Venting PARTNERS: Looking for pity sex or genuine CTB partner?!

[Pupu]

So a woman gets laid easier. A man can't even have that. Can you honestly say that they both are equally lonely?

Why you keep mixing getting laid and being lonely? Just theoretical question, we're from same country. What if we hook up, will it cure your loneliness? I can tell you it doesn't cure mine.

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

Folks, look back at @Heart of Ice's last two statements. S/he he responded to a post by weighing women against men, then responded to another post by weighing men against women.

Both statements are provactive and derailing.

I'd hate to see derailng happen to this most informative thread, but the potential is there due to the subjectve responses to the topics and the OP having suffered.

I suggest we stick to the topic and not put men and women, or their needs and suffering, on value scales. The point of the thread is the one's seeking ctb partnership to fulfill personal wants and needs, and the bad behaviors that were directed at the OP in response to her seeking in good faith.

 

[AlreadyGone]

I envision this thread getting locked soon.

 

[Majin K.]

Tbh only reason why I would even look for a partner to CTB with is that many of the options aren't available to me as I can't order things without drawing suspicion. Gender and age wouldn't even matter to me.

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

I envision this thread getting locked soon.

Agreed. I hope appeals to reason to cease provocation and detailing prevail. I find this thread most beneficial, with potential to keep going for those who have not yet joined SS.

Tbh only reason why I would even look for a partner to CTB with is that many of the options aren't available to me as I can't order things without drawing suspicion. Gender and age wouldn't even matter to me.

I'm so glad you shared this motivation for a partner. I hear that your situation creates needs that could make one more vulnerable to predation. I hope you can find safe and independent means to meet your needs, such as getting a local virtual mailbox, PO box, or Amazon drop-off point in a nearby city if not your own.

 

[Heart of Ice]

Why you keep mixing getting laid and being lonely? Just theoretical question, we're from same country. What if we hook up, will it cure your loneliness? I can tell you it doesn't cure mine.

A sexual relationship is better than nothing. Of course it still won't replace a true companionship. I thought I was being clear on this.

Folks, look back at Heart of ice's last two statements. S/he he responded to a post by weighing women against men, then responded to another post by weighing men against women.

If I recall correctly, I responded to a post weighing women's experience to men's experience... by posting about women's experiences compared to males'.

I realize this is a sensitive topic and that this is not the correct place to discuss it.

I envision this thread getting locked soon.

Yup. Shame. All the fun threads get locked. Arguing with suicidal strangers online brings some joy into my existence that seems to simply be stuck in place.