
Blondie
Member
- Aug 12, 2022
- 79
I'm 34 but feel more like 80.. does that count?
I seem to get along much better with people older than myself
I seem to get along much better with people older than myself
LOLEverytime I see you my inner child says...
BUNNY! *Giggles & pets you*
That's what I did--Left my entire estate to St Judes Childrens Cancer Hospital here in the USWhat about naming a charitable organization as a beneficiary?
I wonder the same, never had a husband nor children. I’d like everything to go to my beneficiary. Now I wonder if I need to put them on my account at the bank? I’m definitely not going to leave a note, though.Maybe this can be a 50+ Megathread. So any of the 50+ers here live alone? And if so are you leaving notes? I had a whole note planned out with contacts and will-type info with bank accounts but now I'm thinking about not leaving a note at all. A part of me wants my death to be 'ruled a suicide' without me confirming it with a note. I don't have a wife or kids so I assume my assets will default to my closest family and my bank info will be traced regardless. I do have a beneficiary set on accounts with that option. Would like to hear thoughts on this from anyone in a similar situation.
How did you designate a beneficiary...with a will?I wonder the same, never had a husband nor children. I’d like everything to go to my beneficiary. Now I wonder if I need to put them on my account at the bank? I’m definitely not going to leave a note, though.
No, with my place of employment. I’m on the younger side, never thought of getting a will.How did you designate a beneficiary...with a will?
I kinda envy yet dread your normal life. I have the pain though but no family... Yay?Hi all. I’m 60, and have had chronic suicidal ideation for years. Over a decade, which was when I stopped keeping track. I’m outwardly fine, and inwardly desperate. A good job which I enjoy, a gorgeous wife who can’t stand the sight of me, and a brilliant daughter who probably feels I’ve ruined her life.
Been alone since my girlfriend died,....I don't like it---My notes are strictly financial info and my computer password info--But suicide books will be left on the table(showing where I got the idea for Nitrogen), as well as my girlfriends plaques and awards for working at her job for 38 years(these for her brother and wife to keep)and also a painting of my girlfriend when she was 4 years old(also for her brother)----All of my Estate(about 300 grand)will go to St Judes Children's Cancer Hospital(my girlfriend's wish also)Maybe this can be a 50+ Megathread. So any of the 50+ers here live alone? And if so are you leaving notes? I had a whole note planned out with contacts and will-type info with bank accounts but now I'm thinking about not leaving a note at all. A part of me wants my death to be 'ruled a suicide' without me confirming it with a note. I don't have a wife or kids so I assume my assets will default to my closest family and my bank info will be traced regardless. I do have a beneficiary set on accounts with that option. Would like to hear thoughts on this from anyone in a similar situation.
I'm a boomer, well old enough for this topic.
I've been contemplating suicide seriously for about two years. I joined here almost two years ago to research methods and to hear from others about motives and means. I'm seldom here because it makes me uncomfortable to be here. Aside from any suicidal ideations I've had over very many years, the fact is that I want to live more than I want to die. But that's not what's in my suicide note.
I have a devoted partner and they know about my suicide plans. I have a double dose of N ready and waiting. I have prepared and prepared and prepared so as not to burden anyone with my passing. I've streamlined all my finances and investments. I have a detailed and explicit will. At my partner's urging, I have written a long note. Or rather, it is a short note ("the pain of living is worse than the pain of dying" sort of note) and a farewell to friends and family. And then there's a longer journal I've been keeping, appended to my suicide note.
So why should I die? I don't really want to die, but I'm facing a painful decline with very little possibility of a solution. There may yet be something, some miracle, some eleventh hour salvation. But at present it looks pretty dire, and I don't want to drag things out past the point of reason. I wish I could be more explicit, but I need my anonymity here, so this is the best I can say.
My time may be coming to a close. Perhaps it will be in a month. Perhaps in six months. But certainly no longer than that. So I'll continue to check in here from time to time, and I felt compelled to share something in this thread for elders. May peace find us all, one way or another. We are all going to die, and acceptance is liberating. Peace.