Might be able to cope/recover, but don't want to?

[Messgram]

Unfortunately, gay men have always ended out being assholes in my experience. They think they are better than other people. Lesbians are just as bad… they are f'ing mean and abusive, lol.

My niece is gay. Her previous girlfriend beat her all the time… everything from breaking her arm to throwing her from a balcony. Her latest gf is no nicer.

I had exactly the same experience with gay men. All of them who crossed my path, no exceptions. And my gay cousin is the most pathetic person I've ever met, he's dishonest, arrogant, narcissistic and fake, so much so that he's been excommunicated from the family.

 

[LongtimeLoser]

I had exactly the same experience with gay men. All of them who crossed my path, no exceptions. And my gay cousin is the most pathetic person I've ever met, he's dishonest, arrogant, narcissistic and fake, so much so that he's been excommunicated from the family.

Gay men are beautiful to look at though :)

 

[Messgram]

Gay men are beautiful to look at though :)

I forgot about my manager at the company where I work, he is a very nice guy. So I exaggerated when I said "all of them"..

 

[LongtimeLoser]

I forgot about my manager at the company where I work, he is a very nice guy. So I exaggerated when I said "all of them"..

I have never considered myself "gay"… or a part of the LGBT community. For some reason, I have never wanted to be associated with them. I hate labels.

I'm wired differently than most people. I'm attracted to beautiful people… period. I don't discriminate based on sex at all. A person's personality is what I'm most attracted to though. I'm a rare breed.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

I have never considered myself "gay"… or a part of the LGBT community. For some reason, I have never wanted to be associated with them. I hate labels.

I'm wired differently than most people. I'm attracted to beautiful people… period. I don't discriminate based on sex at all. A person's personality is what I'm most attracted to though. I'm a rare breed.

You would be demisexual, then. At least that's the label you'd get from the LGBTQ community. But yes, I feel like that's a rare "breed", but you are human after all so breed is a bad label. It's just what you are, I guess.

For me, I don't find the male body beautiful in fact I hate it, so in the context of being male I am hetero and if I was female, I'd be a lesbian (I hope). My issue with how the male body looks is a reason I am dysphoric. I want to be someone who can appreciate their own appearance and if I don't like the male body, I cannot and will not do that.

Being the wrong "sex" is a terrible feeling

 

[Messgram]

I have never considered myself "gay"… or a part of the LGBT community. For some reason, I have never wanted to be associated with them. I hate labels.

I'm wired differently than most people. I'm attracted to beautiful people… period. I don't discriminate based on sex at all. A person's personality is what I'm most attracted to though. I'm a rare breed.

I think it's impossible not to have labels, since for everything there will always be some label.

 

[LongtimeLoser]

You would be demisexual, then. At least that's the label you'd get from the LGBTQ community. But yes, I feel like that's a rare "breed", but you are human after all so breed is a bad label. It's just what you are, I guess.

For me, I don't find the male body beautiful in fact I hate it, so in the context of being male I am hetero and if I was female, I'd be a lesbian (I hope). My issue with how the male body looks is a reason I am dysphoric. I want to be someone who can appreciate their own appearance and if I don't like the male body, I cannot and will not do that.

Being the wrong "sex" is a terrible feeling

I'm sorry you are struggling. I can't even imagine what it's like to not only hate the body you're in, but completely hate your own sex :(

I think it's impossible not to have labels, since for everything there will always be some label.

My whole family has known since I was young that I liked/dated both men and women. I was with the same woman for 18 years, but prior to, and after that I was with some men. I've mentioned that I was "bi" a couple of times, but that's really it in all my 40 or so years. Sexuality is a spectrum I guess. I've never seen myself as special… where I needed to take part in pride parades and the such… and I most definitely have never shoved my sexuality or lifestyle down anyones throat. I'm one of those conservative gays I guess, lol.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

I'm sorry you are struggling. I can't even imagine what it's like to not only hate the body you're in, but completely hate your own sex :(

Thanks, it sucks that I lost the 50/50 at birth. I am just ready to CTB.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

You would be demisexual, then. At least that's the label you'd get from the LGBTQ community. But yes, I feel like that's a rare "breed", but you are human after all so breed is a bad label. It's just what you are, I guess.

For me, I don't find the male body beautiful in fact I hate it, so in the context of being male I am hetero and if I was female, I'd be a lesbian (I hope). My issue with how the male body looks is a reason I am dysphoric. I want to be someone who can appreciate their own appearance and if I don't like the male body, I cannot and will not do that.

Being the wrong "sex" is a terrible feeling

I agree. I don't like the male body, either, and most of all, I can't stand mine. I mean I can't stand being "in" it, if that makes sense. If it were possible to come back as female, I, too, would hope to be lesbian. Although, I was thinking, that since I'm a straight male now regarding sexual orientation, I wonder if that would carry over if I came back as female, meaning I would end up a straight female? Too many things to think about. I don't need anymore in my head. Dysphoria is already too much noise. It doesn't matter since that's not possible anyway. Just hypothesizing.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

I agree. I don't like the male body, either, and most of all, I can't stand mine. I mean I can't stand being "in" it, if that makes sense. If it were possible to come back as female, I, too, would hope to be lesbian. Although, I was thinking, that since I'm a straight male now regarding sexual orientation, I wonder if that would carry over if I came back as female, meaning I would end up a straight female? Too many things to think about. I don't need anymore in my head. Dysphoria is already too much noise. It doesn't matter since that's not possible anyway. Just hypothesizing.

Maybe it's just my wishful thinking, but there's gotta be some secret technology out there that can put us in the right (cis) body.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Maybe it's just my wishful thinking, but there's gotta be some secret technology out there that can put us in the right (cis) body.

What? Like a brain transplant or something? Remember I'm atheist, so not commenting on a soul transplant.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

What? Like a brain transplant or something? Remember I'm atheist, so not commenting on a soul transplant.

Yeah, I guess lol

I'm Atheist, too.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

It could very well be that the "essence" of who we feel we are lies somewhere else in our bodies entirely. No one can really ever know that for sure, can they? I know the docs would say it is the brain that is in control of everything, but that would be impossible to prove, in my opinion. All they can do is see brain areas light up. That proves nothing, IMO.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

It could very well be that the "essence" of who we feel we are lies somewhere else in our bodies entirely. No one can really ever know that for sure, can they? I know the docs would say it is the brain that is in control of everything, but that would be impossible to prove, in my opinion. All they can do is see brain areas light up. That proves nothing, IMO.

Perhaps. Come on essence, GET OUT OF THIS BODY AND FIND A NEW ONE!!!

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Perhaps. Come on essence, GET OUT OF THIS BODY AND FIND A NEW ONE!!!

Hey, wouldn't it be nice if we could simply go out and find a cis-female who felt like we do and then could just do an even swap............body for body? You know, as long as both of us were happy with the other's containers? Just Dreaming.