(NSFW) Should i become transgender due to having a ? looking for advice. Please be nice as its a very serious issue for me.

[Niko66]

because right now no dick=no women

Boobs and vagina=some Lesbian and bi women.

I honestly HIGHLY doubt you will be have an easier time whatsoever dating women as a trans woman. I am not sure where you got that idea. I think finding a male partner would be easier, but I hear from lesbians all the time how dating women or even finding dates is very hard and you are looking at a much tinier population, IE bi and lesbian women who are accepting and attracted to trans women, I don't have the statistics but I am willing to bet that the amount of hetero and bi women who are ok with a micro penis are significantly more than that.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

But do you feel like a man, despite having a micropenis? At any rate, it's not true that no woman will want you, it's just harder to find one.idk w

I honestly HIGHLY doubt you will be have an easier time whatsoever dating women as a trans woman. I am not sure where you got that idea. I think finding a male partner would be easier, but I hear from lesbians all the time how dating women or even finding dates is very hard and you are looking at a much tinier population, IE bi and lesbian women who are accepting and attracted to trans women, I don't have the statistics but I am willing to bet that the amount of hetero and bi women who are ok with a micro penis are significantly more than that.

you think?

 

[WorthlessTrash]

Idk. Some cis women will date trans women, sometimes for the wrong reasons though.

Transitioning when you're not trans isn't the answer to this issue, though.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

sometimes for the wrong reasons though

WYM?

 

[WorthlessTrash]

WYM?

Dating trans women as a fetish.

 

[Niko66]

you think?

I would think so yes. Purely anecdotally and speculative, but it seems only logical. Your dating pool decreases to only people attracted to same gender so like 10-20% of women? which is a relative minority of the population, looking conventionally attractive as a trans woman takes much more effort than for a cis person to do the same as well. And even that minority in the LGBTQ+ community there's people who still won't be attracted to a trans person or even have a bias or prejudice against them. We are so behind as a society in the acceptance of trans people.

I would ask the other way around, why do you think being trans would make dating women any easier? Female genitals don't make you any more capable of pleasing sexually a woman. Thing is at the point where someone even gets to see your genitals and care about them... they are already into you.

In general I think, and I find it very understandable as this is a big issue for you and your self esteem, but you might be overestimating the importance of a penis when it comes to sexually pleasing someone. Most women can't even get off from penetration alone. It's more a psychological attraction thing, IE some women will be put off by a micropenis, but not all and those who are not you can learn to be intimate with, with an open mind to trying different things.

Though yeah as been said already either way it's no solution, only more difficulties when you don't actually have dysphoria and feel like a man.

 

[Chinaski]

You don't have to look far to find your average TERF, from JK Rowling to Germaine Greer via multiple high profile figures of the respectable liberal commentariat, propelling their bigotry on the basis that trans women are simply men trying to invade female spaces for sexual purposes and are transitioning for dishonest purposes, and you would not be doing yourself or anyone else any favours by being an actual example of this.

 

[Kestrel]

Op, I am heartbroken to read how you feel less of a man because of your body. It's understandable, given how much pressure there is to be a certain way in society and how body shaming is far too often a punchline.

As others have said, I don't think transistioning is a good option unless you have dysphoria.

You are a man, and I think any women who's opinion actually means something would also think so. Masculinity is a lot more than just what's downstairs, which the vast majority of the world does not see. To many women, a man who is considerate of his partner's pleasure and open to trying new things is a gift in bed; many women find pleasure in things other than penetration, and some women actually don't enjoy it that much. In fact, most women get the best orgasms from clitoral stimulation. When you are attracted to someone, the quirks of their body can also be very attractive. I would certainly not see a micropenis as a negative if someone I was attracted to had one. It's how you use your body that matters imo.

I know this probably does not counter-act the difficult experiences you might have had. I appreciate it must feel very frustrating. I often feel that I have failed as a women because of my appearance and a condition which means I cannot have PIV sex without lots of pain. But I can say as a women that I know many women would not be bothered by it and would very much enjoy you as you are. I appreciate it can be difficult to put yourself out there when you feel so low and don't want to run the risk of thoughtless people.

 

[Cathy Ames]

But do you feel like a man, despite having a micropenis? At any rate, it's not true that no woman will want you, it's just harder to find one.

Springboarding off of this and what @Kestrel said, I think easy "hook ups" might be unlikely for you, but a long-term relationship would be possible with effort and openmindedness. But I also understand that it would be difficult to put yourself out there (as Kestrel said).

 

[noaccount]

Hi - there aren't "right or wrong" reasons to be trans or not and it's totally up to you.
A question that comes to mind is - how would you feel about people 'reading' you as a woman rather than 'reading' you as a man, and I mean, people who will never see you naked or know what your parts look like, just people out in the general public who are seeing you fully clothed in normal daily activities?

Besides trans groups are there any intersex support groups near you that you could access? It's something to look into maybe, this could be considered a form of being intersex.

PS sorry if this is offtopic and feel free to disregard if so, but there are actually quite a lot of people who don't really like penetrative sex and really prefer getting/giving oral, as far as hookups or dates might go.

 

[wait.what]

can i dm u? i dont normally dm anyone but i am eager to know about you.

Sure. :) People don't really need to ask me first.

ingle time I have tried to supplement with B vitamins they make me very nauseous and dizzy,

This is what my doc said about it: the B vitamins really need to be only B6, not a bunch of B vitamins all together. B7 in particular (also called biotin, I think) is something you're not supposed to take massive amounts of if you're also taking a lot of B6. I can't immediately remember why.

Also, it may matter what the source of the B vitamins is. I have a pretty bad intolerance to brewers yeast (because of course I would), and the cheaper brands of B vitamins are all grown in brewer's yeast. You have to look for the "fancier" brands, which are synthetic. I get a kind called P5P from Pure Encapsulations. It's about $17 USD for 180 pills. I take 2-3 a day, so a bottle lasts a couple of months. The zinc I take is zinc orotate. It tends to cause less nausea than zinc picolinate, a fact which can be important if you're taking a LOT of zinc. The brand of zinc which I have is "NCI Advanced Research Dr. Hans Nieper Zinc Orotate." A bottle is about $14 USD for 100 pills. The issue with this type of zinc is that they are "60 mg pills" or "100 mg," or whatever, but only 10 mg of each pill is zinc. Since my doctor told me to take between 100-150 mg a day, that is a hell of a lot of zinc pills. Lots of other brands of zinc orotate are quite expensive, so keep in mind how many pills you'll have to take. If possible, you should really have a doctor looking in on you while you take that kind of thing . . . taking too much zinc in particular can damage your kidneys.

I can probably find the info on the lab that did the testing if you want. It's Walsh something, I think. It's in the U.S., if that's relevant. What you do is send them a couple of vials of pee frozen on dry ice. I think the cost was about $90.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

You don't have to look far to find your average TERF, from JK Rowling to Germaine Greer via multiple high profile figures of the respectable liberal commentariat, propelling their bigotry on the basis that trans women are simply men trying to invade female spaces for sexual purposes and are transitioning for dishonest purposes, and you would not be doing yourself or anyone else any favours by being an actual example of this.

i dont care about what liberals or anyone think, its my body my choice my life right?

There shouldnt be any Gatekeeping or telling people what they can or cant do with their own bodies.

Ive given examples and shown why micropenis can ruin a mans life and they use to raise micropenis babies as women as even doctors knew all the life issues it would cause.

I for one wished they did that to me.

its about being content, having a sexual life, not worrying about my penis size anymore, being free from this penis curse. you may see it as silly but others who live it understand.

so idc jk rowling or whoever the fuck is gernaine green lol.

they can suck my trans pussy .

a condition which means I cannot have PIV sex without lots of pain

really, what has caused that??
im sorry my friend .

Springboarding off of this and what @Kestrel said, I think easy "hook ups" might be unlikely for you, but a long-term relationship would be possible with effort and openmindedness. But I also understand that it would be difficult to put yourself out there (as Kestrel said).

love u cathy ames

his could be considered a form of being intersex.

yeah i was also actually thinking of remaning a man but getting a vagina surgery. Sounds crazy right?
look up buck angel thou, hes a trans man but didnt do bottom sugery and he inspires me.

 

[Chinaski]

i dont care about what liberals or anyone think, its my body my choice my life right?

There shouldnt be any Gatekeeping or telling people what they can or cant do with their own bodies.

Ive given examples and shown why micropenis can ruin a mans life and they use to raise micropenis babies as women as even doctors knew all the life issues it would cause.

I for one wished they did that to me.

its about being content, having a sexual life, not worrying about my penis size anymore, being free from this penis curse. you may see it as silly but others who live it understand.

so idc jk rowling or whoever the fuck is gernaine green lol.

they can suck my trans pussy .

Well yeah of course, you can do what you like and for the record l certainly do not align myself with JK Rowling ffs but l do think if you're transitioning because you want to have more sex with women this does sadly provide an example of the bullshit TERF argument that trans women are actually men who transition for sexually gratifying reasons, if your sole motivator is the fact you have a small penis you'd be no more of a woman than l would be if l lost my genitals in a car crash and transitioning on this basis would cause absolutely more problems than it would solve.

 

[whatevs]

You don't have to look far to find your average TERF, from JK Rowling to Germaine Greer via multiple high profile figures of the respectable liberal commentariat, propelling their bigotry on the basis that trans women are simply men trying to invade female spaces

Man, this is so based. Rowling crowned herself with the Harry Potter saga and has done so again speaking the truth plainly on a topic that touched something she cared about enough to trigger repudiation from the feeble minded, including the cast of Harry Potter. Truly a woman with values outside of adapting to social pressure to virtue signal the current thing.

 

[sfabians]

Have you tried Quora? I think they can give you useful advice.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

Have you tried Quora? I think they can give you useful advice.

thanks il try it

 

[Superdeterminist]

It's totally up to you, you are free to try it or not. I say do whatever you feel is necessary in order to reduce the distress from your very unfortunate condition.

 

[sadboyhours:(]

One thing that I'd like to point out is that sex isn't solely about penetration. Someone could have a massive dick but if they don't know what to do apart from that the sex will be shit anyway. I'm a lesbian but I feel like that kind of proves that having a dick isn't the only thing that makes sex worth it. There's lots of things you could try like strap ons and other sex toys. I feel like most girls would much to actually be stimulated and have someone that focuses on them rather than running solely with the fact they have a big dick, there's so many things that are genuinely more important, a lot of girls don't really feel anything from penetration anyway. It's completely your choice but I'd really recommend not transitioning if this is your only reason. If you're already struggling with mental health then additional hormones isn't going to help at all and they can have really bad side effects that will most likely make you really dysphoric. Like I said completely your decision, I just want to help out so that you don't do something that could make things worse overall