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Mio03

Mio03

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Mar 7, 2021
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I want to send an email to him confessing my feelings. He doesn't know me, never talked to me. He lives in another country. He is an online guy and older than me. I need some help with what to say, I tried to not feel like I was writing it, but someone else, but I still feel jittery. I feel like I have to make it perfect but I want to express my true thoughts but my fear and butterfliee make it hard to put it into words knowing I'm talking about him. Can anyone help me with this? I don't want to keep telling myself I'll tell him and not because I was too nervous. I liked him for 3 years.
 
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MrHappyFace

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Aug 29, 2025
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Try to be flirty and friendly, curious, don't tell too much, and be more curious about how they are or how their life could compare or to work in same goals perhaps. If you share similar ideas or feelings about your dreams, they could inspire you both.
 
Mio03

Mio03

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Mar 7, 2021
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Try to be flirty and friendly, curious, don't tell too much, and be more curious about how they are or how their life could compare or to work in same goals perhaps. If you share similar ideas or feelings about your dreams, they could inspire you both.
He's the type of guy who isn't open to people, especially making new friends out of nowhere. He likes people who are nice to him, but I don't want to make it seem like I'm saying empty words. He never actually had a girlfriend or any romance ever. I like your ideas. What else could I say?
 
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MrHappyFace

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Aug 29, 2025
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He's the type of guy who isn't open to people, especially making new friends out of nowhere. He likes people who are nice to him, but I don't want to make it seem like I'm saying empty words. He never actually had a girlfriend or any romance ever. I like your ideas. What else could I say?
Huh... Do you know why he doesn't have gf? If he is shy, try to make him open up to you, show you are willing to listen, and show him kindness.
 
closetoyou

closetoyou

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Aug 19, 2025
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How did you know him for three years and he has no idea who you are?

I think, generally, confessions aren't advised as it just spills a lot of emotions on a person. Especially in this case, this person doesn't know who you are.

Regardless, you could just ask them out but not through a confession where you just put everything on the table. But that requires you just building a relationship first, be it just a friendly one/one where they actually know of you
 
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