Venting I don't stand up for myself anymore

[ultrasharpy123456]

If someone gets angry at me I let them. If I get bullied I just take it. Because everytime I fight back I'm the bad guy. You know it's exhausting trying to stand up for myself. And the more I fight back the angrier they get. There's just no point tbh

 

[absolomonisgone]

i give you bad advise but it always end up good if you fight back and fight back i mean beat somebody up you will be surprised how violence is very effective and it works every time because nobody expects you to use it and fight back because they expect you will walk away and do nothing so next time beat some sense into person that bully you and you will see the results because it works and i know because i make you all up in my brain

 

[ultrasharpy123456]

i give you bad advise but it always end up good if you fight back and fight back i mean beat somebody up you will be surprised how violence is very effective and it works every time because nobody expects you to use it and fight back because they expect you will walk away and do nothing so next time beat some sense into person that bully you and you will see the results because it works and i know because i make you all up in my brain

the worst part about that is that I freeze and then hours later I feel the anger. Unfortunately I am slow to anger.

 

[Storyteller]

the worst part about that is that I freeze and then hours later I feel the anger. Unfortunately I am slow to anger.

Same. It's frustrating, but I hope you can muster the courage to fight back. It's no good let them get away with it. And don't beat yourself up if you can't, I know how difficult it can be :(

 

[FuneralCry]

It's best just to try and avoid people altogether, it's true that most conflict is completely futile and human beings just create unnecessary harm. Humans certainly are responsible for so much of the suffering that exists here which is why of course being alone is for the best.