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Quinlor

Quinlor

The stranger
Feb 21, 2019
1,067
After a year of saying hello, flattering her every chance I got, I finally had the courage to declare myself to the muse of the gym I go to. I wrote her a letter asking her out, saying it was a privilege to see her every morning and that I really wanted to get to know her better.

All she said was: 'I'm married and I don't want to make friends at the gym'.
And I said: 'You've had all this time to tell me, why didn't you tell me before?'
She said: "I don't need to tell you anything."

I wasted a year of my life falling in love with the wrong woman ... again! what agony!

You can judge me! I deserve to be ridiculed and crucified by the world! I'm just not going to try to die again because I've been living in a post-mortem experience for a long time.
 
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FakeProdigy

FakeProdigy

Can you feel my heart?
Apr 6, 2025
41
Lol I don't think it's as big of a deal as you think. It happens to a lot of people. Lesson learned, before getting too invested into someone you should find out if they're taken or not. You're fine
 
Odwin

Odwin

Bucket of Chicken
Mar 31, 2021
558
Chill, you took your shot. Dating is a numbers games. You just need to reload faster
 
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FoxSauce

FoxSauce

Emotionally unstable like an IKEA table
Aug 23, 2024
1,280
Bro its fine happens to a lot of people, i may not know so much about dating well none at all tbh.

But hou shoot your shot plus if she doesnt want her her lost at least she didnt lead you one? (Idk)

No you dont feserve to be ridiculed
 
SVEN

SVEN

I Wish I'd Been a Jester Too.
Apr 3, 2023
2,802
If you never try you never score. No one's going to make fun of a trier, m8.
 
Quinlor

Quinlor

The stranger
Feb 21, 2019
1,067
Thanks guys,

On that day I felt bad, but then I thought, I tried and I was honest and true to myself:hug:.

Meanwhile, she hasn't shown up since that day... I hope she's travelling and it wasn't my fault that she stopped going to the gym.
 
bankai

bankai

Visionary
Mar 16, 2025
2,340
Some people like the attention. I agree she should have let you know about her martial status earlier. That being said don't give so much so readily. Be more guarded. If the right woman comes along fine else stay single. Trust me peace of mind is more important.

Also lol your thread title, you're being dramatic man. Definitely you'll find the lol(love of life) if you try with the right person.
 
Pale_Rider

Pale_Rider

Enlightened
Apr 21, 2025
1,472
A hard blow for sure. Heal, and try again.
 

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