If you had to take revenge on the people who abused and bullied you how would you do it?

[noname223]

I had nightmares of my bullies from school. I had the bad idea to google their names. I only found one of them.

I think revenge is not the smartest thing. One should try to move on. But I thought well if I was 100% certain that I kill myself within 1-2 weeks why not imagining this scenario. So I would never do it in reality. It could be seen as pathetic and an action of a bitter and resentful person. But my method of choice would be creating deep fake porn and spread it massively on the internet. Though my bullies were male so it would not get much attention. I don't know but it could be hard to get traced back and that gave me time to kill myself.

My mom abused me as a child. I would of course (lol xD) choose a different method of revenge. My suicide itself will or would be a big punishment for her anyway. But I would like to trade the shoes with her for 3 months. I think she is not aware how nightmarish my life quality really is.

So which revenge methods do you have in mind in this hypothetical scenario?

 

[Forever Sleep]

I don't want to exact revenge really. Rather than that, when we all die, I want this person's mother to see what they were really like- a narcissistic bully I believe. That will be all the punishment needed for the both of them. I guess I want their Mum to feel embarassed of the person they raised to be like that and who they defended to the hilt when they must have known they were lieing. As for the (suspected) narcissist- it will be enough that their mask has been taken away and their closest person could see who they really were.

To be fair- if there is any kind of judgement after death- I deserve that treatment too. I'm no saint. I think- if there is such a thing as atonement, our sins and shortcomings should be laid bare to be seen.

 

[Slow_Farewell]

This is..interesting...
Probably destroy what's important to them at the time or.. maybe realistically, if i could, in today's day and age:
Take their information and destroy their lives. Run their credit scores up the wazoo, have them arrested with media coverage for one thing or another.
Then before I CTB, like all supervillains, I would visit them in their cells, tell them that the only proof that they were the victims of some elaborate scheme was with me and give them an address to see me when or if they got out.
Of course by then i'd have CTB'd, and I'd have destroyed all evidence of my tampering with their lives so they get to live out the rest of their existence in agony.

 

[Celerity]

My bullies have honestly probably suffered enough. Most of them lead pretty miserable lives nowadays from what I can tell. Even in the doubtful event that they're happier than me, I wouldn't trade places with them.

As for my enabling teachers, I could dream up some revenge fantasies for them. One teacher in particular was a sadistic, manipulative asshole. I'm not saying I would kill him, but I would for sure let him die. I have imagined what I would do if I witnessed him get hit by a car in a hit-and-run. Conclusion: I'd leave him to bleed out on the fucking pavement. Prick. I have since learned years later that he treats other people in his life like shit too, not just the little vulnerable kids he can emotionally abuse. I can summon not a single ounce of forgiveness for him.

 

[DeadHead]

I believe in an eye for an eye.



There are all sorts of little things you can do. I don't think it's smart to post my own ideas here, but I'll share a simple one I read about online. It's quite tame, but of course you don't want to do something crazy that could get you arrested. The suggestion someone made was to send flowers and a card to the person that did you wrong. The anonymous card simply reads: RIP.

 

[Kit1]

I was raped by a number of paedophiles through out my childhood - some have died already and I would want to see the others in prison (and never to be let put in case they hurt anyone else).

For the other types of abuse - actually I don't want them to be punished as it feels like they are suffering already and poor mental health played a part in why they did what they did anyway.

 

[Visitor_]

I had nightmares of my bullies from school. I had the bad idea to google their names. I only found one of them.

I think revenge is not the smartest thing. One should try to move on. But I thought well if I was 100% certain that I kill myself within 1-2 weeks why not imagining this scenario. So I would never do it in reality. It could be seen as pathetic and an action of a bitter and resentful person. But my method of choice would be creating deep fake porn and spread it massively on the internet. Though my bullies were male so it would not get much attention. I don't know but it could be hard to get traced back and that gave me time to kill myself.

My mom abused me as a child. I would of course (lol xD) choose a different method of revenge. My suicide itself will or would be a big punishment for her anyway. But I would like to trade the shoes with her for 3 months. I think she is not aware how nightmarish my life quality really is.

So which revenge methods do you have in mind in this hypothetical scenario?

Ive been bullied since i was a kid for my weight, but for 4 years there was a certain person that would mock me, insult my loved ones, hit me alot, threaten me with murder, open my bag and steal my stuff, one time he took my clothes and threw them in the trash during pe, alot on alot of more things.


This will sound extremely boring but, id let it be. What happened in the past stayed in the past. My dream is to be alone and at peace with my wife and kids one day.

 

[puella]

All I want is to be able to verbalize how badly I'm hurting. If they have any empathy at all, I want them to feel guilt and remorse as heavy as the pain their actions scarred me with. But I don't think my words could ever carry that weight.

 

[Chocomel]

Well the problem with me is that the people who abuse me is my dad. He did horrible thing to me and make me want to ctb. But idk why I always find a way to forgive him. Even if I have the chance to revenge him, I dont have the heart to do it. Such complicated feelings

 

[F@#$]

I'm pathetic, bitter and resentful and I'm devising a cruel and brutal revenge for the deserving. I won't get into details it involves violence, swift and blinding violence. No killing they don't deserve it
But they'll be reminded constantly that they fucked with the wrong person.

 

[ThymeToLeave]

I wouldn't. I don't want revenge, I just want to be safe and free.

 

[CPY]

I would never do this because I wouldn't like to have a kind of pressure to CTB to avoid prison wich could very well end up with me backing down and ending up imprisoned for 20 years which would be hell where I live.

But yeah generally I feel angry when seeing my past bullies's shiny new Instagram posts commemorating their latest accomplishment while I rot in bed and eat myself to death

But I generally have come to depsise l every non suffering individual I see even if they actually didn't do anything directly to me.The fact that they live their lives blissfully unaware of suffering and pain just makes me livid with anger

In my hypothetical scenario i could transfer all my suffering to them who actually deserve it as they have been always happy

 

[PROJECT: Extase]

I've had a pretty shitty experience at school due to bullying and to cope with it i trained in martial arts (Karate and MMA) for 3 years now. My revenge would be pretty simple, beating the shit out of them.

 

[cold_severance]

beating the shit out of my mother would be cathartic i think. idk about other things, cause i had a lot of various fantasies of revenge. i think in that case eye for an eye sounds fair or smth.

 

[RosebyAnyName]

I was bullied for being socially awkward (undiagnosed autism). I used to wish my bullies would get "karmic retribution" from some horrific accident. However, the appeal of this type of revenge diminished over time because I knew, if something bad happened to them, that they would just get sympathy from those around them and they would always recover because of their support networks. They would learn nothing.

Now I think the only thing I wish against the people who have harmed me is for them to know what I felt. It would be as if I could inject my own feelings of powerlessness, hopelessness, and self-hatred into them. Instead of being able to move through life without even a hint of remorse, they'd be forced to actually think back on their actions and feel guilt for them. I think it would be the only fair thing to do, as the proportion of the "revenge" is only in the amount that was inflicted, no more no less.

 

[LastLoveLetter]

Honestly, I don't have it in me to seek vengeance or harm others. I understand people fantasising about it and when you have been abused, it's perfectly understandable. I would be lying if I claimed to have not thought about it at times.

I have been raped, sexually abused, severely neglected, beaten, subjected to various forms of torture, witnessed death and animals being abused and killed etc. I won't go into detail here since it's nothing I haven't written about before and there's no benefit or relief in recounting these traumas through words anymore. Even had attempts made on my life. My family made my life hell, and then predators have harmed me even after I got away as an adult, as if they could see my vulnerability from a mile away.

Despite all of this, I couldn't bring myself to hurt those who have abused me, even if I were given the opportunity to do so. The mere thought makes me feel guilty, sad and uncomfortable. Personally, it wouldn't bring any sense of catharsis or justice. What they did to me cannot be erased, and nothing I could do in return would alleviate the suffering I have continued to contend with in the aftermath.

Some of my abusers have committed truly heinous and unforgivable acts towards myself and others. Some of them were genuinely sadistic and psychopathic and derived pleasure from my pain. However, for some of them - my mother comes to mind here - I can see in hindsight that they did it as an outlet for their own pain and trauma on some level, at least to an extent. That absolutely doesn't excuse or justify the abuse in any shape or form, but I can sympathise, as they didn't have the tools or capacity to cope with their own pain in a different way and could only take it out on me and other people. It doesn't mean I would want anything to do with my mother, or that I forgive her. Only that I wish it could have been different for both of us and that I have grown to see her in a different light lately.

I don't wish pain and suffering on them, or on anyone really. I just wish they hadn't inflicted all of that upon me (or on anyone else for that matter).

 

[ForsakenDial]

I want to be left alone. Revenge is the only way to ensure such a thing.

If abusers believe you can enact some form of retribution for yourself they would not targeted you. They pick their victims carefully.

This is why I would enact revenge if I could, even if I didn't want to. Revenge is freedom and safety. It is defensive equally as it is reactive. The greater damage that revenge does, the more you guarantee that safety.

Revenge also alleviates pain of the victim in some cases. Revenge means they did not go unheard. That their suffering mattered, and brings back power to the victim. Its a desire for fairness. It is unfair for someone to suffer, and the perpetrator to be free.

I wish I could get revenge. A revenge so great that no one would ever be willing to hurt me again.

 

[Scythe]

My death will be enough revenge for my family, as for the ppl that bullied me, I'll ask them if they want to live and lose a limb or die. If they choose death I'll kill them with a hammer, if they choose to live I will saw off one of their legs or right arm with a hack saw. Right arm because there's still more right handed ppl so bigger chance that I'll take out their dominant arm.
Sure they probably don't deserve this, but I'm not a good person.

 

[NoAIarmsNoSurprises]

What does it matter? Everyone dies eventually. I don't feel any type of way about them but pity. Life is suffering enough and besides something must've gone wrong for them as well to feel that they were justified in hurting me. Honestly, I'm not even sure if they were aware that they were hurting me. Maybe they didn't care but it's not like it's going to matter much once I'm 6 feet under. Either way, we're all broken in some shape or form, no amount of influence, wealth or status is going to undo that but growth, healing and understanding. Better to forgive or let live, I know I wouldn't want all that extra baggage with me once I ctb. If it was something really bad you can always pursue legal action.