thovens

thovens

life is unbearable
Jul 9, 2023
43
Being diagnosed with depression and anxiety disorder for so many years. I've given up on everything and I have no will to live anymore BUT most of the people I know irl still say to me "oh come on! it's not a big deal! it's just an excuse for doing nothing. you're just lazy. you're having fun. that's why you don't change this situation. you like it. move your ass and do something.". IT'S UNBELIEVABLE! Are they kidding me!?
 
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Stoldy

Stoldy

Born loser
Apr 20, 2023
17
Yeah. The masses don't have any grasp or awareness on the actual nature of mental illnesses at all. It's ridiculous. JuSt PuLl YoUrSeLf Up By ThE BoOtStRaPs. They'll never understand.
 
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deomlez

Not english native speaker. Ctb is my life.
May 19, 2023
330
They are so happy to be healthy and have this rat race. They like giving advices.
 
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Hollowman

Empty
Dec 14, 2021
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I wish people like them could experience what it's like for just a few minutes. Then they would shut the fuck up.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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Those people just sound so insensitive and ignorant, it's sad how humans lack compassion towards the suffering experienced in this world but I'm not even surprised they act in such a way. I just personally think it's best not to open up to people like that at all.
 
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thovens

thovens

life is unbearable
Jul 9, 2023
43
It gets even worse when I hear it from my parents (who were abusive) or my sister. They will never understand until they feel it.
 
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todiefor

todiefor

Scrap that, nothing matters at all after all
Jun 24, 2023
474
I wish people like them could experience what it's like for just a few minutes. Then they would shut the fuck up.
Yes like an empathy chamber, prob come out sobbing to be released from life
 
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Daxter_87

Daxter_87

If my name is crossed out, hopefully I'm dead.
May 28, 2023
400
We humans can be very narrow-minded towards others' suffering unless we experience it ourselves. It wouldn't be necessary to experience the pain first hand if people just tried to actually listen and understand. But the thing is... they don't. They dismiss, invalidate, blame and shame, and that's about it.

Many years ago, when I still had friends (now ex-friends), some of them (most, really) used to say very similar things. I did nothing but hang about during that time (and I still do nothing, a rock is more active than me), and they usually told me things like: "Find a purpose, wretch!" Needless to say, I hated their fucking guts every time they came up with such bullshit. They didn't know what it feels like to find absolutely everything unappealing, to have no motivation, to be sick of it all to the point where you just want to blow your brains out.
 
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MrDarkness

MrDarkness

Left sasu, to improve my life
Jun 18, 2023
1,066
I hate people who say, it's easy, just get out more, like don't you think I've tried that before?? Like ffs it's not as easy as it sounds
 
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Unattainable666

Unattainable666

Enlightened
Mar 31, 2023
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IGNORANCE PURE IGNORANCE. WALK A MILE IN MY SHOES THEN TELL ME HOW LAZY I AM!!!!! These people piss me off!!!
 
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