Help IAmA virgin, need advice on (legal) prostitution/escorts?

[Nobodysfault]

i would call that: case a) whore and case b) junkie whore

maybe my mindset is from a different era but selling your body makes you a whore no matter how you justify it. thats the meaning of the word. at least in my language... we can also say prostitute, or girl who likes to pay her student loan with a bathroom webcam show where she presents her asshole while hoping that no one records the stream and uploads it so that her son or his school friends some day wank off to her videos. lol

i just dont understand or like that business model, you are doing nothing than giving dumb apes their (never ending) satisfaction for some minutes with showing your body naked or masturbating or putting pickles in your loveholes, whatever. my view of sexuality just doesnt fit with that, and i wont accept such shit as a fucking JOB. this is just messed up, but yeah...like i said i just dont like that business model. everyone can do what he/she wants. but i will continue calling these "women" sluts. at least we can say one good thing: they do some sort of business out of the need of money and/or because they have fun with that job, and then there are these ultimate supercunts screwing with the hearts from people. they should earn our hate. its also hard to make someone guilty if that person acts like that because of past traumata, that theme is more complicated. ive already written enough, i understand your point, but doing it to pay school taxes or buy a car is nothing different to me than doing it for buying drugs. and doing it to feed your children because your state doesnt care, thats another point again, a very sad one...

I tried to advise him on a way to lose his virginity, i agree with you. I think they are whores legitimized by society and i hate it, i dont approve it and dont accept society point of view about sex these days. I think everyones a slut these days, Instagram models are legitimized strippers and soft porn models, i hate the whole huge butt and lips trend and hate how everyone is having sex with so too many partners, hate how society made everyone have unrealistic standards for beauty and sex and all the fetishes that came along with it. Miss the days when a magazine was enough to arouse men and people were monogamist. Hate 2019 when having normal sex is considered as prude, and having a huge behind is a must ( or else your partner will cheat/resent you).
Anyway, as you probably noticed not only that i agree with you, my opinions might be even more 'extreme' then yours but 2019 has more virgins than ever before so maybe this whore thing is actually a good way to help people with social problems

I'd be happy to get that (assuming that I'm getting what I'm expecting, actual sexual intercourse, rather than nothing or a half-assed attempt, like right before the act happens she just says 'no' and then bye bye several hundred of my hard earned cash). Assuming she does agree and actually go through with the deed, then pretty much I have it sorted (unless she decides to make up a bullshit story of false accusation of rape -- which I may be overthinking, due to what has happened to many males even in regular dating relationships).

Nah, she wants to keep it a secret just as much as you do. She knows what shes coming for and you pay at the end of the 'session'

 

[TAW122]

Nah, she wants to keep it a secret just as much as you do. She knows what shes coming for and you pay at the end of the 'session'

I'm a total newb when it comes to the topic of escorts and still learning the terminology let alone what to do, say, the process itself. So a few questions for you.

1) Given that I'm an Asian American male living in NC, don't really have a high paying job, just enough to get by (and still saving up), don't really look attractive, and also socially awkward (Aspie) along with social anxiety, do you think I would just get everything in the interaction except for sexual intercourse (which is of course the real purpose of the encounter)?

2) Also, how does one go about it, such as finding a legit one, what to say/not say (when booking), and also how I should act from start to finish?

3) Could you describe the process of going through the encounter (like when actually meeting up with said escort)? I will do my best to be as hygienic as possible and still look as sharp/good as I can (presenting myself as best as I can -- maybe not business formal but at least business casual?)

 

[Nobodysfault]

1. You will get intercourse if thats what your looking for, the woman you'll meet doesnt care for your looks or how you behave (as long as you're not violent).
2.you start chatting with her online, ask to see photos of her, flirt a bit, ask her for her phone number/username for apps like wicker, only if needed send a photo of yourself (usually without a face),tell her a bit about yourself if you want, ask her about her boundaries and also what kind of support shes looking for and if its good for both of you then set up a date to meet. Talk to her on the phone before you meet so you'd know shes real, only pay cash.
3. Not really since ive never been in a situation like this before.be nice to her, talk a little.maybe tell her before you meet that you like it when the girl initiate stuff..
Honestly, i know girls who did it but i don't know much about the process