Story People are Shallow

[35alcoholics]

I am in college now. I watched my years pass me so quickly over the years of using. I have this person over at my dorm, all she does is complain and keep me and my roomate up ALL FUCKING NIGHT. She makes her problems into a weird competition that doesn't even fucking matter at the end of the night because EVERYONE changes the subject. I don't usually talk to people. In all reality, college is really just a part-time thing that ill do for a couple years.. do something with my life, right? Nonetheless, I am still good at talking to people. Entertainment, at this point. But don't worry, this is relevant.

I told her about how I dont believe people are good. That death is a great thing, and if you're truly a good person you can get passed a little bump in your road (that being suicide from a loved one). That i was going to go out by it, I have absolutely no intention on letting my life end by anything I don't want to happen. Yeah, yeah, I'm depressed or whatever.. but in reality, I just want a release. Outside of an endless cycle. But she continued to complain about her life on and on and on. So I ended the conversation. People need to look deeper into their problems instead of just complaining. Complain. Complain. Whine. Whine.

Shes across from me currently and asked if I was okay, I said I am. I have no problem with being brutally honest with someone with how im feeling, just she'd make it weird instead of a productive conversation. Not that I would change in any way. Ive been like this since I was in grade school.

 

[reloadmyrifle]

Haha. College is scary! Thats why I decided to take a gap year. Is there anyway you could ask for a new roomie?

 

[35alcoholics]

Haha. College is scary! Thats why I decided to take a gap year. Is there anyway you could ask for a new roomie?

It's not my roomate, lol. It's someone staying with me due to being kicked out. She helped me out when I was blacking out and 20 shots deep in an hour so I dont know what I could do?

 

[reloadmyrifle]

It's not my roomate, lol. It's someone staying with me due to being kicked out. She helped me out when I was blacking out and 20 shots deep in an hour so I dont know what I could do?

Ah, I see. Is she someone that is open to communication or is she very hard headed? Are you forced to talk to her in any situations? I know its probably extremely hard to avoid someone your living with, so you can try to limit your social interactions with this person.

 

[35alcoholics]

Ah, I see. Is she someone that is open to communication or is she very hard headed? Are you forced to talk to her in any situations? I know its probably extremely hard to avoid someone your living with, so you can try to limit your social interactions with this person.

Well, she doesnt live on campus. I just dont know where she'll go and I don't want to be blamed for kicking her out. But you're absolutely correct, I know how i could do that its just that she ignores it or changes ever so slightly.

 

[reloadmyrifle]

How did she end up staying inside your dorm? She seems bothersome to both you and your roommate, or is she a close friend to your roommate?

At the end of the day its you and your roommates dorm. I don't think you should be held responsible for someone else's housing. I totally understand how you feel. I'm a major push-over myself, and honestly if I was in your situation I would just put up with their actions and keep it bottled inside of me LOL. But I know that's not the best thing to do and I wouldn't want you to do that.
This person your describing seems extremely emotionally draining to be around. If you aren't confrontational I feel like its best to just avoid her, or if you are the blunt type I think you should just kick her out or help her find a place to stay. I mean is she even making an effort to move out like actively saving up?

I also let someone stay over after getting kicked out because I felt bad and it was the most mentally draining thing ever.

 

[SASU-KE]

I also let someone stay over after getting kicked out because I felt bad and it was the most mentally draining thing ever.

I guess it comes back to why were they kicked out in the first place? The answer is right there.

These people are bad roommates and bad tenants.

I saw a YouTube video about a guy who let his coworker stay at his home after being kicked out and he just refused to move out. Ended up squatting.

 

[ctb_warrior]

Yeah, most people are shallow, if they were deep thinkers with a heart, the world would be a better place