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cherryblossom

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Oct 8, 2024
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Thank you so much, such a good and comprehensive list, the resources are very helpful thanks a lot šŸ¤
 
vanillamilkshakes

vanillamilkshakes

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Aug 26, 2024
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this is great, thank you for providing this
 
roadkill111

roadkill111

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Nov 25, 2024
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Mental Health is a joke to the governments.
 
IDontKnowEverything

IDontKnowEverything

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Mar 2, 2025
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Really thank you. The work you did to put all of this in one place is something that actually may help me in the future. Thank you.
 
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Namelesa Graves

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Sep 21, 2024
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So I am wondering about doing some of the DBT work here as I suffer a lot of the symptoms of BPD but is it worth doing if I don't actually have the correct therapist to actually give me professional DBT help? It just says about that it isn't a replacement and should go alongside it but as I probably can't get that kind of therapist should I try this work out regardless?
 
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Dot

Info abt typng styl on prfle.
Sep 26, 2021
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So I am wondering about doing some of the DBT work here as I suffer a lot of the symptoms of BPD but is it worth doing if I don't actually have the correct therapist to actually give me professional DBT help? It just says about that it isn't a replacement and should go alongside it but as I probably can't get that kind of therapist should I try this work out regardless?

Thnk n.e xampls r bettr wth a propr therpst whrevr pssble bt nt givn nt evry1 hs accss t/ tht thn takng info abt TIPP xerciss etc cld stll b of benft - slf hve bn givn info abt TIPP xerciss b/ ppl wh/ r nt speclsts in DBT

iirc slf dd fnd sme onlne spport grps whch d/ speclse in DBT in ordr fr ppl t/ fnd sme 'as clse 2 professnl spport as pssble' - thy shld b in th/ onlne spport grps thred

also iirc slf linkd a BPD/DBT webste whch ws speclly dsignd fr slf-educatn s/ imo lk thru all availbl info & jst tke wht wld b helpfl fr u
 
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Eika

Eika

The shadows have enlightened me.
Mar 4, 2025
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I'm reading each.
Personally, I always take a shower in extremely cold water, it's a relief for impulsive thoughts.
 
lowres

lowres

Scum
Feb 9, 2019
129
I figured I would share some things that I received from my therapist. Just skimmed thru the OP, so apologies if I'm posting redundantly.

Most of this is dbt related work because for a while my main focus was trying to maintain my relationship with my gf. there is also a bunch of random grounding techniques available.

I found that dearman helps me the most when i want to vocalize any negative feelings i have in my relationship and I can't communicate them appropriately, fast is good in professional settings where people are stepping on your toes and dgaf.

Another good resource I found is 1giantmind or really any basic mantra meditation dealio like that transendential meditation stuff david lynch was really into. I'm not really a mindfulness person, I'm very cynical so its challenging for me to think better of situations but I find breathing and trying to let my thoughts wash over me is very valuable for having some level of peace inside my brain.
 

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