Living entails so many worries

[throbinhood]

Lets say I wanted to live ? Listened to people's pleas about "think of so much good things /food/ books / experiences / conversations you'll miss out onnnn :(" and continued living for the good stuff,if life was literally just fun stuff and good food and fun friend times it would be awesome — literally no one would be suicidal,i think at least.

But here's the thing,life isnt like that,at all,I can't just do whatever I want and do just the good stuff:
" I want to live now ,I will engage in the things that make life worth living I will order some nice fast food to feast on " -- you have to think about how you'll eat the rest of the month
" I want to join a million billion clubs and fun events" -- you have to think about school
"Hm well okay maybe I'll just watch some fun Minecraft videos" -- wasting your youth
"Maybe I'll just get addicted to substances to cope with this shitty reality" --- will get you shot and you die anyway.

Even if you wanted to live it's just constant struggle after struggle ,and I'm not even impoverished or really struggling financially; these are just the things you have to have on mind if you care about your life.

 

[hihi2027]

The way I see it, life is a series of net positives and net negatives. Whether you are suicidal depends on if life is mostly a net negative, and that the bad experiences outway the good ones. No one can say if you should stay for the good, only you can answer that. Though to be fair, if one ends up on this site then the answer is pretty clear... I just hope life can get better for you so you dont have to visit this site again. I am not judging you just giving my perspective on things.

 

[PeaceSeeker83]

That's the problem with life. You simply can't enjoy it; for example if I'm in the waves at the beach I am also worrying about current problems.