Discussion If you could change one thing about your life, what would it be?

[6486159051]

My mentally ill grandmother should have been sterilised. That would have saved the earth two more generations of suffering

 

[Bikishii]

Oh god, just one thing? You're putting me in a real bind here.

Pursuing my life track that I'd had set out as a child. I was working towards that all the way from preschool through early high school. Then things got suddenly all changed up and I could no longer do what I was best at and what brought me most joy, and was pushed into something I loathed then and loathe now.

That's something I would change. I know that's a hell of a change, it's a massive trajectory difference for years upon years, but I'd easily have preferred to go along with what I always wanted to do, what I was always meant to do, even with all the other extra challenges, problems, and horrid bits that would entail as well.

 

[endboss]

turn off the catastrophic tinnitus. it would save my life.

 

[starboy2k]

my need for validation. i wish that shit would go away.

 

[inpainnosleep]

I wish I never met one of my best friends. Intentionally and unintentionally, I now see clearly that connection ruined my life through the butterfly effect. I def would have done way less drugs, so probably wouldn't be experiencing the health problems that I am now which are making me want to CBT. But there were other things that happened with that friend that led me to a year long nervous breakdown in college, and then to my main nervous breakdown right after college.

 

[Spite]

My neurodivergence. I wish I could change the neural pathways in my mind so that I'm neurotypical, and then I can be normal, which is what this world is meant for - normal people.

 

[Defenestration]

I should have had CTB in 2023 or 2024 when I had access to a place 60m high near my home (hard rock at the bottom)...now I can no longer access it

 

[bakenohana]

being born entirely really. or maybe change my birth so that they got my sex right maybe things would be different if i wasn't like this

 

[Defenestration]

Naître ainsi, vraiment. Ou peut-être changer ma naissance pour qu'ils se trompent de sexe ; les choses seraient peut-être différentes si je n'étais pas comme ça.

Also never has been born