Venting I dont understand people

[isthisit?]

Im looking around me and everyone I know has either really low limits or a weird obsession to tell someone everything.

I dont get it. Why? My friends cant live through a lot without breaking down and shutting off their brain. Ive lived through a lot of stressful weeks where shit has really hit the fan (I work in sound production for concerts) and I just keep living through them and coming out completely ok.

People, especially my gf, also wants to tell her parents or friends everything but, again, why?
Ive never had any temptation to tell anyone anything. It doesnt give me anything so why bother.

I keep feeling like everyone around me are aliens and that Im the one left out.

 

[MidnightCat]

Ive never had any temptation to tell anyone anything.

They may find it soothing, or they like the sensation of sharing it.. after all, humans are social creatures.

I'm fact.. that's the very reason forum exists in the first place.

Note that you came and told us your story now, is it really that different from them sharing theirs? Might not be exactly the same theme or context for sure, but I think it's not that much different.

I'm any case, people have vastly different opinions and ways to do things, and a lot of people may take your approach too, it's just that it's harder to "spot" from outside.

 

[NOT GLA1VE]

Im looking around me and everyone I know has either really low limits or a weird obsession to tell someone everything.

I dont get it. Why? My friends cant live through a lot without breaking down and shutting off their brain. Ive lived through a lot of stressful weeks where shit has really hit the fan (I work in sound production for concerts) and I just keep living through them and coming out completely ok.

People, especially my gf, also wants to tell her parents or friends everything but, again, why?
Ive never had any temptation to tell anyone anything. It doesnt give me anything so why bother.

I keep feeling like everyone around me are aliens and that Im the one left out.

its human nature. check if you have misantropothy. try to communicate with them...