problem too. Like how long do I have to wait on average to get access on private chats?
 

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