Make A Friend megathread

[an_alias]

hiiii guys! my name is Ryan and I'm from England! also asexual and proud :^))) if you like:

• Literature: Italo Calvino, David Foster Wallace, Walt Whitman/adjacent transcendentalist writers e.g. Edward Carpenter, WWI war poetry, Rumi, Kuzhali Manickavel, Arundathi Roy, Oscar Wilde
• (normie) Music: Red Hot Chili Peppers, TWICE, ILLIT, Beabadoobee, Japanese Breakfast, Coldplay, Faye Wong
• (slightly weirder) Music: Animal Collective/Panda Bear, Beach House, Spacemen 3, Pavement, Bark Psychosis, Lightning Bolt, Hella, Gang Gang Dance, John Frusciante, The Durutti Column, Tortoise, Built to Spill, The Flaming Lips, Tim Hecker, Boredoms, Interpol, The Velvet Underground, Talking Heads, Dinosaur Jr
• Movies: Barton Fink, Lost in Translation, Wings of Desire—but also low-brow Apatow stuff like Superbad :p
• STEM, especially computer science and Linux wizardry
• linguistics
• radical feminism
• maaaaybe a little bit of politics. i think of myself as a social democrat with radfem leanings

then shoot me a DM! personalitywise I'm an ISTJ with very high Fe, love hearing abt people's day and life stories ^^ hope to hear from u soon!

buuuump. if you like Ouran High School Host Club or Ace Attorney it's a big plus ^^

 

[CelesteLove]

Hii, I'm a 26F from Colombia, I'm interested in coding, anime, alternative music, and videogames, feel free to message me if you're from latin america

 

[Gal1ctic]

Hello, wanna talk, I can't pm people. But, do u got discord?

ourgalactic

 

[decaying]

Hi, I'm not too active on sasu but my discord is fleshtomachine. If you want to chat it's better to message me there.

I live in Australia and I'm in university, not to study anything I'm passionate about but just to secure a future as a wageslave lol. I need to have a few surgeries done to improve my quality of life but haven't been able to get enough funds so that's another reason why I've wanted to CTB. Generally though the main reason for me to CTB is depression which I've had since childhood. I'm not interested in recovery, I'm just not particularly feeling urgency to immediately CTB, though I've been thinking about setting a date for the end of 2026.

I don't have many hobbies but I like a variety of video games, especially turn-based ones, am interested in global politics and history, and I know a bit about the history of the labour movement and gender politics if that's something you enjoy talking about. Also lately I've been trying to get back into reading books so I started No Longer Human. I used to play a lot of rhythm games and still listen to that kind of music sometimes. I've lurked sasu for way longer than I've had an account so you can message me as well if you just want to talk about CTB issues.

 

[Seaghost]

German, 42m, my mind is always switching between 16 and 80 :].
Having real life friends between 22 and 71 but you now talking about suicide can be really difficult and that can boost loneliness. I'm sure you all know what mean xD.

Music: Regular I'm mostly into like rock/hardrock/bombast rock (for example Def Leppard, Jim.Steinman, Cinderella etc) or Musicals, Classic, sometimes (not the cliche aggro stuff) Rap, folk, film music.

I can be a clown and also completely quiet and deep talk ready.
At the moment I'm very into darkness and try to preperate my last steps.

A note at the end: It can happen I won't answering a long time especially if the postings in Dms getting bigger and bigger.
The my brain is overwhelmed and not able to answer in a competent way and that brings my mind under huge pressure. So it's not a bad will from my side but it could help not to make book-like seized DMs - from both sides ;).

Btw. If I'm realizing someone ist just searching for attention or other stuff. I'm closing the conversation immediately.

Maybe another try with 43 :]

 

[blush]

hi i'm an 18f trans girl i'm also on the internet! i currently like cute things such as my plushies and sanrio characters . i also like writing and the night sky , but also am pretty sad a lot because i obviously made it here please message me if you don't want to be lonely and are nice!

 

[freezerbr1d3]

hii
i'm new to this platform so i don't feel comfortable sharing my real name yet sorry! my prns are she/her and i'm a 20 yo civil engineering student, now germany based but i was born in r*ssia (i absolutely resent its government and the war though) . i speak russian, english and german :D we can talk in all of them lol (my german's really awkward but why not) .

here are things i like bc obvi it'd be nice to find someone to talk to or become friends with who likes the same things! :
- music : lana del rey, ethel cain, alex g, radiohead, mitski (also going to her concert soon yayyy), panchiko, grimes, black box recorder, the smiths, the cranberries, etc etc maybe i'll remember some more idk
- movies / tv shows (i watched a lot and have a huge watchlist but here are the ones i liked most idkk) : the whole asoiaf universe (got, hotd, akotsk) , what we do in the shadows (movie!), girl interrupted, black swan, jennifer's body etc etc
- i never really played games much but i like genshin impact and sims :P
- typologies especially enneagram i'm sp/so 4w3 461 !!!

i have ed and bpd and pretty sure i'm either actually depressed or having a huge depression episode rn & my sui ideation has become a lot worse lately that's why i turned to sasu so yeahhhh i hope to find ppl who'd understand idk how it works though this is my first post here so pm me or comment here ???

 

[jes7ter]

hi hello
im a girl, 19
if someone would like to vent to me and is willing to listen to me venting aswell then feel free to pm
im not that good with relationships but id just like to talk to someone with a similar worldviews and frankly, i just cant talk about such topics with my real friends
im really more of a listener than a talker and im willing to just be there if someone needs to be heard, i just feel hlike i need that right now
i hope i made everything clear?:) no proper introduction tbf but yeah

 

[Myforevercharlie]

I'm new here, I dont know how to send messages but we have a lot in common. Im a metalhead too with bpd and depression who loves to read and I'm around your age I'd like to be friends and chat with you

Hi! I've send you a message:)

 

[singingcrow]

f in my 20s. looking to connect with someone who is almost certain their death will be caused by suicide as well. i feel like i don't quite belong in this world and wasn't made for it, so i'd really value talking to someone who understands that feeling and also the predicament that we are in

of course our talks don't have to be all negative
we can talk about fun stuff too

 

[chloeburbank]

f20 college student! plan on ctbing soon with SN so if u wanna talk about that or just random stuff please dm meeee! im from california and majoring in computer science. i really like cats, some of my favorite artists are: joji, beabadoobee, twice, snow strippers, frank ocean, and clairo! my sasu friend ctb'd recently so ive been feeling pretty down

 

[foreverandever]

Hey, I'm new here. I'd love to chat to some people about depression, life, hobbies, interests, whatever, before I go through with ctb. I'm a male in my early 30's, in the States, but I'm open to talking with anyone.

Some of my interests include drawing, history, studying languages, running, DnD, fictional characters in general, anime/manga/Japanese pop and traditional culture, Celtic stuff, and other cultures in general. As far as media is concerned, my favorite books include the Stormlight Archive series, March Comes in like a Lion, The Lord of the Rings, and Re: Zero. Shows I like include March Comes in like a Lion, Toradora, and Fruits Basket. I love A Silent Voice, Kiki's Delivery Service, Wreck-it Ralph, and a multitude of video games like DDLC, Age of Empires, Republic Commando, etc.

Anyway, sorry about the long post, I get talkative online sometimes. Send me a DM if I seem interesting at all and you want a friend for the last bit, no matter how long that might be. Thanks!

 

[RW__Asher23]

Hey, I'm new here. I'd love to chat to some people about depression, life, hobbies, interests, whatever, before I go through with ctb. I'm a male in my early 30's, in the States, but I'm open to talking with anyone.

Some of my interests include drawing, history, studying languages, running, DnD, fictional characters in general, anime/manga/Japanese pop and traditional culture, Celtic stuff, and other cultures in general. As far as media is concerned, my favorite books include the Stormlight Archive series, March Comes in like a Lion, The Lord of the Rings, and Re: Zero. Shows I like include March Comes in like a Lion, Toradora, and Fruits Basket. I love A Silent Voice, Kiki's Delivery Service, Wreck-it Ralph, and a multitude of video games like DDLC, Age of Empires, Republic Commando, etc.

Anyway, sorry about the long post, I get talkative online sometimes. Send me a DM if I seem interesting at all and you want a friend for the last bit, no matter how long that might be. Thanks!

Hi Welcome to sasu! Sorry you are here but really happy you are too. Sorry because we know there is no other place like this on the internet today. So now you found us the sorry is that there should be other places like this but there is not so we are Happy you are here, you have a place to go when the need comes. Peace.

 

[Butterfly-death]

Hi I'm 19f

Note: I plan to ctb before the end of the year hopefully

I just want a friend to talk to until then. We can talk about interests or whatever really, postive or negative topics

Interests: ddlc, undertale, fnaf, the outsiders, bojack horseman, moral orel, adventure time, mlp, greek mythology, hades, tadc, inside job, smiling friends, house md, death note, scott pilgrim, south park, omori, cookie run, hamilton, heathers, mean girls, be more chill, epic the musical, sonic the hedgehog, gravity falls, the owl house, our flag means death, as you are, little miss sunshine, the gold finch, danganronpa, sally face, little misfortune, fran bow, camp camp, it, stardew valley, ace attorney, resident evil, dark deception, etc

Music: isabel larosa, tv girl, janani k. jha, mitski, alex g, beabaddoobe, laufey, rachel chinouriri, sunday cruise, gigi perez, frank sinatra, take care, overtonight, nf, gorillaz, tally hall, miracle musical, will wood, lemon demon, jack stauber, bo burnham, dominic fike, nxdia, zevia, sushi soucy, rio romeo, raye, ricky jamaraz, carpetgarden, emerson woolf & the wishbones, august greenwood, the crane wives, fish in a birdcage, that handsome devil, chonny jash, milk in the microwave, hot freaks, tyler the creator, adrianne lenker, etc

Feel free to reach out if we have any of these in common I would love to chat! Or if you just want to talk ctb related topics that's fine too

 

[byou]

Make A Friend Megathread

NOTE: Read this thread fully before posting!

It can be hard to find someone who understands, and can relate to suicidal and depressive thoughts.
This thread is to facilitate the possibility of meeting a friend who can understand that, or just to find someone who is on your wavelength.
There is no mandatory format for your post, just give a bit of info of what you are looking for e.g interests etc.


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Understand that:
There are many risks involved in trusting a stranger, including but not limited to being lied to, being used for personal gain, being given random or harmful information, differences between you two, blackmail, pranks, and many more. Be sure you truly understand the risks, even for something as simple as getting help from someone or helping someone. We only provide a place to get in touch with others who think like you, you take full responsibility for what happens next.

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uh im 18, female, eu, i like movies and music, im rlly akward at first but warm up to ppl very quickly..feel free to DM me i literally dont care im just desperate to talk to people at this point

 

[ruggatt]

Hey, 27m from indonesia. Im not great at talking to people anymore so this feels a bit awkward. Just looking to connect or chat before ctb. I like movies.

 

[SCDLKD]

Hi, I'm a 28yo M from Argentina. It's been a couple of years since the last time I'd entered this forum. I've been going through a lot lately and I relapsed once again, so here we are. If anyone wants to vent here I am, we can chat about anything I don't mind the weirdness of the topic

 

[hellonearth144]

Lucy
19F
USA, EST timezone
Hobbies: Skinwalking Eric Harris, reading, drawing, daydreaming and sleeping :) I like nature, hiking, fishing, that sort of thing. I dont rlly care much for hunting but guns are intriguing to me for various reasons. I play video games sometimes.
Currently Im in school studying earth and environmental science. I want to become a therapist maybe, so i might switch majors... or do something with animals. I don't know.
I try to be nice. it's hard being nice.
I'd love to talk about music with you :) i love music..
Please dm, the eternal search for friendship is tiring.

Hi I can't message you, do you have discord? I also like Columbine I'm 26f

 

[uklad38]

Male in my late 30s and would be open to chatting to new people. In the uk and would like to have conversations about the attempt I made and potential future thoughts without being judged as that's what everyone seems to do.

 

[HopelessScientist]

I am a 26 y/o, UK based.
Depressed since 7, suicidal by 10. Brief remission at 18, complete collapse at 22.

I want to be a neuroscientist as much as I want to die. It's my autistic special interest. I like anime and j-fashion, though I wouldn't say I am obsessed. I play some video games here and there and make digital art.

I am interested in anyone who loves researching anything honestly! I am particularly interested in hearing from others in psychology, psychiatry, neuroscience, social work, etc. Just to share the ludicrous irony of our suicidality. Other than that, I am open to talk to anyone. Infodump me about anything.

 

[klantedklaw]

Hii

22m i want to make a close friend ideally. I'm in a constant dilemma about recovery or suicide so I'm open to talk about anything.

Interests:

Games: ddlc, steins;gate, no im not a human, stardew, persona, tf2, hl/2, silent hill, dead by daylight, project zomboid, fear & hunger, overwatch, roblox, the finals, resident evil​

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Music: Snow strippers, Crystal castles, Brothel in Belize, crim3s, pachinko, grimes, pastel ghost, cult member.​

im also rlly into science (biology, comp sci/ technology) and into world building/ fictional worlds (might be a maladapative daydreamer). im also chronically online and into a lot of of online cultures/ chans.​

I'm also a NEET (although I technically study online) so i have plenty of time to talk.

im pretty much into anything and really like learning about other people and their interets. im open to talk to anyone aboout anything, feel free to dm.

 

[catsalvation]

Hey,
- I would really want to finally meet some people who can understand and relate to in topics like suicidality, suicidal ideation and self-harm - and discuss them normally and without a taboo (like sadly most of the people globally do. They would just like to cut it off asap (and I do not want that)... or prefer not to openly talk about it, even if it's about struggle and not discussing it in general).
- I'm from Poland (East EU), Meeting irl is an option (would possibly maybe even do that, especially if it turns out we live relatively close). Other person's company in any way, who understands, helps me a lot. And hopefully the same goes for you ♥
- I sadly, probably don't have privilege to send dms yet, so Please, you need to dm me first.
My age is: 21-29
I'm more of an alt person, I get along with women and more-ish sensitive men better than anyone else.

I will gladly open up and tell you more about myself later, but only once we start chatting more and both be certain it's safe.

Hi, I can't DM you unfortunately, I think you need more comments on the site to unlock that feature. If you're still around I'd like to chat

 

[Mirelight]

Hi, I'm a guy - 20 (21 soon).
Am in US rn, an immigrant tho.
Been in SaSu for a while so u can prob go thru my profile/ past posts to get to know me.
DM pls :)

PS: I've been watching stuff from Dropout a lott recently, love a lot of their shows.

21 now and doing a little worse.

 

[WrathfulGloom32]

24MTF anti nsfw, anti cruelty, vegan. radical feminist. dm if you want to talk :D

 

[force_majeure]

23MTF, US East Coast

Currently finishing up my bachelors in computer science and have been railroaded into a masters, although we'll see if I'm here long enough to start it. I like Autumn, hot tea, pitch dark country skies filled with stars, and long walks on the beach in gray and stormy New England weather. Guess I inherited more of my father's tastes then I would like to admit. My favorite author is Isaac Bashevis Singer, but I also love pulpy mid-century sci-fi (Philip K Dick, Asimov, Bradbury, Vonnegut, etc.), and have a soft spot for Roald Dahl's short stories. Every summer I attempt to read a Pynchon novel and have yet to succeed. My three favorite Kubrick movies are Barry Lyndon, Eyes Wide Shut, and 2001 in that order. I've wasted most of my time in college on war thunder and still suffer from a massive skill issue. I almost always side with the NCR in my New Vegas runs. I also like anime, but who doesn't. By some cosmic fluke I went to a pretty well known private high school in DC; when I was a sophomore Maisy Biden and Sasha Obama were seniors.

Feel free to dm

 

[PainThreshold]

Hey, 27m from indonesia. Im not great at talking to people anymore so this feels a bit awkward. Just looking to connect or chat before ctb. I like movies.

I'm from Nusantara too, hi.

 

[Redacted.Audio]

Hiya, I'm Redacted! 28F (MTF) here looking for peeps to talk to :)
I live in the U.S., Virginia
I've been looking to pursue a career into Clinical Psychology and pre-adult Therapy
I'm a 'tism enjoying gamer-girl, Hyper-S and Hyper-R. I'm shy but I tend to open up once I get talking
Feel free to reach out, no matter if you just want a friend or someone to trauma-bond with / relate to! ^-^

 

[Redacted.Audio]

Hii

22m i want to make a close friend ideally. I'm in a constant dilemma about recovery or suicide so I'm open to talk about anything.

Interests:

Games: ddlc, steins;gate, no im not a human, stardew, persona, tf2, hl/2, silent hill, dead by daylight, project zomboid, fear & hunger, overwatch, roblox, the finals, resident evil

Music: Snow strippers, Crystal castles, Brothel in Belize, crim3s, pachinko, grimes, pastel ghost, cult member.​

im also rlly into science (biology, comp sci/ technology) and into world building/ fictional worlds (might be a maladapative daydreamer). im also chronically online and into a lot of of online cultures/ chans.​

I'm also a NEET (although I technically study online) so i have plenty of time to talk.

im pretty much into anything and really like learning about other people and their interets. im open to talk to anyone aboout anything, feel free to dm.

I can't send PMs yet, I'd love to talk so feel free to try and PM me though!

 

[no_one_will_know]

Hi, I'm a 28yo M from Argentina. It's been a couple of years since the last time I'd entered this forum. I've been going through a lot lately and I relapsed once again, so here we are. If anyone wants to vent here I am, we can chat about anything I don't mind the weirdness of the topic

hey bro how are you

Hi, I'm a 28yo M from Argentina. It's been a couple of years since the last time I'd entered this forum. I've been going through a lot lately and I relapsed once again, so here we are. If anyone wants to vent here I am, we can chat about anything I don't mind the weirdness of the topic

feel free to hit me up and send dm

 

[Redacted.Audio]

Hi, 28F trans gal ^-^
I'm a depressed gamergirl who relies on games & music to get through life, looking for friends
Games I'm into: Team Fortress 2, Titanfall 2, Cyberpunk 2077, Omori, SOMA, Deep Rock Galactic, and plenty of sandbox games
Music I'm into: Rock (pop, alt, & Indie), Synthpop, and much, much more!
I'm pretty shy but I open up fast
Touch of the 'tism and quite a bit more in the mental category
Feel free to reach out ^-^