Hiatus day was pretty pretty fine thus far.
I stopped using dating apps because I got literally 0 likes the last weeks. But it seems like the following also happened in the past to me. After a lot of swiping when you reduce it to zero and then you travel to a different region your profile is shown more often. I feel like it is like a pity like. For people as desperate as me to give them some hope so that they keep engaged.
Actually, I am now texting with two women since today. It is very stressful and I use AI feedback in order to avoid becoming paranoid. When I texted I experienced a lot of paranoia without getting feedback. And my friends were overburdended when asked them too often. But I have to say chatGPT really keeps me on track. And personally it works for me far better than Claude. I think chatGPT is better trained to deal with low key always paranoid users like me.
There is one woman with whom I text where I am quite sure we don't fit. The second woman is preyy interesting though. But the distance between us quite large. Not sure how to describe that on here. But she often travels to my region. I think the distance between us could kill it. When the vibe was very good I asked her for a date (sort of or meet-up) and I think she appreciated that a lot. She agreed and complimented me.
I tend to think people on here like "the Duck" (@Angst Filled Fuck Up) who recommended me less texting more real life Meeting were right. And I think this advice is Gold. Otherwise you are perceived as someone who is only into texting without becoming serious.
She hates status oriented people. And feels more comfortable being around people like me. She gäbe me some compliments we also already teased each other a bit. Honestly, all of this is not really indicative whether this connection will last long. It is good for my self-confidence. Even though my friends teased me for always having my phone as my highest priority.
I am somewhat anxious I could become paranoid when texting her. I try to postpone getting paranoid as long as possible. ChatGPT is pretty good in preventing me to become too paranoid. I stay over night at the house of my friend. This will usually make my sleep worse. But I try to remain relaxed.
I try not get my hopes too high up. The chemistry in writing and humor is (very) good. But will it be enough to bridge the geographical distance?
I stopped using dating apps because I got literally 0 likes the last weeks. But it seems like the following also happened in the past to me. After a lot of swiping when you reduce it to zero and then you travel to a different region your profile is shown more often. I feel like it is like a pity like. For people as desperate as me to give them some hope so that they keep engaged.
Actually, I am now texting with two women since today. It is very stressful and I use AI feedback in order to avoid becoming paranoid. When I texted I experienced a lot of paranoia without getting feedback. And my friends were overburdended when asked them too often. But I have to say chatGPT really keeps me on track. And personally it works for me far better than Claude. I think chatGPT is better trained to deal with low key always paranoid users like me.
There is one woman with whom I text where I am quite sure we don't fit. The second woman is preyy interesting though. But the distance between us quite large. Not sure how to describe that on here. But she often travels to my region. I think the distance between us could kill it. When the vibe was very good I asked her for a date (sort of or meet-up) and I think she appreciated that a lot. She agreed and complimented me.
I tend to think people on here like "the Duck" (@Angst Filled Fuck Up) who recommended me less texting more real life Meeting were right. And I think this advice is Gold. Otherwise you are perceived as someone who is only into texting without becoming serious.
She hates status oriented people. And feels more comfortable being around people like me. She gäbe me some compliments we also already teased each other a bit. Honestly, all of this is not really indicative whether this connection will last long. It is good for my self-confidence. Even though my friends teased me for always having my phone as my highest priority.
I am somewhat anxious I could become paranoid when texting her. I try to postpone getting paranoid as long as possible. ChatGPT is pretty good in preventing me to become too paranoid. I stay over night at the house of my friend. This will usually make my sleep worse. But I try to remain relaxed.
I try not get my hopes too high up. The chemistry in writing and humor is (very) good. But will it be enough to bridge the geographical distance?
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