I tried to make friends and had the police at my flat because of it!

[Lullaby]

That is how it should be. They serve us

We're volunteers. We don't serve anybody. We're not slaves and no one here is our boss.

Constructive criticism is completely fine, but we're still people.

 

[freedompass]

There is nothing wrong with being negative and there is nothing wrong with criticising the mods.

That is how it should be. They serve us and if the criticism is even 0.01% valid it is okay to be said.

Once again I am referring to this specific thread, not criticism in general. It can certainly be said, I am the last person to censor anyone.

So you feel they serve us. Maybe so but they are also human and as such fully entitled not to be perfect or have malign/dubious motives attributed to them that clearly don't exist.

 

[akirat9]

why only be negative ?

We're volunteers. We don't serve anybody. We're not slaves and no one here is our boss.

Constructive criticism is completely fine, but we're still people.

yes

 

[RainAndSadness]

That is how it should be. They serve us and if the criticism is even 0.01% valid it is okay to be said.

I strongly disagree with that sentiment. Without moderators, nothing would work here. They're people and suffering just like you. They're a part of the community and they're here for a reason.

 

[Unhirable]

I strongly disagree with that sentiment. Without moderators, nothing would work here. They're people and suffering just like you. They're a part of the community and they're here for a reason.

I get that but you guys need to be open to be criticized. It's part of the job description.

You have to deal with a bunch of depressed people who are miserable 24/7 cause their stomach hurts and they're not going to mince words for some moderators who are also feeling bad.

 

[freedompass]

Again, you can accept it as constructive given the things l described or you can ignore it and pretend it doesn't exist, l don't mind - just a bit weird for you to state this forum is shared equally between us whilst also suggesting l keep my trap shut about the tolerance of offensive content on this site until l evidence enough "vulnerability" to satisfy you. Maybe offer that scrutiny to the people who deliver that content, given you have also registered your discomfort with it.

I have reported content I found offensive several times in the last couple weeks. Sometimes I take the person to task on the forum too. I actually appreciate you calling out misogyny and bigotry where you see it. I've said nothing about keeping your trap shut and as for what you choose to reveal about yourself that is of course, your call.

 

[ge0rge]

people complaining about loneliness and lack of affection != incel diatribes. there's a difference between admitting you're lonely and blaming 99% percent of a sex and spewing nasty nasty shit. and no one thread made by a member with gender dysphoria is going to wash away the incel stench.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

people complaining about loneliness and lack of affection != incel diatribes. there's a difference between admitting you're lonely and blaming 99% percent of a sex and spewing nasty nasty shit. and no one thread made by a member with gender dysphoria is going to wash away the incel stench.

Why did you even write this?

 

[Suicidebydeath]

That is how it should be. They serve us and if the criticism is even 0.01% valid it is okay to be said.

I know they're banned now for trolling people's profiles and worse etc, but I can't get over how cringey their comment was.

 

[whatevs]

I know they're banned now for trolling people's profiles and worse etc, but I can't get over how cringey their comment was.

What?? If the criticism is only 0.0000001% valid it's okay to be said. Now where's my Piña Colada, mods? You serve me!

 

[Dot]

What?? If the criticism is only 0.0000001% valid it's okay to be said. Now where's my Piña Colada, mods? You serve me!

 

[Someone123]

OP was banned, he made some really offensive and disturbing comments- I hope he will find a way to get his life to be better and to be able to reltae to women better. He's not going to date a girl in their 20s or 30s when he is in his fifties, he needs to realize this. When will this thread ctb? I don't know why this thread is kept open when OP has been banned for weeks now.

 

[Myforevercharlie]

OP was banned, he made some really offensive and disturbing comments- I hope he will find a way to get his life to be better and to be able to reltae to women better. He's not going to date a girl in their 20s or 30s when he is in his fifties, he needs to realize this. When will this thread ctb? I don't know why this thread is kept open when OP has been banned for weeks now.

I totally agree.