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Julgran

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But it's those kinds of people that took that word and made it their own; so why would anyone willingly call themselves an incel now? That's what I just can't understand, it's like painting a big target on your forehead. What happened to just using 'virgin'?

Who took the word "incel" and made it their own?

No one willingly calls themselves "incel" - that's the point of being an "incel", and as I said, it's a state of being, and not something that you call yourself.
 
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OceanBlue

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This dude is like men and women will never be equal, how am I a misogynist?

Just waiting for you lot to be banned.
 
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Dec 10, 2021
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Wikipedia, or similar sources, are not your friend - that goes for any contentious subject.
you're right, i should choose more reliable sources such as a misogynistic stranger on the internet.

by calling yourself an incel, you willingly associate yourself with a group of people whose entire presence is based on hating women.
 
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Interloper

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Jul 23, 2021
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Who took the word "incel" and made it their own?
The guys who can't get laid and blame women for it.

No one willingly calls themselves "incel"
Alek minassian begs to differ. And he is not alone, the r9k board for example is full of them. (or was, I haven't been there in a while, though I can't imagine it has gotten any better)
 
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Julgran

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Dec 15, 2021
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The guys who can't get laid and blame women for it.

Yes, I know that some guys do so, but not all.

Alek minassian begs to differ. And he is not alone, the r9k board for example is full of them. (or was, I haven't been there in a while, though I can't imagine it has gotten any better)

It was even said in the court case revolving around Minassian's crime that he didn't do what he did because he was an incel. If you listen to his FBI hearing, you will know that he wasn't even completely sane.
 
Chinaski

Chinaski

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Some of the people in this thread have thoroughly despicable views and at this stage it can not be argued that this site does not have a tolerance for misogyny if it's allowed to continue.
 
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OceanBlue

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Jun 13, 2021
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Feminism (capitalised) is like a cult that challenges the idea that men have a birthright to sexual favours and domestic labor from women. They like recruit these vulnerable already favourably indoctrinated 'decent looking girls' and teach them not to put up with men like us. #SoAngry #Unfair #DifferentRoles
 
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Interloper

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Jul 23, 2021
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Yes, I know that some guys do so, but not all.
Yeah, so the word is tarnished.
It was even said in the court case revolving around Minassian's crime that he didn't do what he did because he was an incel.
No but he called himself one, which is what you asked. I just remembered the incel forum that exists (from the same founders as this forum) and that place is also chock full of them.

If you listen to his FBI hearing, you will know that he wasn't even completely sane.
I don't think I need to listen to his hearing to know that. :smiling:
 
OceanBlue

OceanBlue

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Jun 13, 2021
701
Some of the people in this thread have thoroughly despicable views and at this stage it can not be argued that this site does not have a tolerance for misogyny if it's allowed to continue.
The admin I messaged was understanding, hopefully it will be dealth with. These people exposed themselves enough.
 
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Chinaski

Chinaski

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Sep 1, 2018
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MOVE THAT FUCKING THREAD TO OFFTOPIC THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SUICIDE FFS
Yes, that's clearly the most pressing issue with this site at present.
The admin I messaged was understanding, hopefully it will be dealth with. These people exposed themselves enough.
Thing is it's not just the stuff today, it's a recurring theme and requires a culture change of some significance imo.
 
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OceanBlue

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Jun 13, 2021
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I'm not familiar with the admins, with the recent changes things still need to settle. Rain was good, I think.
 
Amumu

Amumu

Ctb - temporary solution for a permanent problem
Aug 29, 2020
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Yes, that's clearly the most pressing issue with this site at present.

Look, if you agree with the view of fixthe26 that this website is just a second intel.co, you don't have anything to do here.
 
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LastLoveLetter

Persephone
Mar 28, 2021
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Hi everyone,

After discussion with the Mod team, this thread is being locked, along with the "Ladies, Please Be Careful" thread where a similar dialogue is taking place.

I am currently discussing the concerns about misogynistic content with the wider team. I do agree that misogyny is an important issue and that this - along with any form of discrimination - needs to be addressed and dealt with here.

There's a key difference between free speech and hate speech. My perspective is that misogyny/sexism, racism, homophobia, xenophobia and any sort of discriminatory rhetoric fits more into the latter category and shouldn't be tolerated here.

This is a forum where suicidal people of all backgrounds, genders and demographics are present. We are all suffering enough and no-one should have to see harmful, discriminative rhetoric towards women or any other marginalised group. We all deserve to feel safe and respected.
 
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