I will die without ever having a gf, but...

[squirley]

How is this still going on ?

was the account banned or did he leave.?

I can see either side of the .... argument I guess.

But if you didn't see my other post.
Dude literally copy and pasted the EXACT SAME DM multiple times.

if you denied having discord and ...fuck the other thing blanking on the name for a sec lol

I won't deny the guy has some issues. But also posted about it multi times.
And people gave him sound advice in the threads. Multi times.

But he kept fishing and fishing.
How can you work in the service industry and not know 1 person , it's literally impossible unless you're doing something that is sketchy.
And not "accpted" which is fucked up yah. Social norms are fucked.

But also on that same topic people are a lot more accepting and understanding of people with issues now.

it's just off. Something was just off.

Especially after what I said to him in the DM it's pretty straight forward. You can't expect things to happen if you don't put in the work.

I've been on both sides.
bending over broads everyday.
To literally not having any sex/relationships
for a year.

And that's the harsh reality of the world. Explains why some of us have thrown in the towel.

I understand it is a factor.
But you either do something about it or you don't.
It wasn't just about having friends. Or someone to vent to.
The guy mentioned GF 100's of times. Even after my msg.

After I posted nthe one thread the guy never msgd me.

I'm not sure if it's a mental issues or whatever and I even explained that to him via recovery if he chooses.
But that 10.year plan shit was fucking insane. And had so much high risk.

If you choose to be friends with the dude go ahead. But it sounds like he needs a shrink and some meds before CTB considering the way he felt about the forum as a whole.

And for whoever chooses this I hope.its not a scam or some nude pics weirdo shit.



**** EDIT *****

even reading some of this , I'm not sure if it's depression, or valuing self worth or whatever the situation is.
Even a few post that were incel like not 100% like f woman but just very close to that.

But change the sides.
Do you want some one that is jobless , broke , drug addict whatever the fucking reason.

Being online makes this easier now and there are separate forums chats etc for that . Not here.
O hey I'm a guy that works , but I got issues and can't find a date via tinder because I'm socially awkward. NO PROBLEM THERES LITERALLY FORUMS FOR PEOPLE THAT ARE SOCIALLY AKWARD OR ANXIETY RIDDIN. IVE USED THEM.

The world.is not fair for having standards.
But it is fair for a person to choose who they want to be with.

 

[Archness]

@lwlaiet8887 Your defenses of OP is just misdirection and excuses. Are we talking about Incel ideology? Fuck no, we're talking about if he's a creep or not, yet you had to go on a tangent abut how he's apparently right in his incel/blackpill biliefs.

Also, not saying outright that he feels entitled/superior to women doesn't mean that's not what he thinks. Some of his posts here do somewhat point to that, and my interactions with him show he can atleast keep quiet about those things talking to what he thinks is a woman.

Honestly, someone should close this thread, it's tiresome, and pointless.

 

[lwlaiet8887]

@lwlaiet8887 Your defenses of OP is just misdirection and excuses. Are we talking about Incel ideology? Fuck no, we're talking about if he's a creep or not, yet you had to go on a tangent abut how he's apparently right in his incel/blackpill biliefs.

Also, not saying outright that he feels entitled/superior to women doesn't mean that's not what he thinks. Some of his posts here do somewhat point to that, and my interactions with him show he can atleast keep quiet about those things talking to what he thinks is a woman.

Honestly, someone should close this thread, it's tiresome, and pointless.

It's blatantly not. There was never any proof of OP being a predator before the allegations/proof was shown. You're slandering me for wanting to not have prejudice which is funny. I never said anything about "incel" or "blackpill" beliefs, your line of thinking is pitiful. All I said is that dating isn't fair and It's very difficult for men, statistics alone shows this it has nothing to do with incel or blackpill beliefs. How do you think we come to consensus on topics? If you actually read my post you'd see that I actually disagreed with OP on his chad "rhetoric" and told him that all he can do is improve himself and try and that there's not entitlement in love, I don't see what's remotely incel or blackpill (buzzowrds) about that.. But like many people on here you don't care about the truth but virtue signaling to suite your agenda. I find your conduct rather scummy and unintelligent. Anyways, have a nice day. You're tiresome and pointless to any kind of logical thing.

 

[squirley]

@lwlaiet8887 Your defenses of OP is just misdirection and excuses. Are we talking about Incel ideology? Fuck no, we're talking about if he's a creep or not, yet you had to go on a tangent abut how he's apparently right in his incel/blackpill biliefs.

Also, not saying outright that he feels entitled/superior to women doesn't mean that's not what he thinks. Some of his posts here do somewhat point to that, and my interactions with him show he can atleast keep quiet about those things talking to what he thinks is a woman.

Honestly, someone should close this thread, it's tiresome, and pointless.

Exactly

 

[lwlaiet8887]

Exactly

I never even remotely agreed with OP. If you read my post you can see that I disagreed with him matter of fact. Do you want me to blatantly spell it out for you? I only posted my response to this thread because I wanted to share my opinions. I have never even read what OP wrote previously except the "chad" part. Some of you are so painfully dishonest/stupid that it gives me a headache.

 

[squirley]

I never even remotely agreed with OP. If you read my post you can see that I disagreed with him matter of fact. Do you want me to blatantly spell it out for you? I only posted my response to this thread because I wanted to share my opinions. I have never even read what OP wrote previously except the "chad" part. Some of you are so painfully dishonest/stupid that it gives me a headache.

I don't care. :)

 

[SolomonKado]

I'm sorry these things have happened to this guy. For me I've had long term relationships that I should have known better or just not been so desperate. Each and every relationship turned out to be a living hell. Even Sex was stressful, but it was a physical need of the body. I never wanted to be a guy who just had sex and left. I wanted to show them they deserve love. In the end I should have just focused on myself instead of others.

A "significant other" doesn't fix your problems and to expect that of them then you are setting them up for pain and suffering because of you. Possibly leading them to this site eventually also.

 

[Foreverix]

@Mods close thread?

 

[lwlaiet8887]

I don't care. :)

Lol, proving my point are we? You don't care about the truth but would rather virtue signal for internet points. You're a moron. Here I highlighted my post for you so you can read it. Please do tell me what's "Incel" and "Blackpill" about it I would to love to now because I don't know myself. I never defend OP's talking. The only reason I defend OP is because I didn't agree with what I believed was him being slandered on the virtue of Prejudice. If people would've provided proof of his behavior I would've never felt the need to defend him. Stop warping the narrative please it's tiresome. Male loneliness is an easily observable topic and I don't think there's anything wrong with acknowledging it and the difficulties men have in finding a romantic partner. I never remotely defended OP's views on dating just stated my own and that I didn't agree with what I thought was slander. You're saying that I'm defending "incel" and "blackpill" talking points so please explain how instead of slandering me so you can get epic internet virtue signaling points.

 

[squirley]

I'm sorry these things have happened to this guy. For me I've had long term relationships that I should have known better or just not been so desperate. Each and every relationship turned out to be a living hell. Even Sex was stressful, but it was a physical need of the body. I never wanted to be a guy who just had sex and left. I wanted to show them they deserve love. In the end I should have just focused on myself instead of others.

A "significant other" doesn't fix your problems and to expect that of them then you are setting them up for pain and suffering because of you. Possibly leading them to this site eventually also.

Exactly man. And that's what the issue was . Having a GF or BF whatever doesn't fix anything.
Well said.

Lol, proving my point are we? You don't care about the truth but would rather virtue signal for internet points. You're a moron. Here I highlighted my post for you so you can read it. Please do tell me what's "Incel" and "Blackpill" about it I would to love to now because I don't know myself. I never defend OP. The only reason I defend OP is because I didn't agree with what I believed was him being slandered on the virtue of Prejudice. If people would've provided proof of his behavior I would've never felt the need to defend him. Stop warping the narrative please it's tiresome. View attachment 120682

You're trying to hard.
Have fun chatting with your buddy.
Proof of his behavior? There is. I never said anything about defending anyone ?
Are you ok ?
not a problem call me a moron all you want. Hope it makes you feel warm and tingly on the inside.
Idk wtf the text is and I don't care to look. Lul.

 

[MatthieuFrederickW]

Oh yeah, he wanted to chat with me, and we actually did.
As you'd expect, it was very offputting.

He seemed as if he was just lonely and wanting a friend, but it was quickly apparent he was only thinking I was a potential "Girlfriend", or rather, a mate, bc he always had the need to bring up how he would have sex every day with this girlfriend. He also made these empty complements about how I was a "cute girl" had a "nice voice" when he never saw nor herd me, so those words where artificial, empty, because it was literally impossible to appreciate these things.

In the short time we where talking, he outright ignored about half of what I was saying. I said that maybe he should get some male or non-romantic friends first, and he said he only needed/wanted that one girlfriend. I gave him the benefit of the doubt, however, I clarified that me and him would be just friends. Guess what he said then? He said he'd be fine talking with me for a few years then coming to me to be my boyfriend. WHAT? Really, things like that can happen, but he said it as if "This is how it'll go".

As we talked, it was apparent he wasn't interested in me, but this theoretical girlfriend, who'd basically be a doll to coddle him and have sex with him. I was just a vessel for that ideal, if becoming his girlfriend was unviable, or he believed I was a man, he would suddenly have zero interest. But that possibility isn't really different from the reality at all, again, having no interest in me as a person, only as his girlfriend.

I tried to talk about how has has some other problems, as he is shy and timid with social anxiety, but he still ignored all of that to try to somehow make me his gf.

Seems like he's hopeless, but at the same time, I wonder what's his real intention coming here. With his ban, it's possible he was reported for preying on vulnerable women within SaSu. I can't really say anything on if he's a predator or not. But I wouldn't be surprised, that nice attitude with all those empty complements could be him attempting to reel em' in before showing his true colors. It's common for abuses to be nice until you're actually in a relationship with them and invested.

If anyone else has something to bring to light about this guy, go ahead, especially if it shows why he was banned. Really sad people like this will try to infiltrate SaSu, and I doubt this is the last we'll see of this particular person. They'll just make another account and try again until something sticks.

"I see.
It fucking sucks not having any friends or a gf.

To be honest with you about friends I don't really care.
But I do want a gf.
DId you ever have a gf?
I never had one.
Only went on a few dates with girls online but it went nowhere because of my shyness and low social skills.
I also had sex Only once in my life 10 years ago with a girl I met online.
Did you ever have sex?"<< This is just part of a conversation he started with me in pm. I'm not sure what he was up to, but he clearly makes up stories it seems, that's for sure.

 

[squirley]

"I see.
It fucking sucks not having any friends or a gf.

To be honest with you about friends I don't really care.
But I do want a gf.
DId you ever have a gf?
I never had one.
Only went on a few dates with girls online but it went nowhere because of my shyness and low social skills.
I also had sex Only once in my life 10 years ago with a girl I met online.
Did you ever have sex?"<< This is just part of a conversation he started with me in pm. I'm not sure what he was up to, but he clearly makes up stories it seems, that's for sure.

Wow interesting same fucking story ? Copied and pasted.

And what did he say about discord if you didn't have it ? Let me guess. This :

"Don't you want to download discord mam?
We can have a flowing chat there.
It's annonymois and only requires email.
You cam download it in 20 seconds."

 

[MatthieuFrederickW]

Wow interesting same fucking story ? Copied and pasted.

And what did he say about discord if you didn't have it ? Let me guess. This :

"Don't you want to download discord mam?
We can have a flowing chat there.
It's annonymois and only requires email.
You cam download it in 20 seconds."

He asked me about talking on discord or telegram, and after I responded that I've never used either before this is what he wrote:
"It takes one second to downloand discord.
And it's annonymous only email you need.
But it's your choice man.
I am not gonna force you.
Just want to chat with a friend online you know.
It can help us both not feel lonely because we don't have friends.
But your choice man."

But I didn't say anything back after that lol

 

[squirley]

He asked me about talking on discord or telegram, and after I responded that I've never used either before this is what he wrote:
"It takes one second to downloand discord.
And it's annonymous only email you need.
But it's your choice man.
I am not gonna force you.
Just want to chat with a friend online you know.
It can help us both not feel lonely because we don't have friends.
But your choice man."

But I didn't say anything back after that lol

funny how similar that is no ? And same with the other 10 ? 20 ? 30? Other msgs that were sent. And then once he starts adding people all of a sudden says o fuck the forum its depressing. Ok no problem. Go check out the recovery section then ? No no no just add me discord bruh...

 

[MatthieuFrederickW]

funny how similar that is no ? And same with the other 10 ? 20 ? 30? Other msgs that were sent. And then once he starts adding people all of a sudden says o fuck the forum its depressing. Ok no problem. Go check out the recovery section then ? No no no just add me discord bruh...

He also told me he works as a Hotel Receptionist, but for some reason I didn't believe it, like my subconscious mind was telling me he just made it up. Maybe he really is just very lonely, who knows…

 

[Roseate]

I think we expects so much from a relationships as humans and it's not all it seems to be. People are cruel, there is no guarantee you'd even find someone likable, someone who wouldn't cheat. In our society, most people are toxic. They lie and cheat. They hurt others and don't even care. Especially now, it is about each person for themselves in a way that's not healthy. And sex just creates problems. Also plenty of 5 gets dated on website. Not all girls like chads. Most girls go for characteristics. I think most look for funny guys, not creepy funny. Most girls don't actually date guys that are 10. And girls care about looks less than guys. You have to have character tho. That's what matters more. But honestly you are lucky cuz no relationship means not getting hurt for some temporary happiness that never lasts because most relationship ends and most people (relationships or not) never get to experience love. Actual love. It's all a waste and a distraction to the fact that life is meaningless.

 

[squirley]

He also told me he works as a Hotel Receptionist, but for some reason I didn't believe it, like my subconscious mind was telling me he just made it up. Maybe he really is just very lonely, who knows…

Exactly. The " who knows " is very vast.
And the PM's I sent . Are very straight forward but empathetic. Like I said. I don't doubt that this person is working or having a hard time with certain areas of life.
And I showed empathy and understanding towards that.
But once I found out that 10 + people got the exact same msg it was like wtf ?
And then the crazy 10 year plan. With 100g"s of cash.
Come on.
Anyway whoever added him I hope. the best for the dude he obviously is confused about ctb and what's going on in his own life.

Ctb and recovery oddly mask each other.

Recovery and goals.
You need to put in the work. As unfair as it may be. And educate your self. And be dedicated.
Meds / meetings/ sober etc.

You can't expect everything. If you have nothing to offer. That is fucked up but fair.

CTB.
You need to educate yourself on methods that suit whatever resources you have available.

As cruel as this is. It's reality. Unfortunately.
And be sure your choice is your's and yours alone.

 

[MiMif]

Oh yeah, he wanted to chat with me, and we actually did.
As you'd expect, it was very offputting.

He seemed as if he was just lonely and wanting a friend, but it was quickly apparent he was only thinking I was a potential "Girlfriend", or rather, a mate, bc he always had the need to bring up how he would have sex every day with this girlfriend. He also made these empty complements about how I was a "cute girl" had a "nice voice" when he never saw nor herd me, so those words where artificial, empty, because it was literally impossible to appreciate these things.

In the short time we where talking, he outright ignored about half of what I was saying. I said that maybe he should get some male or non-romantic friends first, and he said he only needed/wanted that one girlfriend. I gave him the benefit of the doubt, however, I clarified that me and him would be just friends. Guess what he said then? He said he'd be fine talking with me for a few years then coming to me to be my boyfriend. WHAT? Really, things like that can happen, but he said it as if "This is how it'll go".

As we talked, it was apparent he wasn't interested in me, but this theoretical girlfriend, who'd basically be a doll to coddle him and have sex with him. I was just a vessel for that ideal, if becoming his girlfriend was unviable, or he believed I was a man, he would suddenly have zero interest. But that possibility isn't really different from the reality at all, again, having no interest in me as a person, only as his girlfriend.

I tried to talk about how has has some other problems, as he is shy and timid with social anxiety, but he still ignored all of that to try to somehow make me his gf.

Seems like he's hopeless, but at the same time, I wonder what's his real intention coming here. With his ban, it's possible he was reported for preying on vulnerable women within SaSu. I can't really say anything on if he's a predator or not. But I wouldn't be surprised, that nice attitude with all those empty complements could be him attempting to reel em' in before showing his true colors. It's common for abuses to be nice until you're actually in a relationship with them and invested.

If anyone else has something to bring to light about this guy, go ahead, especially if it shows why he was banned. Really sad people like this will try to infiltrate SaSu, and I doubt this is the last we'll see of this particular person. They'll just make another account and try again until something sticks.


While you could say he left willingly, and be technically correct, he really left to not deal with people disliking his conduct. As someone who talked with him, while I can't say he is a predator, while I could say he has many problems, and if it was latter confirmed he WAS a predator, it would certainly has some foreshadowing. Bro really trying to say he's not here to pick up girls when that's what he outright tried to do with me. Literally said he has zero interest in guy friends, only girl friends, especially in a romantic way.

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I prefer to be thought of as they/them online. I feel that people can place too much importance on gender even outside of love and sex. It's kinda weird how people tend to assume I'm a girl for some reason. I even had some guys ask if I was really a girl before doing what they clearly want to do.

Oh sorry for assuming then

 

[squirley]

Oh yeah, he wanted to chat with me, and we actually did.
As you'd expect, it was very offputting.

He seemed as if he was just lonely and wanting a friend, but it was quickly apparent he was only thinking I was a potential "Girlfriend", or rather, a mate, bc he always had the need to bring up how he would have sex every day with this girlfriend. He also made these empty complements about how I was a "cute girl" had a "nice voice" when he never saw nor herd me, so those words where artificial, empty, because it was literally impossible to appreciate these things.

In the short time we where talking, he outright ignored about half of what I was saying. I said that maybe he should get some male or non-romantic friends first, and he said he only needed/wanted that one girlfriend. I gave him the benefit of the doubt, however, I clarified that me and him would be just friends. Guess what he said then? He said he'd be fine talking with me for a few years then coming to me to be my boyfriend. WHAT? Really, things like that can happen, but he said it as if "This is how it'll go".

As we talked, it was apparent he wasn't interested in me, but this theoretical girlfriend, who'd basically be a doll to coddle him and have sex with him. I was just a vessel for that ideal, if becoming his girlfriend was unviable, or he believed I was a man, he would suddenly have zero interest. But that possibility isn't really different from the reality at all, again, having no interest in me as a person, only as his girlfriend.

I tried to talk about how has has some other problems, as he is shy and timid with social anxiety, but he still ignored all of that to try to somehow make me his gf.

Seems like he's hopeless, but at the same time, I wonder what's his real intention coming here. With his ban, it's possible he was reported for preying on vulnerable women within SaSu. I can't really say anything on if he's a predator or not. But I wouldn't be surprised, that nice attitude with all those empty complements could be him attempting to reel em' in before showing his true colors. It's common for abuses to be nice until you're actually in a relationship with them and invested.

If anyone else has something to bring to light about this guy, go ahead, especially if it shows why he was banned. Really sad people like this will try to infiltrate SaSu, and I doubt this is the last we'll see of this particular person. They'll just make another account and try again until something sticks.


While you could say he left willingly, and be technically correct, he really left to not deal with people disliking his conduct. As someone who talked with him, while I can't say he is a predator, while I could say he has many problems, and if it was latter confirmed he WAS a predator, it would certainly has some foreshadowing. Bro really trying to say he's not here to pick up girls when that's what he outright tried to do with me. Literally said he has zero interest in guy friends, only girl friends, especially in a romantic way.

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I prefer to be thought of as they/them online. I feel that people can place too much importance on gender even outside of love and sex. It's kinda weird how people tend to assume I'm a girl for some reason. I even had some guys ask if I was really a girl before doing what they clearly want to do.

Thank you for sharing this.
I hope that's enough proof for whoever was asking.

 

[Myforevercharlie]

Thank you for sharing this.
I hope that's enough proof for whoever was asking.

He was banned because we got multiple stories like this about this user.

Locking thread now.