Is finding a partner safe? how do you pick someone and know they are legit?

[bbq1]

If they found me dead at a campsite, two cop cars, one fire engine to deal with the CO, one ambulance to pronounce me dead and take me away.

If two separate people died at a campsite overnight it'll likely be 5 cop cars, 3 fire engines, hazmat team, 3 ambulances, C.I.D cops, csi cops, a command centre vehicle, total evacuation of all campers, an air ambulance, 3 daily mail paps, a catering van, a sniffer dog and a team from the local funeral shop.

 

[Sundayafternoon]

I know I need a partner because it will help me through but I'm afraid that it could end up badly (potential scammers or worse)

I thought I wanted one. Hoped it would light a fire under my ass.

Now that I've given it some thought, a partner will make my suicide feel like just another obligation.
"Sigh. Gotta kill myself today at 3, Such-a-Such already requested the day off of work."

Of course, there is still the part of me that doesn't want to die alone. But that's how I got here. So I guess it doesn't matter.

good luck and Be careful.

 

[atwasoa]

What Kind of sick fuck would partner up with someone from internet. No offense :p

If i have to give a serious answer, i would never partner up with someone over internet, even if i trust what s/he said i would lost my trust in the second when we meet.
[unless you are 2005 Jessica Alba than you may harvest my organs, whatever]

 

[deadprincess]

i met this guy in the psych ward a few yrs ago. we had a suicide pact. he flaked out and turned out to be an abusive asshole anyway. sometimes i want another partner, but then i'd feel too guilty. better off alone imo.

 

[jerry]

https://www.rte.ie/news/world/2018/0910/992775-twitter-japan/

 

[Shay]

Wow this is scary

 

[Diane]

I know I need a partner because it will help me through but I'm afraid that it could end up badly (potential scammers or worse)

I know I need a partner because it will help me through but I'm afraid that it could end up badly (potential scammers or worse)

I'm going to say no that it's not safe. Because even if you were to get a female partner for suicide purposes only, you never know if she is actually with law enforcement and would have you committed against your will.

 

[Shay]

That's a good point. I find myself becoming more and more paranoid

 

[Phro]

Can something bad happen? Sure. But I'm willing to bet that 99.99% of suicide pacts end as intended: both partners voluntarily commit suicide.

I can get struck by lightning tomorrow. But if I sit around worrying about it, I won't get anything done.

For me, having a partner would be extremely helpful and that's why I'm seeking one.

 

[Shay]

4x as many women attempt suicide than men.
3x more men die by suicide than women.

Thus, if you are a man and pact with a woman your chance of success will go down.

If you are a woman and pact with a man your chances of success goes up.

Two men, very good chance.

Two women....um..maybe just bake a cake then go shopping.

That's maths. Dont blame me.

It all depends on what method the woman is planning to use. Not all of us are emotional and not planning and researching.

 

[Phro]

4x as many women attempt suicide than men.
3x more men die by suicide than women.

Thus, if you are a man and pact with a woman your chance of success will go down.

If you are a woman and pact with a man your chances of success goes up.

Two men, very good chance.

Two women....um..maybe just bake a cake then go shopping.

That's maths. Dont blame me.

Keep in mind that the males and females who are here took the time to find this site. I'd be willing to bet that, thanks to the info here, both males and females are darn good researchers when it comes to methods.

 

[Final Escape]

I thought having a suicide partner would put me at ease but unexpected fears and trust issues came up. I thought to myself that I just don't think I would have a bond strong enough with someone I just met to go ahead and die together. It suddenly became way scarier and anxiety provoking than I had expected. It is not easy to find someone you would feel comfortable with in such a vulnerable situation.

 

[bigj75]

I thought having a suicide partner would put me at ease but unexpected fears and trust issues came up. I thought to myself that I just don't think I would have a bond strong enough with someone I just met to go ahead and die together. It suddenly became way scarier and anxiety provoking than I had expected. It is not easy to find someone you would feel comfortable with in such a vulnerable situation.

too much risk involved. Unless you've known the person for years doing it alone is the best bet.

 

[Alexmoshu]

Meet in a public place first.

i'm not really sure how to pm yet but i'd like to have a word with you

 

[samhelloall9]

Although there are no guarantees in life, I suspect what would happen when two people meet is that the planned suicide will occur.

Do bad things happen sometimes? Sure. But I suspect it's rare. I understand some people's hesitancy but it seems like some of these nightmare scenarios being listed might be exaggerated.

Ditto, Phro, but i realise other's may have a different opinion from you or me. But do know, I share your opinion in your post.

 

[samhelloall9]

These fears apply equally to meeting anyone in person who you met online regardless of the intended purpose

Yes, even a Tinder date or a supposed job advertisement that seemed legit. People should realise this more, because everyday life has risks.

 

[stargazer]

I've posted thrice (three times) in the partners megathread. Only had one weird person, who i ignored from then on. I know I only just joined here, but I'm keen to go by charcoal method inside of the car, downside is lacking charcoal and lacking a car and lacking a private garage (i do not live by myself). In public or campsite, too risky.

I would welcome a suitable partner, I'm awaiting a reply still from someone on here. But i'm still holding out for anyone else, if anything falls through, which is probable. It's a hard ask, I realise.

 

[stargazer]

Although there are no guarantees in life, I suspect what would happen when two people meet is that the planned suicide will occur.

Do bad things happen sometimes? Sure. But I suspect it's rare. I understand some people's hesitancy but it seems like some of these nightmare scenarios being listed might be exaggerated.

Agreed. And ditto.

 

[Thoughtforms]

What if you back out and then have to live with the image of watching someone die?

 

[Threads]

Do you really think it's a good idea to meet up with someone you met on a website about suicide to commit suicide together?

I respect the whole idea behind wanting or having a partner. But that's not for me.

 

[Jiva]

Yes. Looking for a suicide partner is a risk. But if you don't want you die alone, it is need. It is need you start by a safe meeting. The confidence must be built. Don't hurry. In time you will know do you want die together, or not. It is big mistake if you hurry, i think.

 

[blindstatue]

Two survival instincts? no thanks. I don't want to survive because my partner freaked out while I was on my way to oblivion.

 

[Retched]

I really would like a partner. Tired one but it fell through. You have to trust your gut I suppose, but even then there is risk..... ah well. Nothing in life is easy. I guess I always want my 'hand held' so it wouldn't be different in death.

 

[creationisdeath]

What if you back out and then have to live with the image of watching someone die?

I have and it's not that bad. I was more curious if anything. Guess it depends on how you view death. If it's quick and painless I can't help but feel good for them for they no longer have to deal with life.

 

[Made4TV]

I'm keen to go by charcoal method inside of the car, downside is lacking charcoal and lacking a car and lacking a private garage

I think I'm a terrible person because this made me giggle. Sorry.

 

[Diane]

I've posted thrice (three times) in the partners megathread. Only had one weird person, who i ignored from then on. I know I only just joined here, but I'm keen to go by charcoal method inside of the car, downside is lacking charcoal and lacking a car and lacking a private garage (i do not live by myself). In public or campsite, too risky.

I would welcome a suitable partner, I'm awaiting a reply still from someone on here. But i'm still holding out for anyone else, if anything falls through, which is probable. It's a hard ask, I realise.

I could be your partner but I currently don't have a way to purchase the products (without others knowledge about it) to make carbon monoxide according to the materials that the ppeh says you need for you to go unconscious instantly (I personally don't recommend the charcoal method cause you would probably become nauseated and back out and be stuck with permanent damage). I don't own a car or have an enclosed environment enough to work well so this is why I need a partner so we could use a car. I'd like to purchase the materials needed myself or at least some of them but don't think it's possible at least right now long story short. But I can't remember how you ask the moderators to be given the ability to send private messages so we can talk further. You might live close enough to travel here and we could go in your car. I recently had someone from another site offer to send something in the mail and it never came and they didn't respond when I told them that it didn't come.

 

[bigj75]

What if you back out and then have to live with the image of watching someone die?

You can't back out after that.

 

[Diane]

I could be your partner but I currently don't have a way to purchase the products (without others knowledge about it) to make carbon monoxide according to the materials that the ppeh says you need for you to go unconscious instantly (I personally don't recommend the charcoal method cause you would probably become nauseated and back out and be stuck with permanent damage). I don't own a car or have an enclosed environment enough to work well so this is why I need a partner so we could use a car. I'd like to purchase the materials needed myself or at least some of them but don't think it's possible at least right now long story short. But I can't remember how you ask the moderators to be given the ability to send private messages so we can talk further. You might live close enough to travel here and we could go in your car. I recently had someone from another site offer to send something in the mail and it never came and they didn't respond when I told them that it didn't come.

 

[stargazer]

Sorry Diane, your in the USA I think, tried to message you. Best of luck to us and all. Sorry again.

 

[stargazer]

I could be your partner but I currently don't have a way to purchase the products (without others knowledge about it) to make carbon monoxide according to the materials that the ppeh says you need for you to go unconscious instantly (I personally don't recommend the charcoal method cause you would probably become nauseated and back out and be stuck with permanent damage). I don't own a car or have an enclosed environment enough to work well so this is why I need a partner so we could use a car. I'd like to purchase the materials needed myself or at least some of them but don't think it's possible at least right now long story short. But I can't remember how you ask the moderators to be given the ability to send private messages so we can talk further. You might live close enough to travel here and we could go in your car. I recently had someone from another site offer to send something in the mail and it never came and they didn't respond when I told them that it didn't come.

Sorry Diane, your in the USA I think, tried to message you. Best of luck to us and all. Sorry again.