Im barely human. I cant hold a proper conversation and connect with people intellectually. i cant show proper empathy. i cant make people feel good…
i know how this feels, just know you are always welcomed here
I understand how you feel, I completely lack empathy, I'm too blunt so I come off aggressive and rude, and I don't think I have much to offer. You mean something, you matter, and you deserve love. I hope you can find your peace
I hope you don't mind me asking but how long do these relationships last before they fall apart? This might not be you, but sometimes people can share too much too soon. You need to really take your time getting to know someone and only share what's inside when the time is right. You are talking to kindred spirits on here, but out in the world most people would run a mile if they knew what was going on in our heads :) Most people don't think like we do, they can handle it, but just not all at once. Let them get to know the good bits first. You are most definitely loveable and are already loved more than you know, I guarantee it x
I didnt say anything about suicide this time but maybe I was sharing too much. Thank you. But im not good at conversation so its hard not to just say whats on my mind. And i was having so much fun talking about myself because i wanted them to know me. Also I think maybe im boring? If I had a solution to these things maybe I would try again with new people but idk… i think maybe my mind is just insufficient.
I have the same issues of feeling barely like a person and i'm not very good at real conversation because I just talk about myself. But i found a friend that listens to what I have to say and with the help of a therapist I have learnt how to listen and talk to them too. me and my friend have been together for almost 2 years now. Real friends will be patient with you and guide you if you make a mistake. not leave you and abandon the relationship. Your mind is perfectly good and you can make good, healthy connections with people you love. you just have to come across the right people. have hope!
You found someone that would let you talk about yourself????I'm sorry you are in pain, You deserve love and support
i need this… cause i have a hard time talking about anything else unless its like deep philosophy stuff about human nature which probably also turns people off. this is really inspiring thank you. Its also inspiring to know therapy can help with this. but i need to know how rare people like that are. like will it even work trying to find them…I need to take a class on what is socially acceptable to discuss fr fr
Yes I know. Thats the problem. I cannot talk about anything else. But thanks for making me feel worse for something i cant fix i guess.
I really didn't mean to make you feel worse. I just mean try faking it. It just isn't realistic to just talk about yourself all the time and expect people to accept that. If you aren't interested in what they have to say, just try to act like you are. When you find true friends they will be genuinely there for you, and you for them. I understand more than you know, it isn't easy working out how to be social when you are struggling.
People leaving when they find out who you are, being unlovable,
not being able to deeply connect with people, trouble with empathy....
Thank you! Am I able to dm yet? If so please DM your username <3
Im not sure how i can be helped. My friends showered me with love and compliments when I left but then stopped messaging me again a few days later. Maybe you can help me figure out how to gather the courage to kill myself.
I wanna be your friend too! but I worry we will have trouble talking. Im kind of a nerd with very niche hobbies, and I worry finding friends outside of those hobbies will make it even harder to speak. But i dont know.I want to be your friend, but I don't really know how to be a friend
I would be really boring to be around so that's unfortunate. I understand how you feel though, I can relate.
