Seeing how everyone in here are distressed af. Now.. I may not know any of ya'lls personal life at all yes, but the thing is with teens right now are wanting to really 'end it all' I may be aware that the after life is peaceful but you wouldn't know that at all. There are multiple dimensional sides not just hell and heaven but you will never know where you'll go once you've taken that risk to end your life, it is a torture in the afterlife for those who takes their own life because it's considered as wasting the future even if you don't care what it'll be or how you'll be living in the future (and that's not in a religious way at all). Whatever happened in one of you guy's life, should rlly let it out to someone who you can fully trust. I know that would be very difficult because in this generation its slightly rare to find someone who can click with you and support your needs but it's a 50/50 chance tbf. I know most of you will say "I can't trust anybody, I always feel I'll be lied to" I understand fully because I was in that type of position. Therapists, friends or whoever can lie and mock behind your back once you've revealed how you truly feel about life and your surroundings.
I'm usually the one who helps, I came across this site and seeing how people want to die and being told to die instead of "Supporting those to avoid them unaliving themselves" is just a waste. Even if you don't care that it's a waste because it rlly is. You are the future generation but you wouldn't know that at all wouldn't you?
And the problem here is, why tf are people in here encouraging instead of giving actual help advice to those who are at the verge of death.
I see ppl telling those who is gonna 'end it all' to "Do it", "Wish you the best", "Well done! you can finally be FREE".
No, what are ya'll? Sociopaths? or a grown adult sitting there on their laptop/pc/phone telling distressed minors to die because "It's for the better", which I highly disagree with that statement of theirs. I don't understand why in this suicide discussion is encouraging people to actually die and not even giving a helping hand on what to do to stop the thought of suicide because smth has happened in these teen's personal life that has affected them sharply. Encouraging them is not the way at all, and I'd rather not hear "If they want to die, they die". Messed.
You would be the one with blood in your hands from their death, taking advantage instead of logically helping them. That's somebody's daughter/son, best friend, lover, whatever that you're taking away from (Hell one of these ppl probably has a pet that they're close to and imagine how the pet will be if their owner who is their best friend/parent not existing in their lives anymore but just a empty room). And rn it's easy for psycho fuckers like the people in here to hide behind the screen from getting involved into trouble by encouraging someone to die.
Also just because you have the "Senior member/Experienced member" role and pushing others to CTB themselves doesn't mean you're important because you're not and you'll never will be, it seems to be very spineless of you to go on to other people's suffering while you're clinging onto dear life with that long standing title.
Have some decency, help people in needs instead of being a schmuck.
And to the people who wants to die I suggest talking with someone like me or try to get professional help it's worth a try, trust me but I would recommend a psychologist,
therapists sucks ass cuz I've been through some therapy and they're just not rlly helping. I suggest a psychologist they can talk to you about it and help you find a solution on how to cope with suicidal thoughts (weather they're severe or mild). Medication will make things worse, do not ask for any of that unless if you wanna improve then I suggest herbal medication such as ashwaganda.
I understand you all, the pain is real but suicide is not the way.
