psychosis
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- Nov 13, 2025
- 6
It feels like whenever I talk to my parents about anything (school or things I need from them usually), it morphs into a fight where they don't want to help me and would rather me handle it on my own and me wanting them to help me with something that will have no negative impact on their life at all but doesn't happen to follow the path they want me to follow for my life. When its not a fight and I'm trying to tell them something that is happening to me, they make assumptions and will not entertain a conversation if they cannot fix it or see a way to fix it. Its gotten to a point where I never talk about problems to them if I just want them to hear it and not try and fix it, making our relationship very transactional. Me and my Dad were just fighting about how he doesn't think I understand how school works just because I don't put 100% of my energy into demonstrating it to him. I understand a significant part of me is in the wrong for not understanding there side but I guess I feel like I should be able to ask for help sometimes and not get shot down every time. This is so stupid that I'm complaining about this but it is really hurting me and our relationship. Is there anything you guys would recommend me to do? Should I just shut the fuck up and try and handle it our do I need to actually express how I feel about this. It feels like so much is going wrong in my life and there's just nothing to do about it.
