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MrWebBrowser

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Jan 19, 2026
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I can't swim, and I live in a city of open water. Let's assume I don't care all that much about pain: how good is this method?

I'm considering it purely because I can't swim, and thus, can't back out of it. Bonus points if I hit my head on a rock mid-backflip into the bay.

My main concerns are with what happens after. I intend to do it at night, but how long does drowning take to be impossible to come back from? There are still people watching the water sometimes, even at night. And do I need to worry about floating? I weigh a good 260 pounds.
 
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HNR_

Close to a new start...or meet my end
May 21, 2026
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Heard that it takes a while and it's extremely painful to the point that it's highly inadvised to go for that method
 
burninghill

burninghill

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Dec 2, 2025
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Not just painful but also incredibly stressful and just downright horrible in my opinion to put it bluntly. This would be my absolute last resort unless it involves jumping off a bridge into the water and being unconscious.
 
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pluvio

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Nov 9, 2025
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Just got this from skimming Wikipedia, so take it with a heavy grain of salt.

People who can't swim typically struggle on the surface for 20-60 seconds before submerging. Once submerged, you reflexively hold your breath until you start taking on water, and then esophagus spasms force water out. Can't find a good number but I'd guess this takes ~4 minutes before you lose consciousness. After this, it'll take about 6 minutes of no oxygen to undergo brain death. The whole process will be even longer if you are in cold water.

The others are right, it will be a torturous experience that will feel even longer because of intense panic. Not to mention that if you are rescued before that 6 minute window, there's a good chance of surviving with brain damage.
 
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MrWebBrowser

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Jan 19, 2026
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I appreciate the insight, y'all. I checked the resource megathread and read some other posts about drowning too.

it's uh, not my first choice now. Might try something at home first, but hey, push comes to shove I'm okay with the stress so long as it gets the job done.
 
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BradGuy123

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Jul 6, 2025
508
I think that drowning would involve a lot of panic. I don't think it would be a peaceful way to go.
 
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May 30, 2026
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Truly awful. The stuff of nightmares.
 
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aspenjrojas

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Jul 15, 2026
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I feel like it isn't a good method in general, it is so hard to stick to and there are so many things that could go wrong. Not even the pain or time, because that doesn't matter that much if you're gonna be dead anyway. Even if you can't swim, at a certain point your body's reflexes will do anything in its power to keep itself alive. I feel like the only way it could be good is if you hurt your head to an extent that you can't think properly, like taking drugs or alcohol or making sure you hit a rock. And also making sure you wear something weighted or be able to stay on the ground so it isn't physically possible for your body to make itself back to the surface. However, I would say its just not worth it as a method unless you really want to, or there is a large height, or something else. Theres just so many other ways to go that are far more successful and peaceful, like hanging.
 
shibby

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Sep 9, 2023
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When i used to be a lifeguard, we were taught that it's actually really distressing to drown. rlly dont recommend this bc ur body will voluntarily try to move and live.
 
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plskilme

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Jul 8, 2026
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I almost drowned when I was a kid. Had a seizure while swimming in the gulf at the beach. Some German guy who didn't speak english found me and saved my life that day. I still think about that day... before the depression got as bad as it did, I was thankful. But now I'm like fuckkkkkk why was he in the right place at the right time? I do remember it being very painful though. Idk if it was because of the seizure itself or the drowning part. I imagine it was both though.
 
Intoxicated

Intoxicated

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Nov 16, 2023
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it is so hard to stick to
For me it looks like one of the simplest methods.
and there are so many things that could go wrong.
How big is that "so many"? I can think of exactly 3 reasons:
  1. you're rescued by others,
  2. you get out of the water somehow using your own efforts,
  3. you're kicked out of the water to land by waves or other kind of water stream (in an ocean, sea, or river).
The probability of all these conditions can be minimized with careful planning.
Even if you can't swim, at a certain point your body's reflexes will do anything in its power to keep itself alive.
What reflexes? The only reflex that may really delay drowning is the one that prevents aspiration of water, but it's quickly superseded by the breathing reflex, which forces you to inhale water, causing loss of useful oxygen and decrease in your buoyancy (due to increased average body density resulting from the replacement of air with water in the lungs). This latter reflex makes your death rather more probable than less likely.

In case if there is some panic (which doesn't belong to reflexes), it may decrease the odds of survival as well. The behavior of panicking people is often very far from acting in a way that would be optimal for surviving. In particular, many drowning subjects try to climb on their would-be rescuers, causing big troubles for those who are trying to help. Sometimes this leads to death of both the initial drowning victim and the would-be rescuer.
I feel like the only way it could be good is if you hurt your head to an extent that you can't think properly, like taking drugs or alcohol or making sure you hit a rock.
Effective sedation can be achieved by inhaling asphyxiant gases. It's a cheap, easy, and fast method.
Theres just so many other ways to go that are far more successful and peaceful, like hanging.
Why do you think that hanging is far more successful? The stats regarding lethality of suicide methods presented in the documents below indicate some advantage of hanging, but it doesn't look especially big.


Firearms: 89.7%
Hanging/suffocation: 84.5%
Drowning: 80.4%

Lethality of suicide methods

Firearms: 90.3% (3027 / 3354)
Hanging/suffocation: 83.3% (9293 / 11148)
Drowning: 79.5% (527 / 663)

As for the level of comfort, drowning after gas asphyxiation could be better than hanging after gas asphyxiation, since hanging could cause a more intense brief discomfort during the period between the loss of bodily control and the loss of sensitivity. These methods should be close to each other in terms of comfort, and the choice mostly depends on the personal taste. Some people have aversion or fear towards drowning, some people dislike the idea of strangulation. I'd rather prefer drowning to strangulation of any kind.
 
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Passenger4224

Passenger4224

I appreciate everything that can kill me.
Mar 8, 2026
465
Drowning would be the last method I'd try personally, it sounds like torture. But if you don't mind pain it's an accessible option. I don't know much about the mortality rate + what can go wrong
 
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